When you have a husband who downright refuses to do things right just because, do you accept it or have a talk about it? What if the talk doesn't get you anywhere?
Let's say he refuses to do something ... period. Because he doesn't like doing it. You specifically ask him to help you in that area and he agrees, but never takes action.
I am talking housework here. He only likes to wash the dishes, and he doesn't like doing that -- that's just what's easiest for him. He doesn't sweep. He doesn't mop. He washes the dishes and cleans off the countertops. He doesn't clean the kitchen table either.
When I talked to people about it before and asked questions about it on here, people tell me to back off. Relax. He's a man. That's how men are. But should I accept that? No, you can't change people but should you accept someone PURPOSELY going against the grain. If you don't know something you should ask, right?
Obviously, I can't get into an argument about everything.
2007-12-06
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