Im 20s student.A guy mid 30s met online(2000).Hes family friends son from decades.He had gang relations so was thrown out of home lived with friends in same apt as me we never met then went abroad.Games were played lies told but we never met(thank god).I left 2yrs due to ops he was with me through it.He flirts on married relative by txtsms who left abusing him after being found out,he calls chats with my pals who rejected advances.I know about it but said nothing.We shared gifts.We are good friends 5yrs love was 1 sided.I end it told him im leaving for good.Hes gone crazy screams abuses calls names put his gang on speaker phone told them to hurt my family said has cards sent for his bday recorded voice tells everyone im after him.My cousins told him family secrets which i found out from him.Hes told cousin to tell my mother.We have never met.5yrs no love not met so i put end to whatever.Why is he acting this way after 5yrs what do i do?what do u think?
2007-12-06 18:50:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's a p.o.s.thug,he's acting the way you always knew he acted.You're surprised he's doing his thing on you now?That's the way p.o.s. thugs ARE,when things go wrong,turn the situation violent!It was only a matter of time.When you get tired of this s**t,stop dating thugs.Easy.
2007-12-06 19:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your writing is confusing but here goes according to what I think you are asking...Stalking is a crime. Harassing you/following you online is cyber stalking. Go to the Domestic Violence Agency in your town. Or call the Domestic Violence (in the front page of your phone book) if you can. Most women who are murdered know their murderer or the ex who hires a hit man. Wait a minute-hit man? it just hit me-call the police!!! they can set up a sting operation where they set him up to hire an undercover officer posing as a hit man. Then he goes to jail for that which is a more serious crime than domestic violence laws. Domestic Violence agencies will help you from getting a protection order to referrals for programs to help you get on your feet. leaving a relationship is the most dangerous time for women-He doesn't love you in a way that is in your best interest-He is a control freak as we call them...Use all resources you can to help you get away safely. If his family left take it seriously,for who knows him better than his family and his ex? Be Safe! Let us know how it goes...
2016-05-21 23:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've read this before. You need a hobby. Something other than this.
2007-12-06 18:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz he is possessive, he odesnt love you but he doesnt want any1 else to have you either
2007-12-06 19:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by angelz@princess265 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋