How do you spark up the sex life after kids and being with the same guy FOREVER!?
2007-12-06 20:09:54 · 1 answers · asked by Jess007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You make the relationship deeper. Life isn't all sex, comformity, and apathy, duh. Theres deeper meanings to the reasons we do the things we do, neglecting that, well is your problem, no offense. But you think just the actions of having kids, having sex, and being commited, makes a good relationship, well your wrong. It takes an honest dialogue between individuals that trust each other to a point that they tell all their fears, dreams, ambitions, experiences, ideas, hopes, beliefts, etc, etc. You basically go off on each other about how your heart feels, in a heart-felt way, if your not close to crying sometimes, your doing something wrong. But again neglecting the deepness that could be your guys conversation is your problem, stuff like that excites the sex and makes taking care of the kids mean more then just taking care of kids...... if you've made it to that point, its time to bring it to a purpose DEEPER then just having sex and taking care of kids. But the cool catch-22 of it all, is thats your problem, you have no greater purpose then that.....
2007-12-07 05:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋