Family & Relationships - 2 December 2007

so, I live with my dad. it's at least a 20 minute drive to the closest store. I don't have a job. I have a 2 year old son. I don't get child support BUT his father buys his diapers, food, etc. I don't have ANY money, any credit cards, and no one in my family is willing to buy me a car... or give me ANY help whatsoever. The father of my child doesn't want to sign to get me a loan for a car. I understand that my family/boyfriend is trying to protect their credit but I'm constantly getting pelted and nagged about not having a job. How am I supposed to get a job, a car, and/OR childcare if I have nothing to start from? Also, I don't really have any close friends... so I can't ask anyone for a ride. I'm always stuck in the woods with my son. Everyone treats me like I'm a bum, but it's not that I don't WANT a job... I just don't know what to do. How am I supposed to even look for a job if I don't have a ride? And then, I'd have to pay for a baby-sitter... it's frustrating. Any suggestions?

2007-12-02 23:57:36 · 9 answers · asked by Me 2 in Family

ok, my great gram died friday morning about the time i was getting ready for school. can anybody give me any ideas to do so i can get my mind off of her?

2007-12-02 23:41:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-02 23:19:02 · 14 answers · asked by kaylapolin 1 in Friends

2007-12-02 23:18:42 · 9 answers · asked by random.princess 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-02 23:16:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have only been married 3 years now. I do love her in a real way but not the most passionate mix between us. I am looking at other girls at work but i have always done that. I dont touch I just flirt a little.

The real problem has baecome her family. There are 9 females in her close family. They make a fuss over me alot. One of her Aunts is a very big woman. Huge breasts that i cant help stare at. When she hugs me when I am sitting down she squishes me with them. The last 2 visits for dinner have left the tip of my willie a little wet with that pre come. I cant tell my wife this as she will most likely over react. I just want her aunt to strip down and feed me and stroke me to sleep. I dont think i want to screw her.

I like sex with my wife but her aunt makes me wet and want to succle a while too. I am not sure this means that I have or even want to cheat.

Can you help me kick out these wonderous thoughts that i have?

Thanks

2007-12-02 23:13:35 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

why when you have a gf or whatever and you mention another woman to them why is it they think you are sleeping with them is it because they really feel it or just want to cause trouble?

2007-12-02 23:12:31 · 12 answers · asked by dustbin31 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-02 23:02:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Even I choose very kind and sweet girl, everyone will change their personality in the future. There are mean girls who changed to nice girl after she got nice boyfriend. There are sweet girl who changed to alcoholic, mean girls.
I used to dream to find a girl who is sweet, but it seems imposible.

2007-12-02 22:51:07 · 14 answers · asked by Ursachen der Witschaftskrise 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-02 22:50:07 · 7 answers · asked by Polash 2 in Friends

I know I'm really short. I'm 15, 4ft 10 and a half (how do you write that?? 4"10 1/2"? Does that look right?), and I've stopped growing - I haven't grown more than 10cm for years. I think, over the rest of my "growing years", I might shoot up another few cms, but that's about it.

I come from a short family, my mum's around 5ft, my big sister's the same, and my dad's probably 5'3" or something.

People have been asking all these questions about "are they too short?" and they're all OVER 5'4". I mean, HELLO??

I have guy friends who are way, way, way, over 6ft, and I only come up to almost mid-chest on them. Sometimes I feel like a midget. But I'm not.

If you were a guy, would you go out with me, or am I too short? For you? I know I'm short.

2007-12-02 22:47:17 · 17 answers · asked by Tallie 5 in Singles & Dating

if the girl wanted to meet u at the park how do u pull off the first kiss so that its remember able ???? or other sudgestions

2007-12-02 22:22:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i asked this guy i liked [ i didnt know i liked him at the time]] on msn who he fancied n he said that i was awesome

but whats confused me is that Another time i asked [ only coz he asked me] he said no1

so anyone have any ideas on what he ment by saying im aweosme

thanks!!
[[please be polite!]

2007-12-02 22:18:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A customer asked me to put the song of a famous singer in her wedding video. I told her that I can be sued for using copyrighted materials, and I gave her the alternative of free-royalty music. She refused it. So, I explain her that if she can get the permissions to use that song and be the only responsible for any complaints I will put that in the contract and she will have the song in the DVD .She told me that since I am the one getting the copyright of the final wedding DVD the responsible is my company because the song will be in the video.
She wants me to put that in the contract. What now? I dont want to get in trouble.
It would be Ok if from now on I only offer free royalty music? It will solve all my problems. What about the other videographers? I have noticed that they put all the songs available in the market. What are your inputs about this?

2007-12-02 22:16:18 · 5 answers · asked by mefistofeles 1 in Weddings

it was my ex husbanbd, when i lived w/ him, just curiso if tis was normal or a sign that something was wrong.

2007-12-02 21:59:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2 years married.. no children.. im still the same person ! i didnt lose or gained weight. sex once or twice a month. :( i want to enjoy sex and i also want to have kids from him. hes so lazy i dont know what to do

2007-12-02 21:43:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

About 3months ago I saw my Dad for the second time in my living memory as my Mum and him split up when I was very young. Now I was telling my Dad about my exgirlfriend and he had the same problem with his girlfriend and she dumped him because she thought my Dad was too old for her(my Dad's 36 and his girlfriend's 17, which is a little weird because she could be my older sister at that age, although I don't have an older sister) so my Dad got a new girlfriend to make her jealous and then they got back together and they haven't had a problem since and he said I should do this with my exgirlfriend, Charley because we split up for the same reason 6months ago only our age difference is a lot smaller(I'm 15 and she's 12) and we've had this problem twice as Charley kept changing her mind and we went out twice and I got dumped twice but we're still bestfriends even though I haven't got over her. Now I do get what my Dad's saying but I don't want to go out with someone just to get Charley back because that would be using the other girl and I don't like using peopleand that would make me look like a bad person which I not and I don't know whether to do what my Dad says or just wait until Charley can get over our age gap.
What should I do, do what my Dad says or carry on with what I'm doing at the moment?

2007-12-02 21:24:05 · 16 answers · asked by Lily R 6 in Singles & Dating

If I ever have a son I am going to name him Piero, what could kids call him to make fun of his name in school? Do you like this name? Be honest!

2007-12-02 21:16:57 · 9 answers · asked by stroberocksluv 1 in Singles & Dating

This is a riddle i am trying to work out if anyone can help.

2007-12-02 20:39:46 · 21 answers · asked by Teresa P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this is a FACT: i seriously only attract the kind of guys that play vid games all day long and they look really smart, but actually aren't. I can get the guys i don't want, but i can never get the guy i actually am aiming for! gr! anyone know why? i think i'm an overall nice person, you know, the kind that's friendly to everyone. Some say i'm flirty, but if i am, i don't even notice it and i'm the same with every guy, unless i really like a guy, then maybe i get a little but more giddy..?

2007-12-02 20:32:13 · 18 answers · asked by ♥ ♥ ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-02 20:27:28 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

, he learned that if he reported someone suspicious they would (lost prevention) focus there attention on that person, and send the undercover on duty around him to, and focus cameras and all on him. so he reported a person to them, while at the same time told his friend to go and steel something from the other side of the store. is this manipulating or smart?

2007-12-02 20:15:45 · 15 answers · asked by Tim M 1 in Singles & Dating

what comes first getting intimate physicalness like hugging kissing and holding eachother(not requiring sex) and being romantic or first telling eachother you love eachother. I think it is not exact but usually i think you have to kiss someone and makeout a couple of times and all before you can say you love them.

2007-12-02 20:04:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love her though, lol

2007-12-02 19:46:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband has a porn addiction but hes not very good at talking about it. I would like to know if its real how do I deal and if its not how to know if hes just a willy driven male

2007-12-02 19:40:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i wanna concentrate on my studies but wen i cant,i waste my time as if it were a luxury. i cant face my parents n lie on their face wen they ask me wat i was doin the whole day?

2007-12-02 19:38:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

In May this year, I discovered my husband had been having an affair after a series of text messages from his "liason". When confronted, he denied vehemently but finally revealed that it was ONLY a one night stand (yah right). My gut felt strongly that it was more than one night. After severe humiliating family intervention (including the priest who married us), I decided to let it go. He blamed alcohol.
However, for seven months, I didnt buy the story. Lst wek I stumbled upon an email from his brother saying that he had ALL the details of the affair..when I confronted my husband, again he confessed that it actually happend THRICE! His brother said the other woman told him it happend TWICE. Its a web of lies and deceit and I want out of this anger, hurt, pain.
We have been married three years and have two kids. I always felt he married me out of obligation because I fell pregnant. Why would a man who claims to love you cheat within the first year of marriage? Is he really committed

2007-12-02 19:33:35 · 17 answers · asked by Samara 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating him for about six months. We see each other exclusively. I know that he doesn't want to be in a seriouse relationship(means thinking about getting married and all that..) but we've been having great time together. I want to give him something nice for this Christmas since he's been such a wonderful guy but I don't know what to give... I am a full time student and he knows I don't have a lots of money. on the other hand he is a very successful guy so he doesn't really need me to get him anything. I know that Christmas gift should be something from my heart and not how much it cost but please help me out with some good idea plz!

2007-12-02 19:30:21 · 8 answers · asked by runninpuppy 1 in Singles & Dating

yep, she has a gf, she's bi, she's freaking sweet and sexy, and we broke up a month ago and still friends.. but i haven't meet her since then.. i am scheduled to meet her next week.. what to do so she won't notice that i am still inlove with her.. help please.. thanks a lot.

2007-12-02 19:27:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had an extra vowel hidden behind my back as we were playing scrabble. Will she ever trust me again?

2007-12-02 19:22:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce