Family & Relationships - 2 December 2007

Two weeks into this relationship he started pressuring her to say 'I love you' & when she wouldn't he got mad.They talked about it & she thought he understood that she wasn't ready yet.A week later he brought it up again.When she still couldn't say it he broke up with her by calling, saying 'it's over', and hanging up.Five minutes later (literally) he called back & said 'scratch that; we're still together'.Then he called again & broke up with her. He went back & forth between dating her & not for 30 min. over the phone.Then they 'worked everyting out'.Less than a week after, he changed his facebook status to single.She saw it & freaked out.He called several hours later & told her it was over.She said she loved him in order to keep him (she admitted that).Then, they decided to talk the next day about it.They did & decided to end it.Several hours later they talked again & she took him back.He came over 30 min. later & said he couldn't be with her.She begged him to stay with her & he did.

2007-12-02 16:31:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im married hes 7yrs older than me we have a daughter together.Hes a mamas boy,hes addicted to video games n comuter..He listens to his mom in everything and lets mom do everything for him.He is so damn lazy in everything and just so damn stuborn.If its not hes way then is the hwy. I married him anyway..But now im fed up with everything.We leave in his moms house and other guest mom pays for everything he only pays for 1 or 2 things so everybody leaves rent FREE.The problem is that mom likes to let people stay(specially ex convicts)as longest they want with no obligations what so ever. no rules no 1 helps around d house no 1 brings nothing 2 house.They are use to leaving like that. Her little friends come n do what they like.we have 1 car n he lets any1 use it.Mom is d boss there she does what she pleases.what should i do my husband is never gonna change he will always leave with mom til she dies he will always b lazy.he acts like a child.im gonna end up leving but where.i left all 4him

2007-12-02 16:30:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I hang out and talk to my family members too much.. and i need other people to be friends with... what can i do to find new people to socialize with.. I not used to making friendships and socializing... can you offer some advice that might help me.. thanks!

2007-12-02 16:29:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend that moved here (the USA) from England to be with a girl. How far are you willing to move?

2007-12-02 16:28:52 · 28 answers · asked by annie 6 in Singles & Dating

Ok I am 21 and I WAS talking to this 35 yr old marrid man... yes I know it was wrong so you dont have to give me the lecture. Well we met at the gym cuz we both play racquetball. We talked on the phone and did some stuff for about 2 weeks until his wife started to find out and started following him everywhere he goes now. Well he told me that he couldn't talk to me anymore b/c he didn't want his wife to find out and everything and so we stopped talking altogether. Well today I went up to the gym to play racquetball and he was up there playing with his friends and I caught him looking at me quite a few times when he thought I was looking away or something. I dont understand what this means or why he would still even look at me???? Do you think he will try to pursue me again in the future?? I am just wondering, thats ALL... im not trying to pursue him. Guys... can you answer this please?

2007-12-02 16:28:12 · 7 answers · asked by sagittarius_girl806 1 in Family

my mom passed away from well being ashamed and took her own life.2. years ago. dad raised us.4. afterdwarsa this woman who s age is.31. she loves my dad and dad is now.52. but he is in good shape. he bowles. hunts. and mostley everything else now can she as well him get along where.s there.a age limit between them[she] shows she loves him from all her actions and dad isnt rich or nothing like that she is a good worker. and wants for nothing can there .be a love life with them due to age difference. thanks

2007-12-02 16:27:55 · 6 answers · asked by wildcat_2021 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm a 21 y.o. exotic dancer, but my family doesn't approve...i really enjoy what i do and feel that it is time for me to be independent, since they're barely able to provide for me anyway...plus i dont want to keep lying to them about where i go on the weekends...i'm already on a guilt trip...i want to move out but i don't know how to tell them i'm ready and able to take care of myself...i go to college and plan to finish in about 3 more years (and i aspire to be a writer/social worker someday)...so how should i tell them this??

2007-12-02 16:26:23 · 16 answers · asked by mizz_strawberry21 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is there a difference when a guy calls you "sexy" and when he calls you "beautiful". Please don't laugh at me.

2007-12-02 16:23:49 · 46 answers · asked by Budlightgurl 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for about five years now. He says that he loves me completely. However, he cheated on me with his best friend. She had to tell me. I gave him a second chance. He has been trying to make up what he did. He DOES honestly seem to love me because he's always doing little things for me, from hugs/kisses to small gifts like decorating my room during Valentines. However, sometimesI feel that he's manipulating me to staying with him. Then, he tells me that he truly wants me to be happy and will be willing to let me go if I want to. At the same time, they're just words. The thing is, it seems like he IS willing to let go of me.. but sometimes, I think he's just lying. I don't know. Sometimes, I feel so lucky with him, but at times, I think I can do better. Am I only staying with him because I love him or is it because I'm too nice?? My friends think I'm too nice, esp. after he cheated on me. Help! Thanks.

2007-12-02 16:23:36 · 11 answers · asked by CS 2 in Singles & Dating

it's like when we(girls)walk near them their voices get quiet then when we go away they get back to normal....

it's so weird

2007-12-02 16:23:25 · 3 answers · asked by cutiecathy272 2 in Singles & Dating

OK I really like this guy his 24 and I'm 18 and we've been talking a lot on the phone lately and I really like him a lot but this summer when we start to get pretty close and we almost got together he had sex with one of my friends and he just had sex with her and after that he didn't want any thing to do with her when I asked him about he said he said he just really missed sex and he told her that before they did any thing and his cousin is my best friend and me and him were talking one day and I told him that I didn’t want to have sex with Eric and he said that him and Eric had talked about it and he said that Eric really liked me and my friend (his cousin) told me that he didn’t think that’s all he want me for but then me Eric stopped talk b/c I got mad about him for sleeping with my friend and that was a few moths ago and now we are getting close a gain but I don’t want to be with him if that’s all he wants

2007-12-02 16:18:25 · 6 answers · asked by cfhjufdrbko 2 in Singles & Dating

just wondering

2007-12-02 16:17:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

why does weight cancel out everything else good in a girl? yeah, im overweight, that's obvious, but im not morbidly obese or anything, im smart and cute and funny and quirky and yeah, im a little dorky but it's endearing, im artistic and thoughtful, and not to sound conceded (even though im sure i do) im worth it. i feel like if anyone gave me a chance they would be rewarded 10 times over, but it just hasnt happened and im sure it's because im not the perfect sized girl. i think sometimes if the only reason it's not happening for me is the weight thing, then ill just commit my life to losing as much as possible, but then my mind fights back and thinks, well why can't someone love me like i am now??? it's very frustrating. do guys ever feel like this?? i need some advice or input or something.

2007-12-02 16:14:36 · 8 answers · asked by Lisa B 2 in Singles & Dating

So im a senior in highschool. I really like this girl and she really likes me. What are some ways that i can ask her to go out with me.. and it has to be "special" i guess you can say. I just want her to remember it.

2007-12-02 16:11:43 · 2 answers · asked by IAmClifford 2 in Singles & Dating

he is really nice but always smiling and polite, but i heard once some kids on the metro asked him for money, he said no, then one of them kicked him in the chest, so he quickly pulls out a knife and puts it to the kids throat threatning to kill him, and chasing the other one around the train threatning to kill him too.

2007-12-02 16:09:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

go to this link of sharing of wit and wisdom to uplift your spirit and courage:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MkLI2xfIM4A

2007-12-02 16:09:22 · 3 answers · asked by HOPES 5 in Marriage & Divorce

If you are afraid of commitment and youve been with a guy you dated for about 5 and a half months, is it common to leave them while still liking them?

Ive been hurt a lot in my past [especially in relationships] and now, I hate the title of "boyfriend" "girlfriend". 5 months is like WOAH. The whole relationship Ive been confused; trying to leave all the time. He would obviously make me feel happy, give me warm feelings etc, but a lot of the times I'd feel nothing. Lately, Ive been looking at a lot of guys and I felt as if I could really move on from him, just say no to the relationship. I was happy, like okaay moving on and then last night we were at a show and I couldnt help but flirt with him and I wanted to hug him so badly so I did and then i ended up kissing him. Just being in his arms would make me happy and feel good. But at the moment I feel nothing again and Im casually talking to this guy I feel interested in. Gosh, Im so confused. What do I feel?? What do I do??

2007-12-02 16:09:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you will attract it...does anyone believe this is true? or believe in the book?

2007-12-02 16:09:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my gf have been together for 2 months. a few days ago she wrote me a note it read...
i know it may seem like i've been pushing you away lately
but i'm not.
I dont know any other way to say this but your love is too good to be true.
I mean at this point guys would be really bored of me.
I love you so much that not a day gos by where I don't think about you. I love you to the point where i'm ready to marry you.
I want to be your wife.
I want to be able to cook for you.
To be able to do your laundry.
To be able to make a bubble bath for us when you get home.
So here is my promise ring to you.(she drew a picture of a ring)
I promise 2 luv u 4 ever.
Even when i'm mad at you.
To love you even if we decide to break up.
so thats what it said i'm 16 and she is 17
i am in love with her and she says shes in love with me...
does she really love me?
should i propose at graduation?

2007-12-02 16:08:39 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi im 27, an IT TECH, and havent had a date in 2 years. Its hard when your a engineer or mechie, or any guy thing to get a date. im a gud lookin guy and wasting my time/life in IT. whats the best career when you're a single guy?

2007-12-02 16:08:23 · 5 answers · asked by vanilla_thrilla01 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-02 16:05:37 · 4 answers · asked by Jennifer S 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy i slept with on friday (weve only slept together once) called me like one second ago and is wondering if i want to come over.
here's my whole story with him if you want to read it
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Av._o57qxuZub3w6HieuBhjty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071201233149AAuHmOd
i asked about it the other night

but anyway i'm not really sure if i should go over or not. im so bored at home and im supposed to be doing homework because i have to go to school tomorrow but my parents are at this dinner party thing and arent going to be home until like 11 or 12, and its 9 right now. they NEVER are out this late so i want to take advantage of the opportunity. i really want to but i would feel SO guilty because if my parents knew i was even going over to a guys house, let alone a 22 year old guy ive slept with, they would FLIP OUT. im so upset right now and i just want to see him :( but i like having my mom and dads trust. advice? they probably wouldnt find out...right?

2007-12-02 16:02:21 · 7 answers · asked by GIRL 6 in Singles & Dating

MY WIFE & I ARE HAVING MARITAL PROBLEMS AFTER HAVING OUR 1ST CHILD, WE LIVE IN AZ, MY WIFE'S PARENTS LIVE IN SPOKANE. WA. MY WIFE LEFT TO VISIT
HER PARENTS ON NOV 2ND, I HAVE JUST RECIEVED NOTICE THAT SHE IS COMING BACK TO AZ TO PICK UP HER STUFF, SHE IS NOT BRINGING MY DAUGHTER WITH HER, IS THAT LEGAL FOR HER TO LEAVE OUR DAUGHTER WITH MY WIFE'S MOM,? MEANWHILE MY DAUGHTER DOESEN'T SEE HER DADDY FOR OVER A MONTH. I GUESS I'M WORRIED THAT I MAY NEVER SEE MY LITTLE GIRL AGAIN.

2007-12-02 16:01:40 · 25 answers · asked by ERIC O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really liked him. I was pretty intoxicated and things escalated. So he lost his erection and we did not have sex which was fine by me. Then he went on a rant about his divorce. Does he still love his ex, they have been divorced over a year?

2007-12-02 15:59:26 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Last night I was talking to one of my guy friends, about how neither of us are in a relationship. And I started telling him about how I liked this guy in one of my classes, and how I had asked him out, and then we didn't go out yet we are friends. Then he said, well maybe he didn't go out with you because you are aggressive. I asked him to elaborate on his comment and he said that it was because I was loud and I always liked being the one guiding the conversation in a group, etc. He said I should be more quiet and not so loud. What do you guys think? Do you guys prefer the quieter girls????

2007-12-02 15:56:54 · 18 answers · asked by rockgurl 1 in Singles & Dating

All right, so I basically look like a guy.
I have a 30" waist, I'm 5'10", and wear a 36A bra
I basically have the body of a high school male, to the extent that someone thought this one male freshman and I were identical twins. I;m a high school female.
I hant to look more like a girl, but I hate being girly.
Makeup is out of the question, I won't wear it.
I HATE tight clothes.
I have giant feet (size 13), so there are no girls shoes (besides 3inch heels) that fit me.
I want something that subtly says I am a girl, but can't find it.
All my attempts just make me look like a girly guy or a guyish girl.
My boyfriend loves me for who I am, but I want to bee able to look like a girl without wearing a skirt.
So yeah, is there any advice out there for me?

ps - I'm usually "one of the guys" in groups, to the point that it takes like 15 minutes after the raunchy jokes start for someone to realise I'm there, which is fine by me cuz I like the jokes...

2007-12-02 15:55:59 · 22 answers · asked by lifelesswonder 4 in Singles & Dating

on gettting an electric guitar
they are really strict with me and i have already given up gymnastics, piano lessons etc.

2007-12-02 15:55:53 · 25 answers · asked by mee♥ 3 in Family

i mean i cry over this guy every night just how do I tell him? :(

2007-12-02 15:54:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-02 15:52:25 · 6 answers · asked by Jennifer S 1 in Singles & Dating

whats the difference between dating/ "going out with someone"/ and being their bf or gf? and what do they things entail?

2007-12-02 15:51:56 · 21 answers · asked by australiaseemsprettycoolandstuff 1 in Singles & Dating