Ok I am 21 and I WAS talking to this 35 yr old marrid man... yes I know it was wrong so you dont have to give me the lecture. Well we met at the gym cuz we both play racquetball. We talked on the phone and did some stuff for about 2 weeks until his wife started to find out and started following him everywhere he goes now. Well he told me that he couldn't talk to me anymore b/c he didn't want his wife to find out and everything and so we stopped talking altogether. Well today I went up to the gym to play racquetball and he was up there playing with his friends and I caught him looking at me quite a few times when he thought I was looking away or something. I dont understand what this means or why he would still even look at me???? Do you think he will try to pursue me again in the future?? I am just wondering, thats ALL... im not trying to pursue him. Guys... can you answer this please?
2007-12-02 16:28:12 · 7 answers · asked by sagittarius_girl806 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He might have just been surprised you were there seeing as he was the one who called it off he might have just been hoping you would leave soon. I would stay away from that gym if i were you if you did it once there is a chance you could do it again. Better to resist the temptation.
2007-12-02 16:49:32 · answer #1 · answered by nobody 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all part of the game some guys play. The chase was begun but not completed. That is the chase to get you. Once he saw you you again that feel ling to have you was rekindled. You must be a looker, be careful, you could get burned. He's older and married and probably just fantasizing some action with you. If you don't want the action, stay away.
2007-12-03 00:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by *kwah* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
re: I dont understand what this means or why he would still even look at me????
.....so what? What are your intentions towards him?
Do you think he will try to pursue me again in the future??
........He probably will depending on what signals you send to him. If he does 'pursue' you, how will you react?
I am just wondering, thats ALL... im not trying to pursue him.
.....that's a good choice. Let him cheat on his wife and toss out his wedding vows if he wants to with someone else. Your behavior is what needs to matter to you - not his.
2007-12-03 01:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I can not help but say how sick you make me feel. You had to wait for him to end it? And you do not want us to bash on you?
that being said, he is looking at your and thinking what was once there. He is waiting for you to come and talk to him because he knows if he comes to you, he is breaking the line. So if something does happen he can say well she came to me first and we talked and one thing led to another. If it was him he will be questioned in why he spoke to you to begin with. Get me? What you should do? The answer is do not be a whore and ignore him and stop having sex with married guys that are 14 years older than you.
Sorry about the harshness I am just saying it how it is.
2007-12-03 01:08:12 · answer #4 · answered by Slim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a dog looking to fulfill one of the few basic needs of a male dog. 1, Food 2, pee & sh- -, 3, find a b- - - -h! he can't help but look, God knows I can't. He's 35, married and obviously could care less if he hurts her. You are young, 21 and apparently very attractive. You shouldn't change your lifestyle to do so but you need to let him know it ain't going no where, or is it?
I know his thinking but I can't understand a young woman's thinking when she hooks up with a married older man.
2007-12-03 01:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's still into you. You are heading down a dangerous path.
2007-12-03 01:05:50 · answer #6 · answered by Brofo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY AWAY! DON"T BE A MARRIAGE BREAKER!
2007-12-03 00:49:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋