If you are afraid of commitment and youve been with a guy you dated for about 5 and a half months, is it common to leave them while still liking them?
Ive been hurt a lot in my past [especially in relationships] and now, I hate the title of "boyfriend" "girlfriend". 5 months is like WOAH. The whole relationship Ive been confused; trying to leave all the time. He would obviously make me feel happy, give me warm feelings etc, but a lot of the times I'd feel nothing. Lately, Ive been looking at a lot of guys and I felt as if I could really move on from him, just say no to the relationship. I was happy, like okaay moving on and then last night we were at a show and I couldnt help but flirt with him and I wanted to hug him so badly so I did and then i ended up kissing him. Just being in his arms would make me happy and feel good. But at the moment I feel nothing again and Im casually talking to this guy I feel interested in. Gosh, Im so confused. What do I feel?? What do I do??
2007-12-02 16:09:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Fear of commitment "YES" deathly!! I do the same. I'll bounce in and out of a relationship because it's getting to serious, until they do want to play that game any longer. I often question myself: is it because I've been hurt in the past?
Or is it because I am unwilling to give my whole heart to just one. Also the red blooded american male in me, is always thinking some one better will come around. that may sound like sick way of thinking, but it's more common than we know!
2007-12-02 16:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you like him or not? he is yours and you are his after all...
take it slow and take some time to think some stuff over...
2007-12-03 00:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by teendeviant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋