How do you overcome jealousy?(in relationships)?

Question

ok so here's the deal. the one thing i hate the most about myself is that i get jealous easily. in my past relationship, i dont know if my ex was really doing it on purpose but she always hang out with other guys and stuff. and she really hated it whenever i got jealous. i trusted her with everything i got but still i got jealous. how do i overcome this jealousy so that i may rid myself of that bad attitude if ever i am to have a next relationship. im a guy by the way. please help i really want to change.

Answer 1

Understand yourself enough to know what kind of lady you need, not to feel jeaous. Not all people are the same, where indivdiuals, and finding the right one, is part of the game. Its hard not to feel jealous about someone who behaves in a way that would make you jealous. So finding someone, who understands better how to keep you from feeling this way, is again, the name of the game. Anything less is what you've done.... so find the right f'in girl, or else realize, you havn't. That would be your test....