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Whats the best way to deal with drama queen behaviour? in both adults and children?

2007-12-06 20:07:19 · 14 answers · asked by Jess007 1 in Family & Relationships Family

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2007-12-06 20:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

For adults, ignore it.

For children, call them on it.

Children are far more susceptible or inclined to persuasion... You can make an impact on them far more easily. I used to be a drama queen when I was little until my dad once called me on it and embarassed me in front of a few people. The event opened my eyes and made me feel ashamed. Now I don't make a big spectacle of things.

Adults are hopeless. Once they've learned a certain behavior, it's hard to change. They need to be classically conditioned like the dogs in Pavlov's experiment. They have to learn that making everything into a production will not grant them a desirable response.

Don't even dignify it with your attention.

2007-12-06 20:12:53 · answer #2 · answered by Laibach 3 · 0 0

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2016-11-14 18:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Dont pander to it and try your best to ignore the person when they are in the middle of a drama as attention is what they crave. Don't give ground for peace because as soon as you do it is just a small step to give more. Don't put you out or get involved in any dramas as it just feeds the beast.

2007-12-06 20:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well, the best thing to do is not to follow along. For example, if they want to argue with you for hours (it happened to me) just don't. If by any chance it's a through a phone call and they begin disrespecting you by using all kinds of foul language simply tell them that when they are ready to respect then you'll speak to them and just hang up. Until they say ok I'm calm now don't talk to them cause they can keep you on the phone for hours swearing and disrespecting you. It happened to me and my mistake was trying to argue right back (does not work).

2007-12-06 20:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by ILLPaPi 1 · 0 0

Totally ignore it,leave the room and only respond when they behaviour you expect happens, Failing that try some humour...as soon as the behaviour starts start laughing at them,,,,or start singing a weird song,....loudly

2007-12-06 20:11:32 · answer #6 · answered by stilllooking45 2 · 1 0

Tell them that there is no need to dramatize the situation. If it is really important, just tell you straight out. In the case, there always something "terrible" going on, just tell them that they are making mountains out of a mole hills. When they ask you why you said that, just tell them that they are always making a big deal out of small sh#t. Stress can kill, and you hate to see them so stressed out all of the time.

With children, just tell them to get to the point. Tell them that there is no need to make a big deal out of everything. If that does not work, tell them that until they calm down, you can not understand what the problem is. Then walk away.

2007-12-06 20:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0 0

for kids, ignore! it's called tantrums!
for adults, probably they are with personality disorders...you have the following options:
When they start their tantrums, tell them you will come later on when they are calmer to discuss it like grown ups...if the tantrums are less in intensity, listen to them, acknowledge their feelings, but take no guilt or blame from them...for example, if they say something like 'YOU made me do it', you show empathy and understanding that they are suffering, but acknowldege that they carry full responsiblity for their actions.

2007-12-06 20:18:46 · answer #8 · answered by HopeH 4 · 0 0

Stay clear, drama is just that and so unnecessary. God Bless.

2007-12-06 21:25:06 · answer #9 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0 0

Do not feed into it by asking "whats wrong", when its clear they are in one of their moods. Simply ignore it, until they see that their crap does not work on you.

2007-12-06 20:11:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ignore them and don't get them any attention. that's all they want, once they realize they aren't recieving attention the "acts/bursts" will become smaller and less noticable.

2007-12-06 20:54:10 · answer #11 · answered by erica_a_quintero 3 · 0 0

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