Family & Relationships - 2 December 2007

Serious, honest answers please, from men in relationships ideally....

2007-12-02 01:13:42 · 11 answers · asked by sweetnlow 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm facing a hard time in marriage now.. how can i defend myself and not crying in front of him(my hubby) and make him realise of what he did to our marriage.. he always choose his parents over me and i feel like useless.. for all 7 years of sacrifices that i did for my love to him seems nothing to him..

2007-12-02 01:11:37 · 6 answers · asked by NEILISA **Shane's Mama** 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i used to be very polite, nice and cute...
i used to admire everyone...
BUT
i find out that some people criticisis me in bad way..
some people have tald me about that..
i was in a difficult situation because i thougth that both ..
those who criticises and those who tald about that are people who want to create ager!
and they managed that!
so i becaume worried about my real friends...
now i m the bad person.... so mutch stress...
i have act in a very bad way...
now i can do nothing in order to fix it....
i hate my self!

2007-12-02 01:11:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If you let one go in bed, should you say excuse me or should you just lay there and act as though nothing happened. I think my b/f heard one the other night and now I feel like I need to confront him about it and explain what happened. I am ashamed though because I feel what I did was not very lady like.

2007-12-02 01:06:46 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has been gone four months in military. after being together 3 yrs he forgot me and his daughters when he was there! i think 3 calls in 4 months. He wouldn't answer his phone ect. Well i wasn't invited to basic trainig graduation among other things So i tryed to have him deported. We went back and forth doing mean things. Well he got back 2 weeks ago. The first week i never called him the second week we argued on the phone he called me a backstabber and betrayer Told me he hated me. I said everything i did you pushed me to do! Either way i still miss him even though i don't like the stuff he did either so i call him the other nite it was late so i thought he might answer won't be busy well he did. He wasn't mean as usually and wanted to meet me. i did and wanted to talk to him about all this stuff and the divorce papers i had. Well we were "together" and after he said i hope i didn't confuse you we are still getting a divorce i started to cry i know he felt bed.

2007-12-02 01:05:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was checking my emails and I saw my ex's messages that he send to me a month ago. I read it and I cried because I really love him and he shattered my heart. Then I was looking at my questions & answers here and my ex answer some of them. When I read it, it reminded me about how our relationship worked out before we broke up. So What does that means if you were always crying when you see your ex's messages & answers and Why am I always crying when I see my ex's messages & answers? Please be honest! I'm serious here! Thanks so much for answering this question!

-SadAndDepressedGirl (Denise N)

2007-12-02 01:03:01 · 10 answers · asked by DELETED 3 in Singles & Dating

between you two? would distance be a problem? could you work even after you guys have met? or is it totally dumb, and you should just give up?

2007-12-02 00:59:27 · 11 answers · asked by Keri M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-02 00:58:51 · 7 answers · asked by oreid69 1 in Family

Last night 4 thugs tried to rob me in the park... they started talking to me asking if I had money (I said no)... then they pushed me to the ground and 3 of them started kicking me in the head while the fourth started trying to go through my pockets.....at first I put my arms over my head to protect it but then I started to hold my pockets so the fourth thug could not steal my phone from my pocket... I was holding my pockets and punching him while the other 3 were kicking me in the head... after a few minutes they ran off - they did not manage to steal anything from me.... but my face was totally battered and covered in blood...and I lost vision in my left eye.. I called an ambulance and spent the whole night in the hospital.... by the morning... they said I had heavy lasserations and needed stitches to my eye... I slept for a few hours in the hospital.
In the morning they called a doctor to do the operation.... she was such a beautiful and talented lady and took care of me so well

2007-12-02 00:58:23 · 4 answers · asked by Beast from the East 4 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy as a boyfriend, he's really mature and nice..
i think he likes me cuz he flirts with me alot..cuz he's usally rly quite...and he teases me..
so we were working on our worksheets in science class and one guy asked me if like like him , infront of him
and i said 'as a friend'.....actually l like him as a boyfriend.
if you're a guy...what would you think about this??
and i have to ask yall something..
if a guy hold my hand i mean grab??my hand whenever im holding a water bottle or worksheets.....what dose that mean?
oh!! he can't date untill his sixteenth birthday...btw

2007-12-02 00:56:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Anything unusual too?

2007-12-02 00:48:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

this happened because i said something really hurtful to him during an argument (my mistake)
i cant help thinking it's wrong to tell your girlfriend they "deserved a smack" for saying the wrong thing.
what do you think?

2007-12-02 00:30:04 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

bring a gift, would you comply?

*reason - the bride and groom each have plenty and will have to get rid of much when they combine their living quarters.

2007-12-02 00:26:31 · 31 answers · asked by moontrikle 4 in Weddings

I understand the practical value when hosting for a couple who is starting out life together with very little - but throwing showers for people who have plenty? Or purely because it's traditional? What's up with that?

2007-12-02 00:22:38 · 17 answers · asked by moontrikle 4 in Weddings

i listen to a talk program called tom lykis...airs in LA anyway tom always has male callers who call to complain about their wives who were once hot or attractive..but after marrige they have let themselves go...and how unhappy it makes the guy...i dated a girl she was smoking hot till we moved in together..then after about 6 months she gained a bunch of weight and just let herself go...so i dumped her...i am sure people will say that is wrong..but why would i stay with a girl who lets herself go... i mean if i am with a girl and she isnt keeping up her looks or staying in shpae doesnt that mean she doesnt care? why do girls do this? its like most girls start off young and hot so they can get a husband ..then they dont care anymore and they get fat and ugly...then they wonder why guys cheap and say they still love them...i mean i know whats its like... after my xgf became all fat and ugly i still loved her...but i wasnt sexualy attracted to her at all. i wouldnt kiss her anymore

2007-12-02 00:19:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this boy madly in school
and maybe i shud tell u
his name is Fahim

and he has this distant relative
who also comes to our school
and he is called Jamil

(BTW, they both look kinda similar)

& for some reason
when i go walking around in skul with my friends, and i start thinking of Fahim

Jamil keeps coming infront of me with his friend

and yesterday
i went town wid my dad and brother
and i was wondering,

"what is Fahim doing right now?"

and i saw Jamil!!!
he looked at me in an unsual way
then we both looked back for a bit

den i immediately looked forward
and looked at him from the corner of my eye

tell me please
why does he keep coming infront
i doubt he likes me
well, cud he?
who do i like???

help me
pleasseee

2007-12-02 00:08:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have many people who I still call friends that I do not enjoy any more. I have changed and they have not. I have expanded my mind and intellect and they are still the same person they were 20 years ago. I am disappointed at their lack of growth. They still want to get together with me but no longer really interest me.

I could use the "I am so busy" approach, but that would be a lie. Or I could be really slow to return their emails or phone messages, but that would be rude.

How have you dropped friends that insist on getting together but you do not enjoy anymore?

(Yes, I know I sound like a snob, but the question is sincere)

2007-12-02 00:07:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends