I'm White, and I seem to be only attracted to Black men. For whatever reason, I'm not physically attracted to White men. Parents are not against it, but I can tell they have reservations. I feel guilty. Am I doing anything wrong?
2007-12-02 14:36:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, there is nothing wrong with it. Every man or woman according to their taste.
Your parents should judge people based on the content of their character, not on the color of their skin.
2007-12-02 14:46:17 · answer #1 · answered by WOMBAT, Manliness Expert 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not doing anything wrong, you just happen to be attracted to black guys. You're parents will come to terms with it eventually, and I imagine it's not so much that the guys are black, but that they're guys ....
It's perfectly okay to have a preference for a particular physical type.
2007-12-02 14:41:33 · answer #2 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not doing anything wrong.. If you feel the need to date Black men than that's fine.. I wouldn't care what my relatives say about me..
2007-12-02 14:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by Amber S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i'm filipino/black and i am more attracted to white men.
i don't know why.. i guess it's because i've been around more white guys in school than black. (there weren't many blacks in my school)
plus i feel more comfortable around them.
nothing against black guys or anything.. just what i'm used to.
but i'm not opposed to dating black guys. and my dad doesn't care who i date or marry as long as i'm happy
and i don't think you are doing anything wrong either... do what makes you happy
2007-12-02 14:43:06 · answer #4 · answered by kanga9z10 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've seen this before, and in fact am related to someone like you, or at least it was a stage she went through.
I'd say there's something strange going on.
With my relative, I think it really was her need to make this grand statement against racism, plus I think she enjoyed feeling superior to anyone who criticized it.
It was as if it were a political statement for her, plus I think it was a factor of kinda, you know, rooting for the underdog, which is really inherently racist, because to feel like that, you have to have deep-seated feelings that you really think these people are somehow inferior, and "need your help" to be equals, or to be accepted by society.
It could be the same thing with you.
It's something you really would have to spend lots of time examining yourself over, and asking yourself to be honest with yourself, because your initial reaction is going to be to think this is crazy.
2007-12-02 14:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by dork 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no you are not doing anything wrong. if you that person makes you happy then go for it!!! i am a black women and i am not attracted to black men. nothing wrong with that. i find more latino men more attrctive. i am dating a puetro rican and my family thinks theres nothing wrong with that. they see me happy, so thats all they care abt. if whatever makes you happy. nothing wrong with interracial relationships!!
2007-12-02 14:43:02 · answer #6 · answered by txlady24 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is not about race. You just like men with bigger penises. They just happen to be Black, that's all. Do whatever you like.
2007-12-02 14:49:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! thats just the people your attracted to. They may have physical features that you like. do not feel guilt (:
2007-12-02 14:41:13 · answer #8 · answered by jenn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no there your natural likings. so go with the flow. to pardon the expression. you cant stop. and don't try and stop. your true likings for people. spec lily those you love.
2007-12-02 14:44:57 · answer #9 · answered by willy wom bat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope --- why not i find ladies of every race attractive --- they dont think the same about me i suspect --- maybe its my age mmmmm ---- sorry i digress ---- have fun
2007-12-02 14:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋