ok i am in this realtionship for about 6 years off and on and i have before becuase of his controling ways he allways ask me where i am goin when will i be back and who i was talking ot even if it was my mom but if i did it to him he would get mad so i stayed in this relationship after i tohught we had everything figured out untill he is strating ot treat me like dirt me never help s with our childern i do all the lundry ,cleaning, bathing dishs cleaning up his cloths of the bathroom floor and when i ask him to help me he gets mad and one day he forgot the kids food and i asked what was he thinking about he sayed he didnt know i asked if there was somthing going on i didnt know about he got mad and thre the the food all over every where and every since then he act s like he dont give a **** about me and i asked if i could go out with my firends in two weeks he told me no way i asked then when can i i seriousley dont know what do do with this relationship is it me or him
2007-12-02 15:00:18 · 8 answers · asked by babycub41213@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems like your relationship is on a one-way road. It sounds like you need to take a detour to get on the right path...a detour that doesn't include your current SO (if I should even consider calling him that). But what is his reason for his paranoia? He is extremely insecure and there seems like a trust issue. Have either of you cheated in the relationship?
In any event, your relationship is not healthy. If you can't settle things personally, than perhaps seeking professional help with counseling. All relationships should be mutual, so it doesn't like the issue is you, but him.
2007-12-02 15:18:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's both of you. Why would you want to continue in a relationship with someone that is that controlling. Are you an adult? Does he ask you if he can go out? Now he is controlling, next he's throwing food everywhere, after that he will be throwing you everywhere. It's time to cut your loses and move on. Sounds like you are doing everything anyway.
2007-12-02 15:10:18 · answer #2 · answered by Hotgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He treats you like **** becasue you let him.
You deserve better. But I doubt you have the inner strength to leave him. Sorry, sister... he may be a prick, but YOU are the asshole for putting up with it.
STOP COMPLAINING AND WHINING ABOUT THE LOSER AND DO SOMETHING TO MAKE YOUR LIFE BETTER.
by the way... he will NEVER change. He will NEVER become waht you want him to. LEAVE NOW and find a better life.
Sincerely
///Truth
2007-12-02 15:15:09 · answer #3 · answered by truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's him, he's a jerk and you have to leave him for your own sanity and for the welfare of your children. He has no business treating you like this. You shouldn't have to ask him for permission to go out with your friends!
Leave him and don't go back. No matter much he begs, and promises to change. They never do, hon.
2007-12-02 15:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could frivolously say i'm uncertain what they're speaking approximately. Then ask them what the crime is they're speaking approximately and ask how and why they think of it became into me. i could then provide them a proof on why it wasn't me. in the event that they nonetheless choose to believe it became into me, so be it, i will enable them to think of incorrect, the fact will come out one way or yet another.
2016-10-10 03:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by fomby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's him for behaving like an arrogant, domineering creep. And it's you for putting up with it. If he loved you he wouldn't treat you with such disrespect. And if you had a healthy level of self-esteem you wouldn't tolerate it.
2007-12-02 15:07:45 · answer #6 · answered by Delphi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go out with your friends! Screw him! It's him. You shouldn't be in this relationship! You and your kids deserve better!
2007-12-02 15:08:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its him! GUYS ARE A**HOLES! lol mine does the same thing kind of. dont let him control you, speak your mind girl!
2007-12-02 15:07:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋