2007-12-02 00:58:51 · 7 answers · asked by oreid69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Awww poor you. Its horrible when your dad dies, my dad died and I found it difficult. As each day passed it felt a bit better and I coped a bit better. He's been dead 5 years now and it still feels like recently and i still miss him, but I have stopped crying, and I can talk about him without crying.
Just take one day at a time, don't think about tomorrow just deal with today. Talk about him with your family and friends, the funny things that he has done in his life or things that he said. Put a photo of him by your bedside, and don't be afraid to say goodnight dad.
It will get better with time. Promise
2007-12-02 01:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hi
i'm so sorry for your loss, my dad passed away 6yrs ago and he had been ill for a while, i found it very difficult to cope so i went to speak to my gp who recomended that i went on some medication for a while to help me get through things, they did help me to cope on a daily basis and when i felt mentally stronger i came off the meds without any problems, also there is bereavement councilling that might help you, you will always miss your dad and with time things will get easier but sometimes we all need a little bit of help to cope with things in life.
2007-12-02 05:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of my parents are gone now,my mom for 15 yrs. everyday i still want to call her,just to hear her voice. time makes it easier to deal with but you will never get over the loss. just do your best in this world so your dad will be proud of you. remember what he has taught you and let that grow fom you. remember the love that he had for you even though dads dont show it as much and show your appreciation of the times you had with him by being strong . the best thing you can do is carry on for him and knowing hes watching. hes in a better place ,no pain,and free. god bless.
2007-12-02 01:09:15 · answer #3 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Be glad that you had a good relationship with your father rejoice in that ,you can still talk to him tell him your problems. try not to be angry that he left you. Remember that some did not have the same relationship with their father and went to is funeral as it was expected I feel envious of you that you have someone to miss but it will take time don't shut the thought of him out allow yourself to be sad for short times but try not to dwell
2007-12-02 04:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by David M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry, if you feel like crying,cry, if you feel like being alone, be alone. You have to go along with the grieving and don't fight it. It's okay to go to their resting place and talk, it helps. The hurt will lessen but will never leave and you will be able to look back at your dad's memory and smile.
2007-12-02 01:40:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it in little bits, get though the next miniute, then the next, and so on. Gradually work it up to hours. It will dull with time but I'm sorry to say the feelings will never go completely.
2007-12-02 01:06:12 · answer #6 · answered by brandane 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
have a patience, time is a great healer.
2007-12-02 01:28:44 · answer #7 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋