Family & Relationships - 28 November 2007

2007-11-28 23:59:06 · 13 answers · asked by Mark D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband &I met a two years ago. we got married after a year.he was good guy , was good at givng attention.just after we got married ,he accidenatly sent me a txt mgs that was meant to got to one of his female firends&it said how he was proud of her &that she was one of the most beautiful woman he has ever seen , she had just won a modeling context.I talked to him about it &he said he would make sure he did not overstep this friendship.well, this just sent red signals to me &I started cheking his phone.I realised that he was a bit infatuated by this friend &I thought well, it just will blow over but let me watch him. well ,it got worse and I kept on checking .he knew I was checking &he kept on going , even began to meet other women online thru hi5 etc.well ,I was hurt but did not ask him coz I hoped it was a faze that wld pass.it hurt our relationship.during this time , he lost his job, I did fret but as a wife I felt it was my role to have his back.I made a bit more than him so I

2007-11-28 23:55:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She was in car with another man who decided to have sex with her against her will!

2007-11-28 23:55:14 · 39 answers · asked by other boy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont know if this is normal that this is just a false alarm...

i have a bf (for almost 8 mos. now) and he has 2 sisters.... everytime i tell him to stop that habit of being close to other girls he always tells me "u knw that im closer to girls than guys" but im really thinkin if he's just trying to get me to believe him or just really the fact...

its not that im insecure but its not really normal for me to know such a guy hu is like that...... its kinda giving me an impression that he's such a flirt.....

he's always chatting in YM w/other girls til dawn..... he tells me they are just friends... most of the time he dsnt SMS me anymor... its like he only text me once a day..... i dnt text him lately bcoz im really getting tired being the 1st one to start the conversation...... and he's like that (texting almost once a day)... he asked me y i didnt text him anymor n i told him i was tired blah3.... and he risons me that he was used to me being the one to text 1st.....

argh.

2007-11-28 23:51:36 · 14 answers · asked by essence 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this female after awhile she quit her job due to her mom and dad getting sick..I bought a cabin and I am trying to give her the world. It seems that every other night her neice wants to come over and drink..Her neice stole everything out of her house.I mean everything including her hot water tank..You name it it was taken.The reason is cause her ex owed people some money..It seems that the only thing she wants to do is loose her temper and break things cause I Do not want her niece waking us up every other night wanting to party..What should I do?? Should I drop her?? Or how would I get her help since we are not married..What should I do??

2007-11-28 23:44:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i just found out my daughter was touched many times by her half brother. he dosen't live with me. i'm not sure what to do now. the state is involved now. but what i don't get is she says it happened this summer in my parents barn and in my van on the way home from school, so why didn't she say anything? shes not even upset about it. i know my daughter very well, so my other question is could she have played a part in it to? she has lied many times for the attention she gets from the school so how do i know what is the truth and whats not? her half brother admits to touching her, but she still says nothing to me. i know she will need counseling but if she played a part in this shouldn't she have to take responsibility to?

2007-11-28 23:33:58 · 13 answers · asked by kat ? 2 in Family

my boyfriend and i have been living together for over 7 years now. a couple of weeks ago he told me i could do better than him. does anyone have any idea what he meant by that statement.

2007-11-28 23:31:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

can you be a real friend?

2007-11-28 23:21:02 · 10 answers · asked by angelie m 1 in Friends

Ok there is this guy that my bf is already jealous of because we are so close. He's like my brother though, he helps me with stuff when i get offstep in my walk with god and all that. My bf won't admit that he's jealous either. Well the friend is going through a health problem and its worrying me, so i tend 2 tlk about it alot n cry sometimes. I have noticed that he doesn't know what to say. Do you think i shouldn't tlk 2 him about it since he's already jealous of they guy?

2007-11-28 23:19:56 · 9 answers · asked by science geek 2 in Singles & Dating

come.I knew he was very tired that day but it never happened to me before and i don't know how to handle it.I mean he really wanted me but what happened at the end?Now,i'm afraid to have sex with him again because of this.What if it happens again?I'm not so experienced.Is it better to wait some time bf do it again or to react as if nothing happened?As for him,he was really cool after this and sweet and carrying as ever.What can i do?Pls,only serious points of view,thank you.

2007-11-28 23:16:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I do practically everything for my woman. All I ask is she keeps the ice trays full. Is that so much to ask?

2007-11-28 23:12:38 · 17 answers · asked by Just me 2 in Singles & Dating

Haven't heard from all of you in awhile, and here is your chance of getting another 10 points...

2007-11-28 23:11:27 · 5 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5 in Friends

He's done this in the past and is scared and it is killing me I just dont know how to make him see sense. Up until this happened everything was great its been over 2 years and now he's freaked out and I dont know what to do

2007-11-28 23:09:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

women say that men will be men, when it comes to men looking at other women while they have girlfrends/wives... My question to you is:
Wouldn't you rather your man be wholly Captivated by you, and have no need to look at another woman? To know that you captivate him to the point where you are worth pursuing even after being married 30 years? that His desire is to you? Let's ask ourselves this: What is the real reason behind us men looking at other women?

2007-11-28 23:02:26 · 17 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-28 22:57:21 · 15 answers · asked by dum 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-28 22:53:33 · 16 answers · asked by lys a 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-28 22:51:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Long story, bear with me. My grandma gave me her rings. I tried to tell my soon to be finance i wanted to use them when we became engaged, but he thought i didnt want him to spent a lot of money and that i really wanted new rings. I should have firm about it, but i let it go. Well, i thought i had a second chance when he asked me to go shopping with rings with him so he knew what i liked/disliked. but we never went, and before i knew it he had brand new rings and proposed. Well obviously im a pushover and never say "no", so i decided to keep them. I didnt want to hurt his feelings or his credit. But then we went to get them sized at the store, when we got them back they had *burned* some of the diamonds black and didnt even bother to clean it! Not only that but i swear the rings still were way too big, they felt the exact same size as before! When i promptly told them this they blew me off completly. Now i dont think he can return them, what should i do? I feel so bad :(

2007-11-28 22:44:42 · 12 answers · asked by Aquamarine 3 in Weddings

2007-11-28 22:42:42 · 4 answers · asked by someone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend has straight F's in school..
and he ditches alot with his friends and
im trying to help him and im askin
him if he could please stop ditching and TRY to
bring up his grades....and now it seems like
hes mad at me and he just doesnt want to
try..right now hes probly talking smack on me to his friends
but do you think i should just butt out of his buisness?
i really care about him and i just want to see him succeed..i KNOW he can do it..he just doesnt try..
we've been dating for almost a year now,
and i havent scolded him or anything
ive actually been crying about it all of today, and he knows it too..
he just makes excuses to not talk to me while im crying
>.<

2007-11-28 22:37:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-28 22:27:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-28 22:18:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so we went to this party thing and i had sex with my boss and now i dont know what to do

2007-11-28 22:08:53 · 14 answers · asked by christina r 2 in Singles & Dating

i know it sounds weird but is it trully strange?

2007-11-28 22:07:27 · 15 answers · asked by Fred mate 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Right, I know this sounds naive, insecure, childish etc., but do men always look at other women and if so, what does it mean.That they fancy them, have no respect for you, fancy the other woman more than you? It's just I was talking to this bloke today and we have kind of started a relationship. Has told me he wants me etc. but these other girls passed and while he was talking to me he looked at them, not lingering look, but he looked all the same. It made me feel like he found them more attractive. Am I overreacting?

2007-11-28 22:05:29 · 16 answers · asked by susieboo 4 in Singles & Dating

Can some one give me an (Serious) advice on forgetting a cheating incidents and forgiving a close one who has cheated. I am trying to forget but some how I am not able to take things off from mind. I think unless I forget I may not forgive.
Thanks in advance

2007-11-28 22:00:22 · 20 answers · asked by ssd 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Suppose a wife is married 2nd time and has seperated and is considering divorcing the new husband, is she entitled to maintenance? She had collected lumpsum after first divorce through court. 2 nd marriage has broken due to husband's cruelty.

2007-11-28 21:55:18 · 8 answers · asked by gerald d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, the past 2 months of my life have been a NIGHTMARE. one night i went to sleep and my bf of 5 years told me how much he loved me and asked me to spend forever with him and were planning a trip to boston. And the next day i woke up and got "hit by a brick wall". I found out from the other girl that my bf had been cheating on me for 8 months. He knew this girl had hpv and he still continued to cheat on me! when i found out he begged, cried, pleaded. He went completely physco for a few days and when i told him id give him a second chance.(stupid me). he said nevermind and already had another GF!! He even turned his family against me, which we used to be close. I have never done a single bad thing to this guy. What a nightmare. What is this guy doing? Does he know how horrible this is?

2007-11-28 21:50:01 · 19 answers · asked by brittknee08 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm so lost - my recent dating history has been an embarrassing mess of misunderstood messages from men. They'll do and say all the things that make me think they want to get to know me, but it seems the moment I respond they act like they just took a wrong turniing in a bad neighbourhood.

Don't get me wrong - I have plenty of admirers and I'm known for being a hard nut to crack (such an elegant phrase...), but I can't seem to convert any of these admirers into relationships! If men say "You turned me down but my door is always open", or "You're really hard to leave, I had such a great time", or "I feel so good when I'm around you, you engage me fully", that's got to be a positive sign, no?

It seems I can't win - if I ask them directly if they want to get to know me, they act affronted. If I don't, I end up making a fool of myself.

What's going on? They aren't commitmentphobes, in that they've all had long-term relationships. What am I doing wrong? What should I do right?

2007-11-28 21:46:00 · 6 answers · asked by pendinas2004 2 in Singles & Dating

what do these thins mean? thanks

2007-11-28 21:42:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating