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Question

My new boyfriend bin all tryin to please me wich is nice I love the flatery, but I no about something that he did trying to be thoughtfull only it wasnt..in my eyes if this is true. He got me flowers that looked nicely put together but I heard he got them from a semitery. my cousin coby told me this. I am creeped out by this but I dont want to offend my boyfriend...how do I go about this??? ALSO: I would never want to beleive bull**** like this but I no that it MIGHT...be true caus my new boyfriend has no money but maybe 10 bucks to his name. He's looking for new work...so what do I do

FACTS:

1. My boyfriend doesnt have that much money, where di they really come from????
2. Coby doesnt really like my boyriend his name is bones btw and so is he making this up????????

me=confused

I dont want them on display in my window if they are from a place like this :(

I dont want to attract spirits/etc

Answer 1

YOU SHOULD GET RID OFF THEM!!!!

LIKE YOU SAY THEY COULD ATTRACT GHOSTS AND SPIRITS

( AND WHEN I SAY SPIRITS I DONT MEAN RUM BUNDLE ) !!!


all the best
Ian :)

Answer 2

When the flowers stop coming youll wish hed bring them from the garbage can. It doesnt come naturally to men to bring flowers and these "thoughtful" little things women so effortlessly do. Its a job for them. But they do it because the really want to make us happy. Dont say anything about the flowers. Theyll be dead like the place they came from in a few days. Throw them in the trash and forget about it. Its so unimportant. Enjoy the thought. Cherish him. It was a very sweet gesture that he even wanted to bring you something. The day will come where you will miss that thoughfulness. Dont look for the negative. Tell your cousin the next time he wants to deliver a negative message, deliver it to his girl becuase youre not interested. What was the point of him telling you that? Jealousy would be my guess. My next guess would be I bet if you did display those flowers proudly your boyfriend would be so pleased he might want to bring you flowers more often. When he does you could mention you prefer them bought or even picked from a garden. Hell get it without you making him feel unappreciated or foolish. The only spirits you will attract is ones who think its sweet. Why would a spirit care if he took the flowers? I know I dont.

Answer 3

firstly hun the flowers will not attract spirits etc.....and if ya boyfriend did do this... well maybe cus hes got no money he still wanted to treat you, just think for a sec, how did he feel having to do that cus he couldnt afford to buy you some, maybe he fely ashamed, hes got you and cant buy you stuff, and if he saw these lovely flowers and thought of you then i think thats kinda sweet in its own little way.....it might not be true, it could be a case of ya cousin lying cus he dont like him, but hey.... if ya dont wanna hurt ya bfs feelings by confonting him then leave well alone....acept what ya cousin said with a pinch of salt i mean what was he doing at the cemetry ??....the flowers yes were laid for someone who died dont get me wrong but in all honesty, if that person would still be alive and had a heart do you think they would realy mind a man in love wanting to treat his gf cus he had no money......just thank him for the sweet gesture as he may have lent the money off someone.

Answer 4

I would still be careful, ghost scare me so much. I'd bring them to the cemetary, even if its night just eave it on someones stone by the front. Im sure they'd enjoy the thougtful surprise.

Answer 5

coby might not have made it up. your bf might just have wanted to give you something so much that he resorted to giving you something out of the cemetery. :)
i dont really know, sorry. maybe you could ask your boyfriend (nicely, and in an un-freaked out way). :))

Answer 6

i get my girlfriends cemetary flowers all the time.

i had my date carry a casket wreath to prom. she kinda looked like she just won the kentucky derby, but hey, it was free.