I met this guy years ago online and we became good friends. We met 3yrs later at a bar on short notice & I happened to tell him I liked him. I was drunk by the time he came there so I felt embarassed the next day since this had NEVER happened to me, I never got so drunk and stupid nor told a guy I liked him. Anyway, he had not answered me that night but we passionately kissed twice before he left. The next day I apologized but he said, I was being silly, he had had fun but I know our friendship got shacky and things have been better for a year now. At the time I was getting back together with someone and we have a baby which I only told him at 9months but he thought I was joking. I have a feeling that he likes me but wasn't sure. Today on IM, I mentioned something about my baby & he didn't say anything then 15minutes later he logged off. Do you think he should be mad? We live close by but I hardly ever see him and if he wanted to be with me, why couldn't he tell me?
2007-12-02 14:37:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I know he wants to get married and have a baby as well.
2007-12-02 14:47:12 · update #1
The child scared him away. Let him be. Just be civil with him if you cross paths. There will come a time when the shock wears off and the two of you can talk. Some guys are frightened when child issues come into the picture. Weird, huh?!
2007-12-02 14:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess its too late now. You have a baby right now. You should put all your focus on that now and take care of your baby. You shouldn't put all this stress on you. If it's meant to be that way, It will eventually happen.
2007-12-02 14:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by K-O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, I think the baby freaked him out. If he thought you were joking and he realizes you are not, he's probably freaked out.
2007-12-02 14:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He maybe mad but he should not be you told him you didnt like him so he will cool off soon just let him be.
2007-12-02 14:42:43 · answer #4 · answered by skittles_ga1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm......well i also tell a guy that i like him for a first time n my frends thought i was crazy because that boy has a lover at that time ..........after about two daes after that accident ,, that boy came to me n say that he last time he like me but i didn't really care ......but now nobody knws that wad he is thinkin does he like his galfrend or me........me and him always hangout with one other but mostly my frends always said that he like u but i dun believe....they kept sayin because that boy keep tryin to get close to me ........that boy also live near me ...i always saw him walkin to school but when he saw me he didn't even greet me or say how r u or hello...he just thought i was transparent...........after that we just ..................... :( from that i just learn that mostly boys dun tell like to tell others about his feelings inside his heart.............thks for reading :(:(:(:(:(:(
2007-12-02 14:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just in denial
2007-12-02 14:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by thecurious1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋