Family & Relationships - 2 December 2007

i like this guy & whenever i look at him he always looks back for like three seconds
and from the corner of my eye, i can see him looking at me
i mean, if he didnt like me and thought i was a weirdo he would just ignore me right? thats what i would do if i was him,
so what do you tihnk hes trying to say?
do you think hes just playing me?? =(

2007-12-02 09:38:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like he will do some things but when it comes down to give me money he don't want to give it to me but i break my neck for him and his kids. no i don't have any children and he using right

2007-12-02 09:38:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In the world and your ex won't let you say happy birthday to her, what would you do. Keep in mind the mother is breaching a court order?

2007-12-02 09:36:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

First of all I don't think he's good enough for her, granted he's a great guy, a "good catch" but I just don't think he's her match. She's 22 (which I don't think is old enough) but she wants to have kids and the whole big thing from age 25-30 (she's engaged now). She's talked to me about it and she loves him but I can tell she's hesitating.

He's not romantic enough for her wants (well he's not really at all) she'll tell him things she wants to do and without him ever contemplating it before (like ice fishing, hunting, pilots liscense, ect) he'll go out and do it with is buddies with out her.

Together they just seem like the type of people that will grow old and not do anything, and that's not her at all. She wants to live her life and I want to encourage it. I told her I don't think he's good enough for her but stopped there because don't know how to say how I feel. She needs to make her own decision but I feel I need to tell her more of how I see it. How do I tell her that?

2007-12-02 09:36:10 · 18 answers · asked by m- 2 in Marriage & Divorce

In the world and your ex won't let you say happy birthday to her, what would you do. Keep in mind the mother is breaching a court order?

2007-12-02 09:35:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

in general, women have much more hardened opinions about people than men.

Why?

2007-12-02 09:34:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm sooo mad, my mom is away at my aunts and my stepdad is left incharge. I made a mess in the kitchen and hes been yelling all day. After I claened it up he told me I was grounded and I'm lucky he doesinit whip me. I hate him so much. How can he treat me lik this?

2007-12-02 09:32:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Became really cool friends with a classmate (college) We decided no relationship, but had love for each other. We did have a sexual relationship that benefited both of us and we always had fun. We managed to keep our private relationship from our friendship which was even better. Well we got into a really bad argument bc he asked me to pick him up from wk, and after i dropped everything i was doing, when i got there, he had already found another ride. Keep in mind I was clear across town. That started a huge argument bc this wasn't the first time that happened, he did little things like this often. Now he ignores my calls and text messages, continues to sit next to me in class, and won't even look at me.This broke my every bit of my heart and I had a hard time dealing with it. i don't know how someone could treat a person like that, I thought we were friends above everything. Well it's been about a month, and we still don't really talk and he ignores my text messages still

2007-12-02 09:31:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She had to sell his belongings to pay the bills and feed the kids .

2007-12-02 09:29:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i lost my libido after my second child. does anyone know anything to boost it? i lost my marriage because of this but i want to be normal as i was or as close to it as i can get. please help

2007-12-02 09:29:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have been married for a year and a half now. We have had some amazing times and really not so good times. When we are together and everything is fine we are perfect for eachother, its when we start talking about couple stuff. We are very jel people, even though we are married. My wife has told me she needs a break from us, to try and get back what we had. She wants to try and erase all the bad times we had and move on with us. I have made a apoint for us to talk to someone about us, she wants to do it. But at the same time i know i have not been the best husband, i really want her to realize like i have, how much i really love her. What do i do, is there anything i can do.

2007-12-02 09:28:49 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Engaged 1.5 years, but what I want to know is am I facing the same problems as everyone else or am I getting the short end of the stick? He never takes the trash out, I wash all of his clothes/dishes, he always blames me for everything, he never does anything special besides go to the movies. I feel like I do everything, and I am not sure he respects me anymore. The other day, he handed me his fast food garbage to throw away...after he passed the kitchen and came into the back room I was in. He sends me to get anything....Out of toilet paper....Thats my problem....Lost his keys, my problem again. I feel like Im on egg shells. We dont have kids, but I jumped into this and moved in with him, thinking things would be very different. If I stay, we have a chance of building something great. If I leave, Id have to start over completly with nothing. But, Im starting to feel like an Old Maid, and he isn't giving me nil. I am tired. I don't want to waste too much more time, if this isnt real.

2007-12-02 09:28:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and excellent at budgeting and all things financial. We share housework, and I look after the chidren in the morning while she works and then I work afternoons and early evenings ( about 30 hrs a week). I have an illness that flares up from time to time but feel ready to work longer hours. I cook every other day, bath the kids, get them dressed and the eldest ready for school then walk him in with the youngest in tow. I fix stuff round the house, split the day up at weekends if we both need a rest, I'm far from perfect but feel taken for granted. She's on antidepressants which seem to help, but not enough. I want to stay with her, I can't face the family breaking up.My biggest faults are my moods and irritation with the children, although they always know they are loved and get plenty of hugs and are happy. I think I must be very frustrated with the situation. I have been gearing myself up for a split for a while, all I have to do is stop cooperating...

2007-12-02 09:28:00 · 4 answers · asked by swlbodmin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my new bf wants to hang out but where can we go?

if my parents are overprotective,

and dont want tme hangnig out with boys?

we and my bf are both 14 and in 9th grade.

over each other houses? outa the question i'll be gone. my parents would K*** me!


any ideas?

2007-12-02 09:27:56 · 8 answers · asked by Mimi 4 in Singles & Dating

There is this cute woman at my job who i like alot. We have talked alot durin work, and during the breaks. Now we have decided to cut back on that bc ppl were becoming suspicious. We text one another alot everyday outside of work. We were supposed to hang out this weekend, but she texted me that she had to go to ny that should couldnt hang with me this weekend. she also said that she feels very bad and felt very sorry about this. she also texted me sayin she promise to make this up to me. what do u think? what should i do? do u think im bein played like a sucker? pls tell me what u think and what i should do or expect. thanks
G

2007-12-02 09:27:40 · 6 answers · asked by tbg1982 1 in Singles & Dating

Iam 43 and seeing a 38 year old man. He works alot of overtime. Ive been seeing him for over 5 weeks now.He lives closeby as well.

The past 3 weeks, he has broken the plans we had on our 'days" together or it has been dwindled down to 2 hours together. This apologized as he has a busy schedule,hes trying to save alot to get his daughter in a custody suit coming in March. He also has not been well, a van fell on him last summer and he may have a ruptured kidney that needs surgery. But for this past weekend, he promised me he'd be free all sat and sunday days and for me to plan something I'd like to do somewhere with him and we would go. I even asked a girl at work to help me as Im new to this city and she had some suggestions. I had bought tickets for something we could go see and he did not contact me all weekend. Not even a phone call. His cellular voicemail is out of order but he does know when I call. He may be working out of cellular range. What shoudl I do with this man??

2007-12-02 09:27:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am married. I hate being married. My husband is a JW and preaches 7 days a week and does not work. I have been supporting us for the last 4 years with no help. I have a child from a prev relationship, Hubby takes no responsibility for him. Does not provide food or clothes or attention or play with him ( he is 11 now) or cook meals for him, or anything!! and never has. Just complains about his noise and quirks ( he is special Ed) like he is in the way.
Hubby doesn't take care of me at all. No dinners out, no gifts, no special anythings but he says he loves me and appreciates everything I do. I do everything cause I have to, not cause I am wanting to! Hubby's world revolves around his work outs, his runningm, his preaching, his enema's ( for colon health) shaving, showering, sleeping and resting. My washer has been broken for 3 weeks. He didnt even bother to try and look at it till I hauled it to the back patio MYSELF since he said it was SO much work to move it to look at it.

2007-12-02 09:23:20 · 19 answers · asked by Sickofneedylazypeople 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I can't love this guy anymore. There is no way we can end up together, we will always be just friends. It is ripping me apart, and it is unhealthy. I already tried liking someone else, and I tried not talking to him for a while and it didn't work. Also keep in mind that he is one of my good friends, and I wouldn't want to do anything detrimental to our friendship. I don't think I'm just going to stop liking him with time, I don't know. So what do you all suggest I do?

2007-12-02 09:21:17 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last summer my husband admitted that he didn't want me to be a housewife and so I went back to work. I have now picked up a full time job and he has picked up...nothing.

I work full time, raise 3 kids (1 disabled), go to school part time, take care of the house and everything I did before I went back to work. My husband is a truckdriver so he's only home 3 days a month. It all falls on me and he hasn't seemed to take into consideration how much I do.

Me self esteem was low before and I am really enjoying my job and the chance at a future.

My problem is that I'm tired and my husband doesn't seem to care. He will complain that the house isn't as clean as it use to be, but after doing the dishes he lays on the couch. I have so many things in my life and he has become an inconvenience. There is no evidence that he cares about the family. We don't have any kind of interesting conversations and sex is better by myself. How wrong am I for feeling this way?

2007-12-02 09:19:45 · 12 answers · asked by kidzrdrivinmekrazy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a virgin in my past i have been known to be a wild child doin things i am not to proud of and came close a few times to goin all the way with a guy, drugs use to be the factor of most of my times i have only messed with 2 guys my bf now and my past one but i have cooled down alot got out of all that stuff and everything the guy i am with now i love so much he is great he does not know much about my past and what i was like but thats not my problem my prob is that we mess around every now and then but he wants to go all the way and that like what he talks about alot to i dont think thats what he is in it 4 cuz if he was he would have been gone by now but every time we are about to go all the way i freeze its like a flash back to my younger times when i was wild and i just like stop and get up and just tell him i dont want to do it y do you think u have to and this and that we have got into it a few times cuz of this and idk what to do plz help

2007-12-02 09:17:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you're in a boat with your wife and your mother
and a fire broke into
who would you save if you can save only one??
it's a tough question so i won't vote for any answer as the best one.
for me
i'll save my mom bcz im not married

2007-12-02 09:17:53 · 4 answers · asked by Kazarolla 4 in Marriage & Divorce

so. my boyfriend has the tendency to fall alseep on the couch, which means that i sleep alone. i am more than FED UP with it, nonetheless, i acknowledge that he may fall alseep sometimes, so i offered a compromise: 3x times a week, he lays down in our room (of course, he can continue to watch T.V. and he does not have to actually sleep when i sleep; just lie down next to me). he tells me he will make an "effort"...what the HELL does that mean! when you get tired, instead of laying on the couch, GET UP! am i crazy for this....i think most women would hate if their men fell asleep on the couch. i'm sick of it...and we havent dealt w/ the fight yet. and we've been having this fight for about 1 year..now, i'm ******* done w/ it and am about to just end this relationship. i'm sick of it. and i will ALWAYS want him to lay down in our bed for at least 3 nights a week, so how can we ever come to peace if he's unwilling> i love him more than anything, but this is becoming too much...

2007-12-02 09:17:30 · 23 answers · asked by happypants 3 in Marriage & Divorce

husband, she always try her best to b nice wid him but he always gives her rubish and stupids things back,for example he always tries 2 b dectator, telling her where 2 go and where nt to go, wat 2 wear and wat to nt?she dont like all this but as human u need some one so she is rying her best to be wid him all i know is there is difference btw them she is white and he is from pakistan and there is cultural difference there, i dont know how to guide her, just now she told me she was hving such a nice time and all of sudden wen he saw her on net he became mad and srarted row over it, she sed she was looking 4 some sites for her assignment he thought she is chatting 2 some1, he took the router off and told her u cant see ur frnds any more and started arguements , she was crying 2 me i dont wat to say her, coz she always at the end does wat she likes and she is suffering a lot, i dont knw wat is my rolem plz let me knw wen ever she comes 2 me wat shall i say 2 her,

2007-12-02 09:16:14 · 20 answers · asked by Jemmy K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-02 09:12:20 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-02 09:11:53 · 10 answers · asked by ♥hot girl♥ 1 in Weddings

Has anyone ever found a better photographer after paying the $400 transferable but non-refundable deposit on their first choice?

Did you do anything about it, or did you just swallow it and get on with it..?

Do you think there is a tactful way of showing your photographer another photographers work and asking them to try and emmulate them a bit more..? The main difference I guess is that the photographer I have paid for seems to use a lot of photoshop work with the colours making them look 'vibrant' yet a little unnatural.. Where as these other guys seem to have a really beautiful natural quality about their work. :-s

Thanks! :o)

2007-12-02 09:10:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i've been married for almost 10 years and i want to leave my husband. he's a jurk when it comes to things like that, every time i talk about it to him he thinks i'm joking and tells me he won't let me leave him. how can i get him to leave? or atleast me leave? one thing about my husband ,he's a bad *** and is a real jurk when it comes to us splitting up. can someone please help me!

2007-12-02 09:08:37 · 8 answers · asked by stressed out 1 in Marriage & Divorce

to find a grate guy for me can you help me??????

2007-12-02 09:06:36 · 16 answers · asked by Alyssa T 1 in Singles & Dating

I find myself at a crossroads, I been married for 13 years we've had a lot of struggles in our relationship, but we've made it through most of them. There has always been a big one, the issue of kids, my wife doesn't seem to have the maternal instinct and what's worse she doesn't like to talk about it. The older I get the more I feel I'd like to be a father.

Enter the younger woman, she 's come into my life for only a short time but i feel a connection with her. Culturally we share a common background so I feel I can talk to her, she's brought out a lot of buried feelings about my culture that I denied were there.

I'm really confused, I can really picture my life with this other woman , what do I do? Do I talk to her about how I feel???

2007-12-02 09:05:28 · 15 answers · asked by Frank S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wedding is may 24th which happens to be memorial day weekend. I wanted to send out save the dates, but am also sending out christmas cards. Would it be ok to send theme in thee same envelope?

2007-12-02 09:05:08 · 11 answers · asked by ? 6 in Weddings