terry, it sure sounds like somebody has played you for a fool... if so, I apologize for the jerk... since he most definitely will not.
Yes, some men do really love and care for the women in their lives. I was married for 25 years and my love grew for her every day of our marriage. But she did not become my soul-mate until she became ill. I cared for her needs for 7 years, and sometime during that time she realized how much I loved and cared for her. During those 7 years we could no longer make love, but that paled in importance compared to her medical needs. I believe that when she realized this is when she knew that my love was true. I just wish I could have been her soul-mate the other 18 years. (Don't get me wrong... we were in-love those 18 years... it just hadn't reached that deeper stage.)
terry, I am not a hero. There are many men out there that would do the same for the woman they love. Yes, there are men who would say, "I want to live my life" and leave when tragedy hits. For me, it didn't feel like a sacrifice at all. And knowing that she became my soul-mate during that time helped.
2007-12-02 14:59:25
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answered by Flame 6
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Some guys go back and forth on the way they feel. Because they are just not sure. I cared for my ex a lot, but we had up and down times and I wuldn't always show it, even though I did. I miss her now and wished we'd never split up..
2007-12-02 22:54:24
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answered by brodis36 2
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I have been married to my wife for almost 18 years. we got married 2 days after she turned 18. everyday i tell her i love her. I hold her hand every where we go. we sleep in the same bed every night (even when were mad). I buy her things for no reason. i text her all the time just saying I love you. I NEVER called her a bi*ch. we have 3 kids. She is my best friend, my lover and my wife.I put her and our kids before me ALLWAYS.
2007-12-02 22:57:18
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answered by Richard R 2
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some guys do love the women in their live other just want a girlfriend for show i mean i loved my ex so much im now in homeschool becouse it was so hard to see her face anymore
i dont told her all the time i loved i went over a fear becouse she was there i showed her i loved her
2007-12-02 22:49:30
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answered by kbquestions 3
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yes i love and care for my lady --- and i never try to play her for a fool ---- circumstances sometimes conspire to bring me down but never intentionally ---- i have yet to truly show how much i care ---- it will be this Christmas --- we will be spending it together
2007-12-02 22:46:19
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answered by Waterdragon 7
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If i love a girl, then she will know it, i will not lead a girl on, as i know how this feels, not a great feeling. Ibelive what goes around comes around.
2007-12-02 22:47:11
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answered by Don A 4
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