2007-12-06 19:44:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
a friend is in this situation, I need matured answers from men and women
2007-12-06 19:51:03 · update #1
From my experience, there are two reasons why a wife will deny husband sex and they are as follows:
1) When she is experiencing dryness and takes alot of effort to penetrate, that is after using alot of lub.....
2) When she has found another man outside the matrimonial home.
Conclusively, at times, when there is no more money to spend, and this issue sometimes cause gape in communication and love will go sour.
2007-12-06 20:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by joe 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Were each of the children planned, and how close are they? Perhaps she doesn't want to go through the pain of childbirth again, or feels that she can't cope with more children and thinks the only way to ensure that is not to have sex.
Perhaps she's exhausted, and has no energy for it. Is she overwhelmed? Tired? Doing it all?
Perhaps she feels that all she is is a mother and housekeeper, and doesn't feel the loving connection with her husband exists anywhere outside the bedroom for him, so she's not feeling romanced out of it. For women the heat in the bedroom is lit by the warmth of every little thing done during the day (the thank yous, the I love yous, the let me help you, put your feet up baby, I'll get/do that), not just in the bedroom.
Has sex become yet another chore she has to get done before she can rest?
2007-12-06 20:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i myself desire that he did no longer supply you with something, so sorry you're able to pass with the aid of this! you realize, there are 2 roads to make a decision from -- attempt to save the marriage and stay at the same time, or get divorced. He will possibly no longer want to stay married even nevertheless he's attempting to make this better for you. If he had a 4 month courting with somebody who nevertheless the replaced into unmarried then he somewhat has some intense issues. it could take distinctive counseling to convey this around yet once you the two want to attempt then you could. in case you don' t want to stay at the same time, that's no longer consistently better to faux it for the babies. that's better to have wholesome, solid, solid functionality sort moms and dads who understand one yet another after a divorce.
2016-12-30 13:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is BS. Spouses shouldn't deny each other. That's part of the cost of monogomy. If you can't satisfy the other then what's the point?
A wife should not deny her husband nor should a husband deny his wife. After a short time of that, it's time to go elsewhere. This is just unhealthy and not worth staying for.
Life is short.
Good luck.
2007-12-06 20:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by DearAbby 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
a)It’s a friend’s marriage so its none of your business – remember you are asking on behalf of the two of them but you only have permission from one.
b)Approaching sex like it’s something the husband (or wife) is entitled to is what causes sexual dissatisfaction to both parties. It must be a statement of love between both parties.
c)So, if one partner doesn’t want it the other person is not entitled to it.
d)Therefore the only solution is for them – between themselves – to work this out and figure how they can enjoy a healthy sex life together and express the love they feel for each other.
e)The number of kids is not, in itself, a reason.
f) Remember its none of your business o post this unless you have eprmission from both of them or, as is more likely, the subject is actually you.
2007-12-06 20:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by Paul M 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She should not unless she just wants him to cheat. She is selfish beyond reason. She obviously does not care about her husbands feelings and needs. She may say she does, but we all know that talk is cheap.
2013-10-22 06:46:48 · answer #6 · answered by Melani 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try and adop new methods. Used methods regularly makes bored and might have lost her interest in sex. There's a proven method... tell her to fantacise while engaging in sex with you that someone else is having sex with her. She is bored with you and lost interest and not in others.
2007-12-06 19:52:36 · answer #7 · answered by BLOWHOT 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She should never deny him - as he should never deny her. Sex is integral to marriage. Is it possible there is a physical problem? If not, is she angry with him about something? I have known women who have withheld sex as a weapon of sorts. They need to get to the real problem - the lack of sex is a symptom.
2007-12-06 19:51:46 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
She shouldn't. Maybe she's bored with the routine. Maybe four kids have made her stressed and tired.
2007-12-06 19:48:44 · answer #9 · answered by marincaligirl 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the thrill is gone? Perhaps she has a low sex drive... maybe she doesn't respect you anymore?
Maybe you could ask her?
2007-12-06 19:47:56 · answer #10 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋