well m in a 3 years relationshp with a muslim girl who is far away frm my sight! on 24th of this month she called me for a while and told me that boy i need some time to think more deeply about our relationship as in future we both might have to face many problems...like relegion and parental facts..... well dis is my 5th month entering islam...i mean i have acceptd islam .... my problem is that she's not kalling me and her cell is switched off..she switched off because she wanted her time..thats what she told me.... then why she didnt call me yet...she wnted a 7 days period bt yet... :( i try to self anhilate bt failed...because i always loved her like anything..kindly tell me ... i have no patience nd my emotions are like always high... being a man i cry like anything and morova i stop eating foods .. i dnt knw wt is written in my faith bt can you pray once for my relationship.... i vl die seriously..help me please i beg you all! love you all.... hw will i wait..... alone...like this
2007-11-28 20:10:27 · 30 answers · asked by I๓ρєяเãl ãяc° ™ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah cuz you're literally gonna DIE tonight. Get over it. You'll be with another chick in a couple weeks.
2007-11-28 20:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? How many girls have you dated? If you're relatively new to this, you'll feel like dying--metaphorically and even literally--when things don't go the way you planned in spite of all the effort you put into building a relationship. But in time, if you're strong enough to live through the heartbreaks and smart enough to learn from them, you'll find out that there is truth to the saying that "there are other fish in the sea."
I don't mean to sound demeaning, condescending, or cold, but soulmates don't exist, man, sorry--no one is destined for you. And about converting into Islam, i hope you changed because of you, not because of her. That is, change because it will make you a better person and not for anything else.
It's really tough when the other party doesn't want to cooperate, giving you the silent treatment, but sometimes some things are just out of your control. You don't want to force her into loving you, right? The best thing to do is just live YOUR life. I know, I know, that's harder said than done, but at least let it be said...
Collect your wits and tough it out. Let go of the things you can't control and work with the things that you can!
Good Luck!
2007-11-28 20:32:54 · answer #2 · answered by Immatellonu123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a muslim to another I suggest yo calm down, what your doing over a girl is wrong. I'm not sure the details of your relationship, but, I suggest you talk to her parents and ask permission to see her and such. My advice to you is give it time and be patient, patience is apart of life and your religion. Also, ask her if you could have some time to talk to her seirously for a while over the phone to discuss your relationship, if both of you are serious I strongly recomend you talk to her parents. Lastly, I would also advise you to get advise from a sheik. Good luck, keep praying 5 times a day and may Allah help you. Allah knows best. Sorry if I wasnt too much help, I dont know your relationship with her and dont have all the information.
2007-11-28 20:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is trash. You will not die. You will get better. This will make you a stronger man. With or without religion all men suffer heartbreak at one time or another. Don't gorge this text down like a dog who hasn't eaten! I have gone crazy thinking about a girl like that. Conclusion is. Her loss. If she quit taking your calls then she is no longer worthy of your affection! So get over it. Quicker the better. I mean it. It is over between you and her. Forget about her. Find another love! Now. And go get some real food and enjoy your day!
Sincerely ,
Otto
2007-11-28 20:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've been impatient. Think about it, do you really love her? If so, why can't you wait? If this turns over and over, you've proven nothing. Be strong and be patient. There is no perfect relationship but all couples are trying to avoid imperfection. For others they may see your problem to be not serious but for me, this is serious. Maybe your girlfriend also needs space. You should not disclose your relationship. You need to be open to the world. Both of you must reflect. please be optimistic. If you continue to be impatient, you'll make your relationship worse. It is like your holding her neck. Just be patient. If you can talk furthermore, go on. Learn to live this life. Maybe she is not for you. If ever she is meant for you, maybe this time is the best way to think on how to improve your relationship and ask yourself what you made wrong that leads things to such situation. Go on! Live your life! Be strong and learn to be more patient.
2007-11-28 20:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems like she's having second thoughts about the relationship. A relationship needs to be defined after two years. With more time people start getting confused, but honestly, I think it's better that that this is happening now and not after you get married when it will hurt more and you will suffer longer. Find something interesting to do it will keep your mind from losing it.
2007-11-28 20:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by cutie #1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-13 00:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doing other things to keep you busy, like asnwering quwstions on this website. It will help pass the time quicker.
If she is not intersted any more, then it is better to find out sooner rather than later. You will be able to get over it.
How about going onto live chatting services and talking to other people so that you dont feel so alone. Skype is good and cheep.
2007-11-28 20:15:34 · answer #8 · answered by chickyboo222 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK, friend, get a hold of yourself. This is not the end of the world, even though it might seem like it is. It could be that her family is interfering (especially her father). You will not die. You will not hurt yourself. But you absolutely must get on with your life and stop all this carrying on. Have patience. You cannot rush relationships.
2007-11-28 20:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by Richard B 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Being alone and having time apart is not a bad thing. Spend some time doing things that you enjoy... Spend sometime learning about yourself. Being alone is not the end of the world, your not going to die. She needs sometime to think about religion, the families. Give her that time. Let her work out her issues herself. Its what she needs. If you love her, you will allow her that time.
2007-11-28 20:21:23 · answer #10 · answered by brifields22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will pray for you, but you must know that a higher power must have a reason for this. Believe in yourself, okay? You are being tested by a higher power and is trying to teach you something important that either you will need to use in the future, or someone close to you will. Endure it and embrace your troubles. A higher power is using you in a powerful way.
2007-11-28 20:19:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋