actually,
situation is this
my neihbour(1) told me somthing about my neihbour(2)
i told that to my neihbour(2)
now,my neihbour?(1) doesnt tell me any secrat about anyone
what to do.....
i have lost her faith\
and i want it back
2007-12-06 19:55:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
try being u only
u will definatey gain her faith back
2007-12-07 02:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to take a look at the drama here first. Why would you want to know everyone's secrets? It's really none of anyones business anyway. I try to remember to tell people that I don't want to know about other peoples business. Nothing good ever comes from gossip. Once you figure out why you want to gossip, you may be able to go back to your friend and just talk about yourself and her. The only time I listen is if someone needs help and what can I do.
peace
2007-12-07 04:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by Linda B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to earn it back.... and you may never get it back.
You broke the one neighbor's trust. You have to accept the consequences for your actions. The next time the one neighbor shares some gossip with you about another, don't go blabbing about it to the person who is the subject of the gossip.
It's just sort of a common assumption that when Person A tells you a secret about Person B, you don't tell Person B what Person A said about them.
2007-12-07 04:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by Laibach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to prove her i can be loyal and it wont haoppen again, plus if u regret it... u made a mistake, u r human u make mistakes just make her see it wont happen again and u r sorry, ask her for a 2nd shot
2007-12-07 03:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by Tiph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never do like that. Always try to not to cheat others. Others secrets should not be told to anyone.
2007-12-07 03:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by Ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have lost her trust
and yep - you're gonna pay for that!
it will take some time - if it were me
until a certain place froze over
sorry
fool me once shame on you - fool me twice shame on me
I will not take the shame
2007-12-07 03:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by tom4bucs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her over the next five years that you can be trusted. Maybe by then you will be stronger.
2007-12-07 03:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by Plain and Simple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there probably isn't anything to do to get neighbor(1)'s faith back. Just remember this for future reference.
2007-12-07 03:59:07 · answer #8 · answered by SnOwBuNnY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take candy or flowers to her/him and talk tell everything you feel.
2007-12-07 03:59:17 · answer #9 · answered by Artur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never will you get it back
2007-12-07 03:58:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋