Has he moved on???

Question

I broke up with my ex. We got back together next day. I broke up with him a month later. He visited a month later, and we hooked up. He told me he missed me, I told him it was mistake. Then, I threw aside all practicality aside (we are long distance), and told him I wanted him back. He told me to think about it. I did and I let him know. Well, he didn't want me back. After many days of crying, I have finally accepted that he doesn't want anything from me. Everytime we broke up, he asked me if we could stay friends, but only if that wouldn't be wierd for me. Well, I contacted him today through AIM in an attempt to at least stay friends and have him in my life. He honestly seemed interested in talking until he had to go away. He came back and talked until he had to go away. Told me that he would talk to me later. He came back, but ignored me and when I talked to him, was very distant. I blocked him, thinking he probably hates me I unblocked him to see he signed off. But it was very late

Thanks for letting me know. I think part of me can't let him go.

I broke up with him because he wasn't invested in the relationship. But it doesn't mean I didn't love him. That night we hooked up, I almost cried because it hurt me so much to tell him it's over because I didn't want it to be. I still don't. But I thought it'd be better for both him and me--the same reason he gave me for breaking up with me.

It hurts that he has already moved on when I haven't. It seems I liked him much more than he ever liked me.

Answer 1

He has moved on and so should you.

This back and forth business is useless. All it causes is more pain.

You can never drive forward by always looking in your rear view mirror.

Block him again and start your life anew.

Answer 2

Does Fort Worth Ever Cross Your Mind?

Answer 3

You are playing games. If you just want to be "friends" as you say, then you must realize that he has moved on. He is probably seeing other people, and does not have as much time to sit and chat.

You can't keep playing with someone's feelings like that, and expect them to sit there and wait for you. He is trying to get his life back. Leave him alone, if you are only looking to get back, because I truly believe that your heart will be broken. Yes, he has probably moved on.

Answer 4

stop playing games with this guys heart. He doesn't want anything to do with you because your too wishy washy. He doesn't know what to think. You want him you don't want him. I understand why he is choosing to walk away..... do you.