I have only been married 3 years now. I do love her in a real way but not the most passionate mix between us. I am looking at other girls at work but i have always done that. I dont touch I just flirt a little.
The real problem has baecome her family. There are 9 females in her close family. They make a fuss over me alot. One of her Aunts is a very big woman. Huge breasts that i cant help stare at. When she hugs me when I am sitting down she squishes me with them. The last 2 visits for dinner have left the tip of my willie a little wet with that pre come. I cant tell my wife this as she will most likely over react. I just want her aunt to strip down and feed me and stroke me to sleep. I dont think i want to screw her.
I like sex with my wife but her aunt makes me wet and want to succle a while too. I am not sure this means that I have or even want to cheat.
Can you help me kick out these wonderous thoughts that i have?
Thanks
2007-12-02 23:13:35 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
These thoughts cannot be kicked out. I know this sounds like a bad opener, but there are different approaches to this. It seems that you've handled this situation very well so far. Just the fact that you are able to recognize that something is wrong shows that you're rational and still able to control these feelings and thoughts. Let us get the obvious alternatives out of the way such as masturbation. It seems useless because you dont want to have sex with her. You want to be petted by her. You want to be taken care by her. You want to be cuddled by her. Seems like fantasies. To me, it seems like you have some troubles being intimate(communicating and sexually) with your wife and that you have some fetishes for big framed women. You seem to miss touches, hugs, and kisses. If something about your feelings or relationships with your wife is unclear, i suggest you clear them up. Take chances and talk to your wife instead of predicting her reactions. Don't talk about your aunt straight away, but start with surrounding or clouding issues that may be in the way of your intimacies. It is important to rid completely the mental wall towards your wife and open up no holds barred. Let there be temper and tears but when all is explained and settled, but when you make up, you will be closer than before. As you get closer and closer, you may want to tell your wife of your fantasies and see if she will play along. As for encounters with your aunt, I don't know her intentions as it may be intentional. Speak to her about it in private if she may be trusted and tell her how you feel when she makes physical contact with you. If not, you may want to compliment her on the way she makes you feel jokingly, indicating that you do take the issue to heart and say that it is not right for you to feel so and if she may be less intimate with you. Talk to your more trustable friends or relatives. Seek proffesional help like councelling or a phyciatrist if you need to. Do not be satisfied with my opinion because there is much that I do not know about you. As for your fetish...i suggest, just keep fantasizing as that is what fetishes are about. Some sex are best enjoyed by yourself and is very personal. You also have to be ethical about your sexuality as you do not want to cheat on your wife.
2007-12-03 00:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by ssbv_anan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to talk to your wife about a scene called "Cuckold".
Perhaps you need to spend some time back in diapers or something. I don't know what to make of you.....
Your choice of wording is more than a little telling....
Any man who uses the word "Willie" to describe his penis, and goes on to say he wants to be breast-fed by a matronly aunt with large breasts, and to be stroked to sleep... seems to have some infant-fantasy issues.
I'm kinda laughing at you here, but not in a nasty way. If that's your thing, then that's your thing dude. But for goodness sakes, it's a penis. It's also a Dick, or a ****, or a Schlong, or a million other things.... but unless you're 8 years old (or pretending to be with someone's aunt), it's NEVER a Willie !!
Try talking your wife into playing these breast feeding games with you. After she files for divorce and all the paperwork is little more than a distant memory, try and join some kind of club that caters for your kink.
Best of luck. Crikey !!
2007-12-02 23:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by martinowens5173 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wondrous, indeed! You need to divert your attention to other constructive things before you finally explode ;) Try not to embrace her aunt from now on. Simply smile at her as your way of greeting and discuss some worthwhile projects or two with the family so as not to focus your attention to the aunt.
I am sure, you can control your feelings. It will be a disaster to your marriage if you will listen to your flesh.
Take care and GOD BLESS THE CHILD.
2007-12-02 23:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by Mutya P 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
without telling your wife where it came from turn this into a fantasy you would love to have your wife play out for you the sex would be fantastic and then every time you saw this aunt you would think of that incredible sex you had with your wife and I guarantee you would want to bang your wife as fast as you too could slip away somewhere and she would be none the wiser
2007-12-02 23:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The Aunt knows exactly what's up (in more ways than one). Keep physical contact with her to a minimum and keep your mouth shut. This will pass.
2007-12-02 23:18:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude - waaaaay too much information. I don't believe any of this that you have written. If you really do have a wife, I hope she's more mature than you are. Or is your goal in life to be on Springer???
2007-12-02 23:21:42 · answer #6 · answered by CGordo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Absolutely. You are entitled to your privacy and there is no justification to invade it. It is a disgusting thing to do to someone that you are suppose to care about. You should be upset because clearly she has crossed the line in spying. Peace
2016-04-07 05:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a sick imagination if you want her AUNTIE to do that! You should be happy with what you've got! Thats Greed.
Stay with your wife and start a fresh! Its time to buck up your ideas
2007-12-02 23:18:48 · answer #8 · answered by pussicus911 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
simple question. will u bear if ur wife cheats on you {just ignore her aunt} if u think u cant than let your wife decide it .just think about the negative about it ur wife will divorce u are have an another man i her life....
2007-12-02 23:22:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ,take up milk cow raising you will be in bliss in no time, but i would suggest a good supply of rubber nipples for suckling ( safety first ) , also industrial strenghth rubbers (safety first) oh and also get a life. merry xmas.
2007-12-02 23:24:28 · answer #10 · answered by Market Magician 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋