Family & Relationships - 2 December 2007

These days, do you think it is more important for the man or the woman to pay on dates? The first date? All the other dates? I am wondering this because since women want so much more respect (I agree) then shouldn't they be treated the same as us? Thanks!

2007-12-02 15:09:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

which is great. The problem is she wants to spend Christmas over my place and he will be coming down with her. I am not too comfortable with the idea of both of them sleeping over my house so I suggested that I can set them up in a good hotel nearby my area, and I would pay for they stay. Well so far I have not received any response from her and according to my sister she is very upset with me. She thinks that I am being childish because she feels that I am not excepting of her new boyfriend. I have no issues or problems with any of my parent’s significant other. I just not comfortable with the dynamics, not just yet. My sister thinks my mother is asking to much from but she won’t tell her that.
I don’t think I am being childish?!

2007-12-02 15:08:13 · 8 answers · asked by Naomi L 2 in Family

alright well i have my (other family) and the youngest girl(around my age) is my best friend. but i love her brother. he is also my best friend. and he only visits on special occasions. and he was here for summer. and it will be a summer ill never 4 get. ( he went home now) no north florida (liveoak) i live in sw florida. anyway i was talking to his om last night. and i was so stunned i only caught half of what she was saying.
she said "now this is between me and you"
"but he really does like you"
and i was so shocked that i didnt catch her tone of voice.
then she said " but he lives so far away, and he feels he has to worry about his dad, which is a lot of responsibility for a 15 yr old. then his mom said he said this about me " she is so sweet and such a kind person, and she deserves some1 who will be down here and be with her"
now im not sure what all that means
can some1 please please help me
i hope it means what im thinking lol

2007-12-02 15:05:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-02 15:02:03 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who is suppose to come up with something to talk about guy/girl

2007-12-02 15:01:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The girl I'm seeing finds women very attractive. She would definitely not mind going to a strip club to get a lap dance. She likes to make out with her best friend when she gets typsy. It bothers me but she thinks maybe it shouldn't. Is there a right or wrong here?

2007-12-02 15:00:34 · 4 answers · asked by Aaron 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i am in this realtionship for about 6 years off and on and i have before becuase of his controling ways he allways ask me where i am goin when will i be back and who i was talking ot even if it was my mom but if i did it to him he would get mad so i stayed in this relationship after i tohught we had everything figured out untill he is strating ot treat me like dirt me never help s with our childern i do all the lundry ,cleaning, bathing dishs cleaning up his cloths of the bathroom floor and when i ask him to help me he gets mad and one day he forgot the kids food and i asked what was he thinking about he sayed he didnt know i asked if there was somthing going on i didnt know about he got mad and thre the the food all over every where and every since then he act s like he dont give a **** about me and i asked if i could go out with my firends in two weeks he told me no way i asked then when can i i seriousley dont know what do do with this relationship is it me or him

2007-12-02 15:00:18 · 8 answers · asked by babycub41213@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems like most of YA's marriage questions are so negitive. Is this a reflection of most people or just the ones who are here on YA?

2007-12-02 14:59:03 · 14 answers · asked by Praire Crone 7 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so here's the deal. the one thing i hate the most about myself is that i get jealous easily. in my past relationship, i dont know if my ex was really doing it on purpose but she always hang out with other guys and stuff. and she really hated it whenever i got jealous. i trusted her with everything i got but still i got jealous. how do i overcome this jealousy so that i may rid myself of that bad attitude if ever i am to have a next relationship. im a guy by the way. please help i really want to change.

2007-12-02 14:56:53 · 1 answers · asked by icriedherariver 5 in Singles & Dating

OMG!!!
I need help....NOW!!!!
My ex rly wantz 2 get bac 2gethr wit me but i dont wanna. c, i rly like this otha guy. (also, n.e help on snaggin a guy who likes a dif gurl wud b great!)
sum1 plz tel wat 2 do!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-02 14:55:04 · 8 answers · asked by Cami 1 in Singles & Dating

I basically said, "no more contact unless you are serious about us. if you drop the other dude and want back with me, that's fine, but i cant be bff if you are dating other dudes". she got upset about the ultimatum, but i feel i'm doing what's right for me. i love her, but i'm tiered of the games. will she contact me again after this?

2007-12-02 14:54:14 · 4 answers · asked by sportguy 6 in Singles & Dating

I could really use some help.

2007-12-02 14:53:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this guy and me and him made out like 2 months ago. Anyways we dont really talk, and he told me he doesn't like me... but everytime i see him like at a game or something he is always staring at me. like even my friend noticed, she said he was lookin at me and i notice it to. i just don't know whether he likes me or not and why isn't he making a move....it's soo annoying. what should i do? i really like him.

2007-12-02 14:53:26 · 10 answers · asked by unsure 1 in Singles & Dating

or only girls they think are hott or attractive??
what if there friends are there???
cuz this guy my bestfriend introduced me to made a move on me the other night j/w

2007-12-02 14:46:58 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy i know bought his gf Chanel earrings , yet he doesnt like her all that much..

2007-12-02 14:44:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you do, how do you show your love? If you don't why do you act like you do, when you don't mean it? Do you enjoy playing someone for a fool?

2007-12-02 14:41:47 · 6 answers · asked by terry 3 in Singles & Dating

it was an online one . I knew him through a chat service and then proceed to chat on msn. I showed him my picture , but he never showed his.All you can see was a fallen angel icon .This guy and i chatted for about 6 months until one day i started having feelings for him.Strange thing to happen since i am very careful with the people i know through the internet , but i swear this one was special! he used to sent files about GOD'S glory , god in general and he was never rude , nor a perverted man , sex was never in our conversations unless i started talking about it ! he was discreet about this and told me so many sweet things about life , until one day i became very angry that he never showed his picture and had a fight with him and we never chat anymore!
Somewhere in the bottom of my heart i feel this person was a real angel , and that im never gonna forget him , lenin was his name and he was about 30 something living in chicago is there a chance you know him?

2007-12-02 14:41:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please mention your age.

2007-12-02 14:41:10 · 5 answers · asked by slayer maniac 3 in Singles & Dating

you - (you "accidentaly" bump into or touch him/her) "Ouch!"
them - "what?"
you - "it's just that you're so hot, i think you burned me."


it came to me in a dream (for some strange reason) and I've been wanting to try it out, but i dont wanna sound stupid in front of a girl so thought i might try asking what you guys thought.

2007-12-02 14:38:54 · 67 answers · asked by super_bean 3 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy years ago online and we became good friends. We met 3yrs later at a bar on short notice & I happened to tell him I liked him. I was drunk by the time he came there so I felt embarassed the next day since this had NEVER happened to me, I never got so drunk and stupid nor told a guy I liked him. Anyway, he had not answered me that night but we passionately kissed twice before he left. The next day I apologized but he said, I was being silly, he had had fun but I know our friendship got shacky and things have been better for a year now. At the time I was getting back together with someone and we have a baby which I only told him at 9months but he thought I was joking. I have a feeling that he likes me but wasn't sure. Today on IM, I mentioned something about my baby & he didn't say anything then 15minutes later he logged off. Do you think he should be mad? We live close by but I hardly ever see him and if he wanted to be with me, why couldn't he tell me?

2007-12-02 14:37:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm White, and I seem to be only attracted to Black men. For whatever reason, I'm not physically attracted to White men. Parents are not against it, but I can tell they have reservations. I feel guilty. Am I doing anything wrong?

2007-12-02 14:36:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys tell us Gals what you think too!

2007-12-02 14:36:39 · 18 answers · asked by autumn 3 in Singles & Dating

I really like my new sister-in-law except for one GLARING flaw: she's CONSTANTLY giving the most OBVIOUS advice!! I mean, it really insults people's intelligence. She does it to everybody. It's like she takes pride in knowing everything there is to know about everything (except she really doesn't know all that much) and nobody knows ANYTHING but her. I really don't want to be rude. How should I react? Should I just not say anything, or is there a way to give her subtle hints? What can I do, outside of just smacking her upside the head!

2007-12-02 14:36:38 · 36 answers · asked by gniknus 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

um.....guys , what flirting moves do you like most? because this guy that i like has a girlfriend and they are fighting and i think that they are gonna break up-how do i flirt in a non-pushy way that lets him know that i like him so that he will ask me out ? p.s. he told my brother that he thought that i was hot(that was before he and this girl started going out-

2007-12-02 14:36:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my current girlfriend have been together for 4 months on the 17th Dec. Looking at the situation and studying it hard. What we have is a mixture of infatuation/love.

I both show signs of real true love at times and so does she, but theres also signs of infatutation from both of us aswell, mainly her.

Simple question, what i have told you is basically what you need to know, is this our infatuation turning into true love? It's been nearly 4 months and she thinks shes in love but i can tell shes not because of signs of infatuation aswell. Is this turning into true love? We seem to be showing more signs as each day goes by. But we still show some signs of infatuation..

What do you think?

2007-12-02 14:35:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she likes guitars, drawing, writing, and other creative things

2007-12-02 14:35:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad and I are very close, and I'm moving into the dorms at the college I'm going to in August - they're only 30 minutes away from home. I can tell that he's not handling the idea of me moving out very well at all. I know that most parents aren't overjoyed over their children leaving home (or at least they don't show that joy), but my dad seems to be especially upset.

He's also an epileptic. He has grand mal seizures that are almost entirely under control, but he's had a few while taking his medication and he's not the best at remembering to take his medication. This is scary to me because he'll be alone when I leave for school... and he's been injured before while having a seizure alone.

How can I make the transition easier and safer for him? Living at home is not an option for me.

2007-12-02 14:34:48 · 6 answers · asked by Lauren 5 in Family

My dad went out to the casino about 8ish, it's now 3:30am and he's still not back. He's not answering his mobile phone and I'm getting really worried. He may have drank a lot, but he's usually home long before now. What should I do, I'm really worried.

2007-12-02 14:34:24 · 11 answers · asked by rosstopherz19 2 in Family

think about the one you love?

2007-12-02 14:34:12 · 17 answers · asked by Rayray 5 in Singles & Dating

I would probably not admit to this in 'real life' but yes i have!

2007-12-02 14:31:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating