ok heres my story i was 17 and this 29 yr old beg to marry me and wrote me poems and song and told me he alwyas gonna be there fo me no matter what and i fell in love with him and give him 100% trust, he promised i was gonna beable to go to college well to keep him happy i end up workin 2 jobs trying to pay most of the bills and then 8 months later he started to treat me bad cuase alot of bills was coming and he was stressin, well i got into this bad car accident where my car wen under a semi trailer, ad he wasn there for me , put his new car sales man job be4 me didnt want to take me to the hospital! so i left cus i was shocked and i left, next day i tried to work thing out he didnt want nothing to do with me, then i found out i waspregnant and he didnt care wither, well after 7wks ihad a miscarrige, we've bin separated for 2 months and he dont want nothingto do with me! he backstab me, how can i get over this? does karma really happen? is there achance he will be back??
2007-12-06 17:53:27 · 8 answers · asked by rhea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he is not coming back and you need to learn from what happened and not fall so fast for someone next time. You need to move on and someone else will come along and make you very happy.
2007-12-06 17:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about him wanting to come back but move on and do those things you would have done had he not been a jerk. Figure out what you want to go to college for and go. If he does want to come back, it will be after he sees you making more money and it will only be because he wants some of that. thre is a good web site that may help you but consideer yourself lucky that he isn't there still wanting money from you. you kissed a frog but now it is time to find the prince and you will be somewhere in life better but he will still be selling cars when people are not buying them because of gas prices and that will be his Karma!! good luck to you!
2007-12-07 03:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were to young. He should have been supporting you, and like he promised you should have been going to college. However, things change sometimes when you say I do. I don't really think that he will come back. Karma does happen, but do you really want the king of life that you were having before he left? Sign up for college, keep yourself busy and things will get easier for you. Being apart for two months, it doesn't sound like he cares too much, and the accident that you had and he wouldn't take you to the hospital, it doesn't sound like he loves you as much as you love him. Move on with your life. Keep yourself busy, it will get easier for you.
2007-12-07 02:10:08 · answer #3 · answered by doodle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are young and spunky. You are also brave. So pick up the pieces of your life and move on. No man is worth that much pain and sacrifice.
You need to be more confident. It sounds like you need someone to tell you how much they love you to be happy. You can be happy without that special someone.
Just do what you like to do. Work for a living and I am sure true love will find it's way.
As for karma, give as much love as you can and it will be returned to you. I personally feel that you reap the benefits of your karma in this life.
2007-12-07 02:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by babasbhakta 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, this type of story if often told.
Learn from it and start planning your life for a better future. Get educated and a good career going. Go to church, pray, and read your Bible. Make nice friends. Have a hobby like music or quilting or something else you enjoy. Save money.
Don't be too quick to trust another man for awhile because there are even worse ones out there and as you gain experience and make observations, you will be able to make wiser choices.
Joy to you!
2007-12-07 02:13:02 · answer #5 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hold your head up high and walk away, Sweetheart. If there is such a thing as Karma, then yes, it will come back on him. More importantly though, someone is looking out for you and you've found out now what a jerk he is rather than down the road when you're deep into the relationship. You are young and you have so much to look forward to. Walk away. Good luck.
2007-12-07 02:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by Shannon H 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure right now you're feeling like life couldn't get any worse. I'm terribly sorry for your lost. I went through something similar. I highly recommend you to read...books really help. I started to read memoirs. They're books that are based on real person tragedies and how they struggled and found inspiration to over come their real life obstacles. You can also try to surround yourself with positive people who inspire and support you. And I also recommend you to talk, open up and share you thoughts, emotions. It the oldest therapy and one of the most effective! Final thought....GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT, take it from someone that's been through something just like you! Life has other plan instore for you.
2007-12-07 02:09:14 · answer #7 · answered by nano 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i believe that everything happens for a reason. I know its hard, but move on. Even if he ends up wanting you back. If you do go back, you could end up regretting it years from now. Your still young and probably beautiful......you can find anyone. Good luck hun. Let the loser go.....once he sees you happy, he'll realize what he lost.
2007-12-07 02:04:55 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Kristen♥ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋