Family & Relationships - 2 December 2007

OK so it was my birthday yesterday i had a party and guess what my friend ranf me at 4 and said am not coming to your party my bf had cheated on me so i ring her to day and shes bk with him and am reading her myspace bulliot and it says she went to chazz's to drink loads and she thinks somone loves her that was posted yesterday and it also said have u been crying today and she put no help me is she lying

2007-12-02 06:22:37 · 6 answers · asked by finding_nemo500s 1 in Friends

2007-12-02 06:18:14 · 7 answers · asked by bluestar 3 in Singles & Dating

I HAD a friend, who was never allowed to go out and do normal stuff but since we are no longer friends he has completely changed and is allowed to go out, etc. Now he is making most of my friends go against me and getting me into trouble!!!

How do I get revenge on him and how can I get my friends back?

2007-12-02 06:17:54 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

1. How old are u?
2. Do you have a husband ?
3. How long have you and your best friend been friends?
4. How close are you?

When i ask how close you are, I mean, do u hold hands? Do you snuggle in bed together (in a friendly way)? Do you play with each other's hair? If you put the last piece of chocolate in your mouth and she wanted it, would you take it out and give it to her? Have you ever thought........... Let's leave our men, and just be together? Does it mean you are bi or gay just because you do do those things with her?

I am just curious about how people act with their best friends.

2007-12-02 06:17:46 · 9 answers · asked by Cutie 3 in Singles & Dating

i am going on a blind date soon

2007-12-02 06:16:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My father does not like who i married because he is not my nationality im from Croatia and my husband is Italian. How do i get them to get along with eachother?? any ideas??

2007-12-02 06:16:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

just got with this guy like a couple of weeks ago, but he's more experienced in the love department than i am, he reinds e of hitch the movie, i get the feeling i next on his agenda then he'l move on, i tried being laid back and taking it easy, but he's the 1st guy iv had romantic feeling about, iv bin in relationships before but not one like this, i really want to show hi i care about him so hopefully he wont hurt me, would that work? or what should i do, he does everything right but he was a player in the past, we used to be friends so i know all about his past girls, i feel next, but when im around hi i feel so $%£^$&*%&(*, cant describe it, what should i do, confused. how do i show i dnt deserve what he does to most girls in his past

2007-12-02 06:14:47 · 6 answers · asked by Xx~lovely~xX 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-02 06:13:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was just watching football on tv, and was wondering you know how the Quarterback reaches between the centers legs and has his hands up there like right underneath the center's balls. wouldnt the Quarterback accidenally bump the centers balls and hurt him from time to time?

2007-12-02 06:13:34 · 5 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever been asked by your family to choose between them and your boyfriend/girlfriend/partner or vice versa? Was having this conversation with a friend of mine the other day and we've both been given this ultimatum in the past and wondered if anybody else has. Won't go into details on here for either of us as its far too personal. Thanks for your answers in advance.

2007-12-02 06:11:09 · 24 answers · asked by Only visiting 5 in Singles & Dating

him - "if you are not happy,then you should leave" (after me saying im not happy with the way things are) then in another convo, him - "not working it out is called 'running', you rather run then work it out"(after me saying maybe I should move out been on my own because we have some issues. This was stated on 2 dif occasions. I think it is obvious some things need to be discussed and clarified between us.

a little history on us...
been together for 8 years almost nine met when i was 22 been livin together almost since we met. Hit it off real nice when we met and in the 3rd year he ran into problems and needed a very strong woman to put up with his situation (dont really wanna put him out the specifically but it is what it is) and i did and helped him through his troubling time through out that period (2yrs) HE told me (with out me nagging) ohh you are my everything we gonna get married blah blah blahhhh. I never pushed the issue because i was just happy being together and in love nothing else mattered so then he came out of the situation and has been for almost 4 years and doing well and I never heard any of the mushy mushy since. But were still together, but what happened to all the "oh you are my world" stuff? Was I taken for a ride? am i still? He does have a lot on his plate (3 kids baby momma issues that makes things harder for us and the kids takes care of the house financially and i do everything else) fair bargain? I dont know if we are ready for marriage and that is fine but why dont he even mention ANYTHING about what he said before or no updates or nothing.???
I know its not all his fault and i not even looking to point the finger, just wondering if i missed something or being taken for a ride because thats not cool.
I want some answers not a specific one but just something to go on...so why dont i just ask???
so i dont look like a stalker cuz im not! im trying to get answers with looking like a nag any suggestion are appreciated.

PS if you are going to bash me for mistakes already made dont waste your time, thanks.

I was thinking of just askin flat out if he is happy with the relationship in general and is there something about me that bothers him. just a start, am i being reasonable?

2007-12-02 06:10:43 · 5 answers · asked by GTASE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

get over someone
you cant stop thinking about



and ideas?

2007-12-02 06:07:29 · 8 answers · asked by answersgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to come up with some ideas for my wedding, I cant use real ones so ive got battery opp. Tealights. How can I make a centerpiece out of them?

2007-12-02 06:07:06 · 22 answers · asked by al 1 in Weddings

How much should I be asking for if I am an education major who is certified in CPR and first aid?
Also, I am more than willing to do housecleaning.

2007-12-02 06:06:54 · 4 answers · asked by BetsyLauren 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

should i tell her he punched me in the face when i told him not to hurt her cause if i do she might not beleive me and might not be my friend

2007-12-02 06:06:09 · 14 answers · asked by Lilly Knows Best 1 in Friends

The guy i was seeing and I made a homemade sex tape...which he took with him....im a little concerned..Althought, I dont think he ll ver show to anyone because he is very self concerned about his body.....what do you think?

2007-12-02 06:05:36 · 12 answers · asked by angel 2 in Singles & Dating

everyone is saying so many stuff about everyone and i just want it to end what would be the best way to end it?

2007-12-02 06:05:01 · 6 answers · asked by D 4 in Marriage & Divorce

They teach our youth that it's perfectly fine to have sex, AS LONG as you use a condom. It's okay to ..... AS LONG as....

No, I don't think it's okay. Look at our kids, they go to parties hook up with random people whose names they couldn't even tell you if you paid them 500 dollars. By the time they get old enough for marriage they have been "around" so much that they don't even want to make a commitment to one girl. And when they do, most of them end up cheating on their spouse (at least once). Hence, our 50% divorce rate in this country.

What happened to all the girls that enjoy watching movies, going to the beach, going hiking?

They are hard to find nowadays....sadly...

2007-12-02 06:03:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i lost my brother..

http://www.militarycity.com/valor/3173540.html

he was everything to me.i dont know what i would do.
i realized that he was the person that always motivated me to do everything i desired.he told me that when he passes away he wants me to know that he loves me and nothing is gonna change what we shared in our lifetime.




anyone?? help me??
friday at school......
the whole day..i thought about my brother.
i cant stop.
hes my everything..

and i cried my heart out..pounding the ground..
what can i do to get over this??
i need my brother.
someone please help me.


thank you.

♥ hawaiian.babe

2007-12-02 06:02:00 · 6 answers · asked by nitababyy 2 in Friends

Okay...I just woke up from a nap and i had the weirdest dream....

I was sitting at home and waiting for my friend.He is 17 and i'm 13.When he came i jumped into his arms and said "I can't stand it anymore!Please....I'm so scared.Hold me close to you." And he emberaced me the carried me up to my room.We lay on my bed for and hour just snuggling and talking.He began to tickle me and and then he kissed me.I was shocked and didn't know what to do so i just laied there. As time went by the kiss became deeper. He then started moving his hand up my shirt,and i'll stop deatial there.You get the idea. so time gose by....Stuff, happens and then i woke up.
Do i love him?

2007-12-02 06:01:39 · 2 answers · asked by Miah can see you 2 in Friends

what if he left you because you were a chrisian?

2007-12-02 06:00:25 · 26 answers · asked by Amber T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-02 05:59:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It was my birthday night out on Friday and he was all raring to go but then he said he was ill, which I believe, but he said he was sooo ill he couldnt come out to which I said not to worry. Then I found out that he was going out with his new girlfriend for dinner and went for a few drinks after.....i text him yesterday to see how he was to which he said that he was falling asleep at dinner and his gf was nursing him better.....i was so ticked off all I text back was at least you made it to dinner.....what do I do? As I want to tell him I am pissed off but he is the sort of person that runs from confrontation......

2007-12-02 05:59:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-02 05:58:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 20. Ive been dating a girl (also 20) for two months. A month ago she told me she wants a relationship eventually with me but she wants to move very slow. She said she gets scared of relationships and it is hard for her to open up becasue she has been hurt badly in the past. It seems like she has a wall of protection up that is very hardfor her to break down and trust me. A week ago she said she was ready for a relationship before we had a week off from college (we live in different states so we didnt see each other.) When we got back she said she was feeling pressured to say she was ready because of the break but wasnt and wants to take everything very slow. Does this mean she doesnt anything more serious with me or should I just hang in there and let her decide when she wants to get more serious??

2007-12-02 05:56:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'll make this short , but need to give a little background. First of all,I am 36, so mature advice would be appreciated.

Been dating such a great guy for 2 years. He is stable, reliable, committed, but the relationship is really unexciting and lacks passion. It feels comfortable and regular...it feels safe.

I am not a partier, but do live getting dressed up , going to nice dinners, wine-tasting. I am pretty social ( bf is not at all) and I really miss that. My best friend says I seem like a part of me is missing. BF is pretty uncomfortable socially, he has tried to go out before with me, but it is awkward and I get frustrated, so I stick with what is comfortable- movies, dinners, we workout together. That is kinda it.
I am longing for more excitement- not drama. I don't want a kid relationship.
I want to talk to him-I guess see how he is feeling, but I am nervous. I am not sure I want to break-up. I do love him and would tremendously miss him.

2007-12-02 05:56:50 · 8 answers · asked by epsilon_theta 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-02 05:49:51 · 4 answers · asked by Jade B 1 in Friends

Sounds like a fast food joint to me you know.Drive in,place an order, and in minutes(kazaam!) the food is ready. I think home cooked meals are better dont you?

2007-12-02 05:47:18 · 12 answers · asked by jero 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I bought a house close to his Military base,and after 6 weeks of being there,he cheated on me with some girl he met online,then took off. Leaving me with the house and all. I got him to pay for half of the house payment for a year until I get back on my feet. Now when he gets mad,he says well I don't have to pay,or if I date,he thinks he doesn't have to pay. This month he hasn't even paid it yet and it was due on the 1st on NOV! So he is already a month behind. Does he think he is GOD? I mean he is a control freak as it is,but will I be able to do something about it seriously? Someone said go to I.G? Is that right? What rights do I have without spending alot of money I don;t have on lawyers. We already have the court papers.

Thank you

2007-12-02 05:45:45 · 8 answers · asked by Holly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am just curious, I am happily engaged and I love what I have, me and my friend have a bet....

what if you were presented with a gemstone engagement ring and you were expecting a 1 carat diamond ring, or something else very particular... what would you do?

gemstone engagement rings, good or bad?

2007-12-02 05:42:55 · 40 answers · asked by lovesapples 4 in Weddings