Family & Relationships - 2 December 2007

I have a girlfriend that i love more than anything and she feels the same. She is a virgin and thinking about having sex soon. She has an IUD [99.8% effective birth control] for when the time comes.

Ive had sex before but it was with a condom and a non-virgin. That didn't feel all that great.

What might my beloveds body feel like without a condom for the first time. Y'all can tell your stories if you want.

We both have no std's, and duh, risk of babies. So save the lessons. Just want your experience.

2007-12-02 19:21:53 · 21 answers · asked by John 2 in Singles & Dating

I ask this because in Mexico by law, the partner has no right to know this at least your match wants you to know it.

2007-12-02 19:19:52 · 12 answers · asked by Lunazuly 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Do they owe you anything? i wouldn't do this to my ex but he is best friends with my best friend. he knows it would devastate me but I don't think he owes it to me not to do anything, but I'm not sure, what do you think?

2007-12-02 19:19:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I moved 2 and 1/2 hours away from my home town, to be with my bf of 2 years.
We are both divorced.
I have 2 children who came with me, and I was so worried that they wouldnt fit in to their 'new life'. ( they are 9 and 11).
But it turns out that they LOVE IT, they love their new school and have slotted in wonderfully.

But I havnt, I feel lost and all alone, I miss having my family close by.
I come from a small town and now Im in the city, I have tried to strike up converastions with other mums at the school, but nobody seems interested in talking to me.
My bf works long hours, and he is sympathetic with what I have told him, but theres not much he can do really since hes at work.
I start work after Christmas so I hope things will improve...........but in the meantime what else can I do? I feel like I have moved into a jail, because I can get to local things, but I dont know my way around the city and am terrified of driving in the traffic.

2007-12-02 19:19:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im a filipina girl, very beautiful,but i have still no bf coz i dont want and i want to study first...im just curious
well i asking to the point,was virginity still important???why in other country people most of all were not virgins and if still virgins then its a shame to them???why do most of all the girls want to give up themslves??and boys want it too???
hello people, dont u want ur virginity be a gift to ur husband or wife??well i am....
u know virginity is very important to me,u dont have to give up ur body just to show ur love ones that u very love them!
hey u guys give me a GOOD OPINION or maybe ur experience??

2007-12-02 19:18:03 · 19 answers · asked by marianne f 1 in Singles & Dating

Or do ya'll get tired of all these "does he/she like me back" questions?

2007-12-02 19:17:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-02 19:17:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know it is common for the bride to ask her best friend or sister, but the problem is I don't know which one to choose! i want to ask my best friend to be my MOH because we are really close and she supported me from my first boyfriend to my engagment. but obviously i love my sister and my family believes in 'family first' so i know she'd be upset if i didn't ask her. how bad would it be if I asked my best friend?

2007-12-02 19:17:31 · 22 answers · asked by hopefully 4 in Weddings

me 40 single,i have affair on line ,we know eatch other from many years ,i always truthful with her,i love her truely,i even know she never going to be mine,but i still love her,but she left me alone,she never stay true with me

2007-12-02 19:14:46 · 2 answers · asked by love 1 in Singles & Dating

I went out on Friday and a stranger guy approached me and gave me his number. He seemed decent/nice and cute... I talked to him on the phone today and he seemed nice. He said he's 30 years old... even though he looked younger and I'm 18... and he said he's attracted to me and that's why he gave me his number. Is it a good idea to go out with him?

2007-12-02 19:14:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am seeing this guy and he makes me feel so alive all i do is think about him, the last two weekend i have been telling my bf that i am with family ect but i have been meeting with this other guy now he is coming to my home town this weekend i want to be with him so much it hurts but i don't want to hurt my bf anymore that i already have it's just that we have drifted apart and we are more friends than we are together.. I find it hard to imagine my life without my bf.. but i can't get this guy out of my head. what do i do ?? I can't keep lieing but i don't know if i want to stop seeing this other guy???

2007-12-02 19:14:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

even after 24 years I still want to hold her every chance I get and she seems to like being held just as much.

2007-12-02 19:13:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have...but the more I thought about it.....the more turned off I became.

2007-12-02 19:03:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

why does it hurt u when u break up, and its even harder to let go because u think ure making a mistake? why?

2007-12-02 18:59:46 · 10 answers · asked by angel81 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok. Well I'm 15 and I have a lot of trouble going up to girls I like and talking to them. I know how to keep the conversation going I just really dont know how to go up and say hi? Do I use a pick up line, a funny but decent one or do I just introduce myself? I have a lot of trouble with this so please help me?

2007-12-02 18:59:16 · 35 answers · asked by eckojulian13 1 in Singles & Dating

What does that mean. My fiancee' and I have been together two and a half years. I love her with all my heart, and we just got engaged in August. Since last Monday she hasn't talked to me much, and has been kind of distant but I thought that was just because of "girl issues" (certain time of the month). Today she called me at midnight and asked if I loved her. I told her of course I love her with all of my heart. I said "do you love me too" and she said " I care about you a lot". This kinda freak me out and she countinued to tell me how she just doesnt feel "it" anymore. I asked her if I was doing anything wrong and if I was that if she would tell me I would fix it and she said that its not me, but she just "doesnt feel 'it' anymore". I love this woman with all of my heart, and I have given so much for our relationship. (i.e. moving to another state for her, giving up my dream career to be with her, etc.) What does she mean by "it", and what am I supposed to do? Im so confused

2007-12-02 18:59:00 · 11 answers · asked by Maxwell 1 in Singles & Dating

i had a girl once tell me, we cant be together anymore b/c you are just to perfect!!! w t f is that about

and i have seen and heard this happening to other guys to

why is it so bad being perfect (her words not mine)

2007-12-02 18:57:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I just broke up and I feel horrible, cause I know it really hurt her. We argue nearly every day and she says it part of getting closer. I told her I feel maybe in the future we would be good, but right now it's just not working out. I've been in a few major relationships and she hasn't. So, it's hard to imagine what she is feeling cause I really care about her. I'm having problems in my life that I dont want to affect her anymore. Like both my parents dying recently, my best friend dying only a few months ago. To where we moved in with eachother prematurely...only a month into the relationship. I don't want to feel like I did the wrong thing cause I see her hurting now but I can't help but want to do the right thing.

2007-12-02 18:54:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im going for 50 days, last year he kept on calling me everyday asking me to come back because he cant stand staying alone without me.i dont want to leave him but i have 2 ,i havent seen my family in a year. it hurts but i dont know what to do. how can i make him enjoy his vacation :( ?

2007-12-02 18:53:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so I haven't seen this girl that I really like in over a year. She lived in a different city and she had a boyfriend at the time, but now she moved close to me and I don't think she's with her boyfriend anymore. The reason I say, "I don't think," is because I'm pretty sure they are not together, but we haven't discussed it yet. On Friday we met up at a basketball game and that was the first time I saw her in over a year and we had a good time. On Saturday we met up again with some friends and had another good time. So, both of these times were fun but we were out with friends. I really want to hang out with her one and one so I can talk to her more and see if she opens up, but I just don't know how to go about making this happen? I don't want to rush things too much or seem too pushy, seeing as how it's been so long since we've seen each other. So my question is that I want to hang out with her one on one, but how and when should I ask her about this? THANKS!

2007-12-02 18:50:59 · 7 answers · asked by DN1503 4 in Singles & Dating

I used to have a gf but then i moved and we kindda drifted apart but now there is this girl at my new school but one of my friends just told me she was already going out wit someone else, but i really like her but when ever i go near i either get reminded about my old gf or i get reminded that she has a bf what should i do?

2007-12-02 18:50:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well me and my boyfriend have been dating for over 2 and a half years.
During most of our relationship we have gone to eachother's family events. When ever he asks me to go, I always go no questions or complaining.

But everytime I want him to go to my family events like my sister and brother in laws for thanksgiving or a birthday dinner, he either comes up with an excuse why he cant go, or while we are there he complains about being there and wants to leave early.

If anyone has had the similar situation or has any advice on why he does this or how to approach him. I have asked him about it before and he always avoids the subject or gives me a bogus excuse.

THANKS!!

2007-12-02 18:47:36 · 21 answers · asked by Melinda 2 in Singles & Dating

ive been the "other guy" in this womans life sexually for the last 2 years. Emotionally for the last 4. She says she really loves me and i love her too. She has 2 kids with this guy (not married) and they have been together for almost 8 years. She claims she isnt happy being with him, and "isnt in love with him anymore" but still loves him. She tells me things that she would never tell him, and i know she opens up to me alot more than she does with him. I know for sure im the best lover shes ever had because the sex is very emotional as well as physical. She tells me she doesnt have this with him. She says she wants to leave him and tried a year ago but he wouldnt let her take the kids so she stayed. They never mentioned that incident after that. Now my question is she says she wants to leave him but she hasnt done anything. I offered to pay for everything and take care of her and her kids. Shes on the fence right now and i need advice on whats going on in that head of hers, help!

2007-12-02 18:39:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what do you think they would be too?

2007-12-02 18:37:26 · 9 answers · asked by Twilight 6 in Singles & Dating

I called the circuit court in florida where my supposably x -husband lives, asking for papers of our divorce..it's ben 10 years,,the court system in florida says I have to go there to qualify for my papers! I live in Il. this is rediculous...how can I get my papers of termination of marriage from my x 10 years ago

2007-12-02 18:36:31 · 8 answers · asked by angie babe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this guy at college and since i started he has been whistlein starin and smiling he got someone to ask me for my number and then the other day he said loudly when talking to his friends that he hadnt yet got his phone but he also sais he would text me when he dose get it

what should i do?

i like him to

2007-12-02 18:32:01 · 7 answers · asked by Blondii 3 in Singles & Dating

We've been married for 5 months but had sex only once till now. We lived together for about 3 years before marriage, and we hardly had sex. Whenever I ask my hubby for sex, he says he is too tired (he works hard) and not in the mood for sex at all. I love him so much and want him to take a rest but I don't want a sexless marriage. The problem is not my body as I am not fat at all but in shape. I know he doesn't cheat on me because his work is just near our house (2 minutes by walk) and he barely goes out. I reckon he just was born like that (I mean no desire for sex at all). He doesn't like to kiss too. He said he wants to make love but can't make it. I don't want to stress him any more because I know he loves me a lot but just can't get in the mood. Should I just put up with the fact that he has no sex drive, or is there any solution to this situation? I won't get a divorce because I love him and he is a awesome person. Any answers would be appreciated. Thanks.

2007-12-02 18:30:11 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have 2 aunts that married white guys, and 2 uncles that married white girls and now are divorced. Another aunt that married an arab guy and now is divorced. A cousin that got knocked up by a black guy, and now is raising a kid alone. I've always been Ok with mixing, but now I'm worried. My girl is white, and my parents as pissed. What should I do?

2007-12-02 18:27:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I can't believe the number of times I have heard women brag about their husbands or boyfriends getting angry with them because they are so jealous. They seem to think that if their husbands accuse them of being in the restroom too long it's because of some torrid rendezvous --and that just means he loves you!
I just see it as insecurity on both ends. The guy is so insecure about himself that he takes it out on the wife and the wife is so insecure she thinks she has to put up with it.
I can fully understand when a man defends a woman's honor. That's different. If another guy is hitting on your wife or treating her disrespectfully then he needs to be set straight, but when a woman is constantly being accused of looking at another man or questioned about whether they really went to the store or not, how does that say LOVE?
All I see is a lack of trust and respect.

I don't mean to suggest it's only men who are this way, I know women can be just as guilty.

2007-12-02 18:23:29 · 13 answers · asked by mamabunny 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you think something is amiss?

2007-12-02 18:20:20 · 9 answers · asked by crankydad_9999 3 in Family