Family & Relationships - 28 November 2007

Hi all you married & unmarried people.
Can you please give me some reasons for why should anybody marry ?

2007-11-28 21:40:55 · 10 answers · asked by supershweta 1 in Weddings

Just seen a question about a guys girlie being all concerned about lads night....SO Question.....

What do lads do on a lads night??
I know my man goes to the pub and to the club and gets very very drunk......im sure they look at and talk about girls....

But what i wana know is.....what else happens....do men really look to cheat or are us women just very emotional and paranoid...

Women and Men pls feel free to give ur honest opinions?!

2007-11-28 21:40:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i first met him at 1998
he came and say something funny
i laughed and he goes away
he was always talking to my companion at university
he was always looking at me
i though he likes me and i found out that he humiliated me
his best friend was singing to me
he was always nervous when i was around
their friends teases him about me
he said me that another boy likes me a lot and i go crazy
he said that its not that i m beautiful but i m too sweet
he teases me and make me angry
he has nice blue eyes
he is a bad boy.......
he never ask 4 my phone number
i steal his phone no from the white pages
i called him but i did not say who i was
he rarely talk to me always his friends asking things about me
when he finally talk to me and look into my eyes i melt
i have not saw him for about 2 years
i steel remember him


am i psycho?

2007-11-28 21:32:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 20 year old lady. I love a man who is 22 years older than me. I know what you are thinking: what could you possibly have in common? We have everything in common. I love his personality so much. I just don't want people to think it is so wierd. I finally found my soul mate and want to spend the rest of my life with him.

2007-11-28 21:29:28 · 23 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-28 21:29:25 · 8 answers · asked by ~RS~ 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband take a shower twice to 3 times a week esp its cold. And its really bothering me, the muskie smell down there u know...but i dont know how to tell him with out hurting his feelings.

2007-11-28 21:24:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up with my ex. We got back together next day. I broke up with him a month later. He visited a month later, and we hooked up. He told me he missed me, I told him it was mistake. Then, I threw aside all practicality aside (we are long distance), and told him I wanted him back. He told me to think about it. I did and I let him know. Well, he didn't want me back. After many days of crying, I have finally accepted that he doesn't want anything from me. Everytime we broke up, he asked me if we could stay friends, but only if that wouldn't be wierd for me. Well, I contacted him today through AIM in an attempt to at least stay friends and have him in my life. He honestly seemed interested in talking until he had to go away. He came back and talked until he had to go away. Told me that he would talk to me later. He came back, but ignored me and when I talked to him, was very distant. I blocked him, thinking he probably hates me I unblocked him to see he signed off. But it was very late

2007-11-28 21:22:41 · 4 answers · asked by laconversacion 1 in Singles & Dating

Now, this may sound a very weird and a funny problem but here is what happened..... It happened a few days back, it was my last week in the school...so I decided to propose the girls I had liked throughout my school life.....I thought that it couldn't have hurt now as I was about to leave the school...so I proposed a girl....and as I had expected I was turned down.....I proposed 10 girls and all rejected me......it didn't hurt because i didn't like them now.... I had proposed so that if any girl had accepted, we could have had a nice relation.....but anyways the real problem started the next day. I reached school and 7 out of those 10 girls said that they were sorry and now they all accepted my proposal. So, now I have seven girlfriends and I don't know what to do. I can't just go and say "Listen, after you rejected me i said I LOVE YOU to someone else!!!!!!"
What should I do....................please help!

2007-11-28 21:22:07 · 6 answers · asked by dudeshere 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-28 21:08:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 6 years. We have a total of 9 kids, 7 of them at home, ranging from 21 to 3 years old. My husband is retired, but still works a new full time job. I handle the finances,we are financially secure. The problem is that my husband is a sports official on his side time. Basketball season begins during the holidays, in which he is gone at least 2 to 3 nights of the week, often staying out late. This is very stressful for me. I am exhausted from taking care of all the kids and the house. I have asked him to please stop refereeing basketball. he says this is his favorite sport and refuses to give it up, in spite of my tears and pleads. He says the more I tell him not to do it the more he is willing to fight me. I am so upset, I don't feel anything but tired. I am sure he is not cheating, the money he makes out of refeering 3 sports he brings to me. I doubt his love since he is willing to give up our marriage for his own cause. Please help me.

2007-11-28 21:04:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What does it mean when someone say "I love you" to you?

Thanks for answering!
HUGS~:0)

2007-11-28 20:54:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Guys can anyone explain wht is in man's mind and why are they looking at the woman's lips while talking. Not to everyone only to specific person.

2007-11-28 20:43:37 · 16 answers · asked by Buju 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance exwife had an emergency court hearing for tempoary full custody and child support payments. when the before agreement was joint custody and each parent was responsible for child support. When we went to court she recieved temp full custody and he was ordered to pay child support tempoarialy. As well as ordered to pay some other fees. When does he have to start paying and will he recieve papers in the mall stating the court order as well as how to make payments. Does he make them straight t o her or what? None of these questions got answered in court.

2007-11-28 20:41:43 · 6 answers · asked by kerind336 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He is a wonderful man with a heart of gold.
I love his friendship!
So will you wish him a good one please?

2007-11-28 20:40:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was walking past his bedroom the other day and noticed that he was looking at porn, I don't think he saw me. He is 14 years old. Should I confront him about this? Is this normal or completely inappropriate? Should I punish him, or what should I do? Any help is appreciated, thanks.

2007-11-28 20:35:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He owed a lot of debts under my name either officially (bank credit card, phone bill, car loan . son's school fee..)or unofficially ( I have borrowed a lot of money from my relatives and friends for him) If he leaves without saying I will be doomed with those debts.
We have a hdb flat. but all the money was come out from me. He didn't pay a single cent while we bought it. His only contribution is the deduction from cpf for the loan after we bought it. Must we sell out the flat if we are divorcing? If yes how would the money be divided after we have sold out the flat? If not can i not letting him to stay ? How about the debts? Is there a way to make him responsible for all his debts which are under my name by force or law? I dare not to go for the divorcy because I am afraid after signing the paper all the debts will be under me and I am unable to clear all his debts and it is really not fair that I have to bear all these.
I am really vex and broke and lost now.Can anyone help?

2007-11-28 20:32:46 · 6 answers · asked by gt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my gf is 18 im 23 we were over my house watching movies she insisted that she wanted to drink I kept telling her no and finally I gave in she had about 6 1/2 shots of vodka in about 4 hours I ordered a pizza we ate ect fell asleep for about 3 hours i noticed her phone ringing i woke her up her mom was worried that she wasnt home im not sure what was said but she broke down she is manic depressive so I calmed her down but i was worried i said she could stay here in the guest room she insisted that she had to go home i offered to drive her home and sleep on the couch she wouldnt let me it was raining pretty bad i told her to drive slow she convinced me that she was ok car was totaled she was ok tho there was still alcohol in her system it read .08 but she was going 105 miles an hour her parents are holding me responsible and cut off all possible contact between me and her I have not heard from her since her fam loved me before this how do i make things right? or do i just accept it?

2007-11-28 20:31:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Family

Hi,

Im committed to a Guy. He was my school senior. We studied in the same school and Im his favourite teacher's daughter. He had left to US 3 months back. He will be meeting me only in Jan 2009. He is too busy nowadays to spend time to chat with me.. He says that there's no new or interesting stuffs to talk about and hence he spends very less/no time to chat with me.

I value his relationship more than anything...there is more than 2 yrs time to get married. My fear is that I need to share a strong bond with him to an extent that he talks to me whenever he comes online. He has refused to get a mobile in US since he feels he does not prefer to buy one. Hence, the only mode of contact is Chat Messenger.

Can anyone tell me as to how I need to make the chat more bonding and interesting and fresh everyday so that we remain acquainted as we had been before he left for US??

Please help and please guide.

2007-11-28 20:26:56 · 7 answers · asked by sandhy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-28 20:22:14 · 15 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

This letter sounds quite typical from this guy (we like eachother, havent had the chance to go out on a date yet) And he wrote me this "Sarah,

Hello--how are you?? I just figured out how to access my e-mail from home...they have codes we have to get to check it from home. Have you decided what you are going to do for your Birthday ? After I finally got home today my Mom told me that you had called. I would call you now but you might be sleeping, so I'll call you tomorrow.
I have 5 days off work !

Goodnight "
It sounds like he is trying to get somewhere in that letter? I dont know if it is just me tho..what do you think! ty :)
only thing that makes me mad is he didn't call me today like he said, he allways does that and I do NOT understand! I mean, he would not willingly tell me he IS going to call me unless he planned on it right?..but he is crazy infatuated with me..

2007-11-28 20:13:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would you prefer?

2007-11-28 20:11:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well m in a 3 years relationshp with a muslim girl who is far away frm my sight! on 24th of this month she called me for a while and told me that boy i need some time to think more deeply about our relationship as in future we both might have to face many problems...like relegion and parental facts..... well dis is my 5th month entering islam...i mean i have acceptd islam .... my problem is that she's not kalling me and her cell is switched off..she switched off because she wanted her time..thats what she told me.... then why she didnt call me yet...she wnted a 7 days period bt yet... :( i try to self anhilate bt failed...because i always loved her like anything..kindly tell me ... i have no patience nd my emotions are like always high... being a man i cry like anything and morova i stop eating foods .. i dnt knw wt is written in my faith bt can you pray once for my relationship.... i vl die seriously..help me please i beg you all! love you all.... hw will i wait..... alone...like this

2007-11-28 20:10:27 · 30 answers · asked by I๓ρєяเãl ãяc° ™ 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently broke up with my bf of 2.5 years. he was a total jerk and he cheated on me. This is my second long term relationship (I had another of 4 years) and I feel that I have enough experience to know what I am looking for in a future partner now. I have started getting sweet with an old high school friend (I am 21) and he is just the sweetest most tender person ever. I know that he is interested in a relationship with me. Should I get involved with him so soon after a huge break up?

2007-11-28 20:08:44 · 13 answers · asked by patty 1 in Singles & Dating

when a boy flirts with some one else and you get a little jealous but not much and whatever he does with another girl he cant knock you down because you know deep down that everythings going to work out you will be together, and whatever you do, however stupid you say it is, you cant shake that feeling, its like a gut feeling only so much stronger. and the look he gives you when he stares deep into your eyes just confirms it and tells you that he still loves you .........has anyone else felt this way ?

2007-11-28 20:08:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating a girl and she keeps telling me she wants me to fart in front of her. does that seem wierd to you? because it does to me. Why is that?

2007-11-28 20:07:23 · 3 answers · asked by pc 2 in Singles & Dating

I like her very much and she knows, i dont know what is love??she talk to me but its only me to make call, she have boyfriend as she told me some time I jelous, some time i think i am interfering her. i dont want hurt her but some time i feel to be hurt sooner or later though, i am very happy when i talk some time i think i should not talk may be she will ignore me that i cant bear, i am scared of it, today i assume let her be happy..i wished not to call any more then suddenly i look at her photo (that is with me since we met put on god place and talk with both of them) i was so scared and thought i should not look at her photo i was wondering and looking for a place to put it but cant find she is so far the place she is i dont know so i cant return it even i have stolen these photo from where we worked togather....i dont know how to handle her photos i am so scared.....i am not calling her since one week.. i like her very much...pls help

2007-11-28 20:03:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i am married and when my husband comes home from work all he does is want to watch T.V. and when he is at work he calls once(i believe because i noticed that his calls got less and less ..he was callin about 4 times a day).I feel like something isn"t right..however when i discuss my feeling with him he says no,no everything is ok ...but i just have an unsettleing feeling I cant shake ...please HELP!!!!whats going on here has anyone had this happen?

2007-11-28 19:47:35 · 3 answers · asked by Jenny 3 in Marriage & Divorce

The guy who got me pregnant married another woman, to help out her mother offered to help out by taking care of my baby during weekdays while i get take her home during weekends. Will this have an effect on how my baby reacts toward me?

2007-11-28 19:43:09 · 4 answers · asked by ER 1 in Family

my wife bite me all over my body with her teeth and i have scars everywhere. The issue was that she was roaming around to market with my child having fever of 103 deg F. i objected and she bite me everywhere saying me that i m a child of my mom. she has been abusing and hitting me for years togethor in front of the child and i absorbed it due to her blackmail of suicide and taking the child away. but now i m tired. i m scared that i will get rabies. i consulted a doctor but my doubt is not going away

i didn't lodge a complaint with police till date. as she told me , if i did that she will tell police that i m emotionally , physically and financially abusing her as per instructions of my old parents. what can i do legally , so that i get the child as she is not willing to leave the child

2007-11-28 19:40:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-28 19:37:43 · 11 answers · asked by papasays 4 in Marriage & Divorce