Ok there is this guy that my bf is already jealous of because we are so close. He's like my brother though, he helps me with stuff when i get offstep in my walk with god and all that. My bf won't admit that he's jealous either. Well the friend is going through a health problem and its worrying me, so i tend 2 tlk about it alot n cry sometimes. I have noticed that he doesn't know what to say. Do you think i shouldn't tlk 2 him about it since he's already jealous of they guy?
2007-11-28 23:19:56 · 9 answers · asked by science geek 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats a hard one to say, u need to show him that he is a friend and nothing more, show your bf some extra attention too, it'll make his worries a bit less.or when you go see your friend take you bf with so he can see whats going, talk to your bf about. if you just let him ponder on things he will imagine the worst and it will keep eating at him tell it consumes him. also try avoiding a private setting alone with your friend because that will make your bf worry more.
2007-11-28 23:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by scott 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know it's nice to have a boyfriend who's jealous of people who are close to you. My freaky ex -boyfriend was jealous of my family. When it comes to a point that your boyfriend is jealous about possibly about anything then it's not called love.
Ok that's not my point. What would be really advisable to do is , explain to him clearly about the situation. If he does not accepts it then so be it, get over him. He should understand that love = happiness and when you get happy he should get happy to and he should try to make you happy in every possible way. So for example if your friend is happy , you get happy and he gets happy because you are happy. Get what i mean?
2007-11-29 07:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by Foo J {: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe youre just hot and cute and people around you love you thats why youre bf gets crazy with other guys. But dont talk to him about this other friend of yours if youll just cry.
Unless you want fights.
2007-11-29 07:29:13 · answer #3 · answered by illusory_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think, after a personal experience with my bf, that you should talk about him less in the presenceof ur bf. it'll cause less problems, and with time, i think ur bf will realise his mistake and understand the situation. anyway, good luck. I starred u to support u. Have a nice day! God bless u!
2007-11-29 07:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by Dimos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time it comes up and he doesn't say anything, just ask him if he is ok with your friend. Then explain to him that theres nothing going on. If hes really a nice guy, he should understand.
2007-11-29 07:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by her 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Science geek, (loool, ur name makes me laugh)
u should make ur bf u care for that guy like a bro and feel free around him even when u want to talk about ur friend. however, if he REALLY feels bad, talk to ur girl friends or to ur friend, u go to him and sit with him, it is not wrong to express to him how u feel..
may he get well soon
2007-11-29 07:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go underground (secretive)about your relationship but don't talk about him every time he comes to mind. You should feel free to talk just a bit about him when he comes up in conversation with your boyfriend—but not all the minute details of your relationship or your concern about his condition..
2007-11-29 07:29:20 · answer #7 · answered by DrB 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it's not your fault ... maybe your boyfriend should stop thinking of himself for a second a understand what is going on... i mean you would do that for him if it was the other way around right???
2007-11-29 07:24:15 · answer #8 · answered by L.A.M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, don't talk about him because your bf doesn't like it
2007-11-29 07:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by Theta40 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋