just wondering
2007-12-02 16:17:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
An abusive person is an abusive person.
Assuming that 'having a mistress' is not abusive already (ie. the wife know and accepts this and it benefits her.
Assuming the 'mistress' is not abusive towards him (yes it does happen, women can be very abusive to).
If the man abuses his mistress he is as likely to abuse any woman (and possibly man).
Therefor he would probably abuse his wife, if he is not doing so already
2007-12-02 16:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by Thunderstorm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello no usually not, the wife gets more respect, the money bills paid, the house, the kids, alimony, child support, the furniture, and if more than 1 car she gets 1 of those which is what she deserves, the Mistress gets the left overs and if he is an abuser then after all he has lost yes the mistress will be abuse I guess.
2007-12-02 16:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by Back Field In Motion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey will you read your own question. The man is already abusing his wife by having a mistress.
Somewhere in the OATH of marriage he swears to forsake all others. Having a mistress abuses that oath and in doing so abuses his wife's trust.
2007-12-02 19:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by michaelnangle2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man who has a mistress IS abusing his wife.
2007-12-02 19:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men abuse all women,some narrow it down to whos the weakest,so his wife may be a controller,and he in turn uses the mistress to demonstrate how he would like to abuse his wife,e.g. the wife may have six big brothers,so instead he takes it out on his mistress.
2007-12-02 16:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by fozz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a mistress is psychological/emotional abuse so yes.
2007-12-02 16:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
An abuser is an abuser. He may be good for a period of time but will eventually abuse anyone that offends him if given the opportunity.
2007-12-02 16:23:48 · answer #7 · answered by shrdlu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably not, mistresses are used for all sorts of frustrations
2007-12-02 16:21:51 · answer #8 · answered by OzDonna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Any man that abuses women is a complete wanker.
2007-12-02 18:50:22 · answer #9 · answered by shafter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most probably yes coz for him it something logical
2007-12-02 16:22:36 · answer #10 · answered by secret &trade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋