I am not, & I feel a heap of guilt for wanting more from a relationship. Is it really better to be comfortable in an ok relationship than alone searching for the best match we can find??
2007-12-06 19:10:00 · 22 answers · asked by *dream weaver* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relationships are all about decisions. People may want you for certain attributes, but in time they'll soon find out something about you that they may not like... But instead stay for the reason because that they love you for who you are. If you think that this is not how you feel, then I'd suggest that you leave your relationship and enjoy your single life. Don't commit until you are ready to do so... The best match is the person that you want to be with because you chose to...
2007-12-06 19:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by pat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you EVER find a way to be 100% satisfied in a relationship - LET ME KNOW. I will market the product and we will make Billions !!!
I understand you feeling, but I doubt that you or anybody else on the planet will be 100% satisfied ALL THE TIME.
By the nature of your question, I can tell that you are not psycologically ready for marriage yet, but your state-of-mind will change over the years and the intensity for a perfect relationship will subside.
That is a normal question and what you are experiencing at this time is NORMAL>
2007-12-07 03:17:16 · answer #2 · answered by Elliott J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not 100% satisfied in my relationship, but I have no idea of how I would achieve that mark if I were given the choice. I'd probably just make things worse by being too selfish.
I just strive to try to improve and be happy in any circumstances. I also try to concentrate on the good things that my husband does for the family.
It's not always easy to do, but in the end, I think about people who are in worse situations, then everything seems to be brought into perspective.
2007-12-07 03:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by Ladyhawke 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey don't feel bad. You're being REAL. Want is a need, and need is something you must have. A relationship can always turn into something more and you don't want to have a need left empty. I say its never good to be totally alone. But you must always be looking for the best match.
2007-12-07 03:14:06 · answer #4 · answered by Romero Hunt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will never feel 100% satisfied with your relationship. Because you are 2 different persons and in someways you will have different habits, attitude, personalities, opinion etc. But you can make your relationship last with good communication, understanding and compromising
2007-12-07 03:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People get lost in trivial everyday matters worth forgetting about. They must do the right thing and let go sometimes. Other times, you have to stand up for yourself, but do it in a constructive way without hate and intense anger. Forget it if you are called rude or arrogant. It is sidestepping the issue. Arrogance and rudeness can be forgiven and made up for. As for satisfaction, what happens in the long run is more important than toilet paper, coffee and dirty floors.
2007-12-07 03:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no one cant be....they say that they are....but actually they are not....bcoz nothing is perfect.....well even a single individual cant be perfect....so there is no scope of a relation 2 be perfect......if we get something from a relationship we always desire for more(thats man pysocology) and when we dont get more we are dissappointed for that.....actually we dont get more everytime we desire bcoz there is always a limit of everything....and things do stops somewhere.....
the best thing u can do to yourself,to your partner....to your relationship is just that accept the things you are receiving from the other end in the way they are.....and try to return the same happiness to your partner in a bit more amount.....but never expect the same....i know its difficult...but never do that if u want to be happy....coz if your partner doesnt realise what u want ....u would moan again and again wont be satisfied.....
so the moral of the story is.....
give your best but dont expect the best....give more & more & more love but dont expect anything more than love....if your partner loves you he/she will return you the same intensive love.....
2007-12-07 03:23:37 · answer #7 · answered by chinmay.saini 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not 100% satisfied, mainly because I do not have the time to spend with her that I want to spend with her. I'm working on getting to that 100% though.
So, it's mainly because she and I are in two different stages in our lives. But, I couldn't be happier and more lucky to belong to someone like Her. <3
2007-12-07 03:16:34 · answer #8 · answered by pertinential 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i use to think the same thing...i was dating a girl for 2 years...she was fun i was totally comfortable in the relationship..plus she was going to be rich from her family....but it was never enough for me....i will not stop searching for whats best for me...she wasnt.....i dont think anyone can be 100% satisfied lol
2007-12-07 03:15:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, being 100 percent satisfied in every way in your relationship would say your relationship is perfect... and nothings perfect. Is there EVER anyone satisfied 100 percent in EVERY way in their relationship? I highly don't think that would be possible.... IMO.
2007-12-07 03:15:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋