Family & Relationships - 2 December 2007

I was a peace of pooh for the first few years that me and my wife have been together. Now I work, cook, clean, get my kids up for school. If I set down for 10 min to take a break my wife jumps all over me for the things that I haven't done and then reminds me of the things that I have done in the past. AM I FIGHTING A LOOSING BATTLE?

2007-12-02 08:28:09 · 20 answers · asked by Chopper 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-02 08:26:56 · 20 answers · asked by hear ya 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why do you guy likes staring at girls in bikini's there people to you know .

2007-12-02 08:26:47 · 4 answers · asked by EvaMariba 3 in Singles & Dating

denials the nasty twins next door to me confessed to breaking
my window with their ball.

2007-12-02 08:23:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He went on and on about how AMAZING it was.

About an hour later, while we were hanging out, his friend calls. He answers and tells him about how we just "had the most awesome sex ever", how incredible it was, and that he would call with details later. Then says, "I think I love her".

2007-12-02 08:22:46 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A little background (please read before answering):
My husband and I are in our late twenties. Over the last two years, due to medical problems (his), our sex life has become almost nonexistent.
He was never super affectionate before these problems, but he's even less so now. So not only do I not get sex, I don't get touched...and when I DO get touched, I'm disappointed because it doesn't lead to sex! Sigh.
Anyway. Divorce isn't an option, and neither is having an affair. What I'm looking for is people who have perhaps been in a similar situation to tell me how they dealt with it, and perhaps offer me some ways of dealing with it myself.
So I need advice. Please?
The real question is, how can I find a sense of fulfillment without sex, and still be able to look my husband in the eye, and not hold it against him that he doesn't want sex anymore?

2007-12-02 08:22:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So my aunt and uncle were just here, and another aunt I don't see a lot was here too. I asked the aunt I don't see a lot if she'd watch me do one of my dances for her, but then the other aunt and uncle told me that they didn't have time, when they had another hour? Why did they say this? It was really mean. Also, my aunt said that she really wanted to see it. What was there problem?

2007-12-02 08:22:19 · 7 answers · asked by FelicityFrachesca 3 in Family

Would u rather see you child marry a drug addict /looser of the same race or a college grad/great person of a different race?

2007-12-02 08:20:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

after a split, who legally owns the engagement ring?

2007-12-02 08:19:49 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am righting this for a friend she and her mom is taking care of 4 small kids.
my friend is 41 and her mom is in her 70's. they are both disabled. louise has a great granddaughter is on drugs and has left the kids with her, the county has gave them temporary custody of the kids, and the mother of the kids still have the benefits with her from the dps and they are in the process of getting them switched over. but untill then they have no money to buy christmas for the kids, because all the money they have goes towards bills and tring to keep food in the house. anna (my friend) is also getting a check, because she is disabled her money goes for the bills as well. they are in such need and i cant help them cause i barly make ends meet. can someone out here that reads this please help them to make sure the kids have christmas. i think with their life being turned upside down they deserve a merry christmas. the kids think this is how life is going to be for them, please help them

2007-12-02 08:18:31 · 5 answers · asked by pamela 2 in Family

I am a 31yr old divorced female with 2 kids. Tell me something fellows, is that a complete turn off? I am very independent, have a good job, own my own home, but have a hard time meeting men who have it together. Why do men run away from a strong independent woman?

2007-12-02 08:16:47 · 6 answers · asked by Hotgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-02 08:15:49 · 24 answers · asked by d&c 1 in Family

Ok, well, everyone knows that christmas is in like...3 or so weeks, is it bad that im not looking forward to it like i used to? im starting to think that my parents ruin it b/c they get so aggrivated and they complain about how they have no money, so at time i just wish i could tell them to just forget about christmas so they would stop complaing. is that bad that i dont even look forward to christmas anymore?

2007-12-02 08:15:46 · 19 answers · asked by Kimi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

if you have gone through a divorce and don't mind sharing...

any tips/suggestions or things that might be overlooked?
anything you wish you knew beforehand?

2007-12-02 08:14:52 · 4 answers · asked by jen19music 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-02 08:14:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do guys have like long unbrushed hair. My friends is longer than mine and hes a dude!

2007-12-02 08:13:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother is currentley out of work, he has been living with my mother ( sadly my father is deceased) for 5 months. My mother Sabella, is tired of it! She want's him out and she wants him out now! He is a slob he has very few manners, and he doesn't care much about his career. So guess what instead of my sister Monique getting to have him at her house................. I get Salim ( my brother) at my house! Well it is not definite yet but my mother wants him out, and I can not turn her down, she says that I can handle him best, that I am responsible, and that I can motivate him to get a job. But I can't! Me and Salim never got along well, he is horrible with kids and I have 2 four year old boys running around the house! We have plenty of room for him that is certainly not a problem but................... You get the picture help!

2007-12-02 08:13:24 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

My teenage daughter lives with her Mom primarily and I am caught in the middle of their fighting. It has been ongoing and when it gets to a certain point, there is talk of her moving in with me. I have no problem with that but her Mom has the 8-4 job and I have the whenever to whenever job and often work late. It is a better scenario at her Mom's as far as someone being there. But they are having a lot of difficulties. I know it is typical with girls and moms as they grow up to have friction, but I just want what is best for her and regardless of her Mom and my relationship, I still think they should get along better, even if she does move with me. Your thoughts and experiences would be appreciated. Thanks.

2007-12-02 08:12:39 · 4 answers · asked by William B music lover 3 in Family

fistfight and is now being taken to court. She got angy with me during a drunken rage two nights ago and threatened to leave. I got up out of the chair, said BYE!, and went to bed. Now, part of her stuff is gone, but her clothes and everyday needs are still here. I think she plans to come here to dress everyday. This is not the first time she has pulled this kind of thing. Should I change the locks?

2007-12-02 08:11:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have heard my friends talking about women who are hot. but i never could distinguish between a hot girl and a normal girl. Can you? how?

2007-12-02 08:10:30 · 9 answers · asked by Max 2 in Singles & Dating

would you date a pretty girl with a great personality but was chubby?

2007-12-02 08:09:49 · 7 answers · asked by <3 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay we have two pastors at our church and one of them is an associate meaning hes like a step down but still a pastor, this leaves him as our youth pastor also. He had a lockin on friday night to saturday morning in witch no one is aloud to sleep because it is always Co-ed. Anyway, we went bowling till midnight and then came back. we did things and had one kid that hadnt been on his medicine so he was very bad and wouldnt listen to anyone, three girls were sleeping and others doing other things, while the group I was in was playing games like spoons and silent football. At eight o'clock the next morning we all went home.
so my mom goes to church today and comes home and tells me some things....
let me explain somthing before I go on: there is a family who ( both kids came to the lockin) who are very needy and the one girl always talks up a story and things.... and the boy didnt have his medicine before hand and all was bad..
anyway, they came into church today telling us that they were taking a kid to court that THEY BROUGHT to the lockin for touching a girl inapropriatly (this is the girl that always talks herself and things up)..... *and she also says she broke her finger at bowling* now I dont know what to do, because I KNEW the kid that they brought and he was kicked out of my school (I live in a different town then they do) because of inapropriatly touching girls.....


the ** mean this.... This girl is ALWAYS "hurt" she always has somthing wrong with her and now my pastor is probably going to get into a ton of trrouble and they have cancelled all future lockins.... not fair because of one family they ruined everything. we could loose our pastor over one persons exagerations, and her brothers behavior, while all we did was silent football! and spoons....

2007-12-02 08:08:33 · 8 answers · asked by Secret 3 in Family

My parents have been talking about having more kids, but my dad can't anymore, so I don't know if they are joking or what, but anyway I was thinking of maybe them getting a sperm doner or something because I also want a new baby brother or sister, what do you think my parents will say. (It's just me and my little brother). And adoption takes a long time with all the steps.
Ps: I know it's my parent's choice, i'm just asking.

2007-12-02 08:08:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My mother lost her job a few years ago. Since then, I have been helping pay her bills. I recently purchased my own home so I am not able to do all the things I use to do. Her washing machine went out, so I bought her a new one. Her phone was turned off, so I paid to get it turned back on and gave her some extra money to catch up. She was working 2 part-time jobs, but quit 1 just because she didn't like it. I told her that sometimes we have to do what we don't want to because we have things that need to be taken care of. I work 2 jobs and sure don't want to. All of this took place within the last couple of months. Now it's Christmas time and she wants a new TV for her living room. I told her that I was not getting it because I'm trying to re-do some rooms in my new home. Well, she just ignored what I said and has constantly brought up the TV. Mind you, she has a TV in her bedroom and in other rooms. I'm getting new furniture,giving her my old and paying shipping cost. Am i wron

2007-12-02 08:06:54 · 10 answers · asked by Hotgirl 2 in Family

I date because I want to know if im campitable and have the same things in common with him, what is your reason?

2007-12-02 08:06:52 · 3 answers · asked by hiddenpedals 2 in Singles & Dating

Where is he?
what i am doing wrong?

How you got your lover? Give me advice.
guy usually share at me a lot but it's very rare that they will approach me and i am friendly and going out going.

My first real relationship was this guy that i talked to him first before he took action later.
The second one, i told a friend to hook me up with someone she knows. He turn out to be very controlling telling me very time that he is the man and man's wife or girlfriend have to do this and that it's is religion.

So i am out of that and i want someone who can take my breath away and i will take his way as well.

I need tips here help.
Thanks

2007-12-02 08:04:58 · 17 answers · asked by frenchi 6 in Singles & Dating

More specifically, what is the difference between a significant other a boyfriend/girlfriend? and the difference between a significant other and a husband/wife? Are you set apart? If so, how?

2007-12-02 08:04:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i wanted to put it as my signature can u make sure its short please thankx.

2007-12-02 08:03:34 · 5 answers · asked by Chocolate_High 2 in Singles & Dating

If you were a parent, which path would you take?
to work away in another country for a better job opportunity to provide a more secure financial state for your children and family, at the same time being physically away from your children and missing out in their growing years?
---OR---

to try to make ends meet with what you can while together not have to be away and stay with your children and family all throughout?

2007-12-02 08:02:48 · 22 answers · asked by ks 1 in Family

my ex will call me at times very late or early in the morning...asking me wassup mami? why do ex's do this? does it mean he still has feelings for me or what? sometimes he will send me a myspace message and ask me wassup but he says he is drunk. what does this mean?

2007-12-02 08:02:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating