The guy who got me pregnant married another woman, to help out her mother offered to help out by taking care of my baby during weekdays while i get take her home during weekends. Will this have an effect on how my baby reacts toward me?
2007-11-28 19:43:09 · 4 answers · asked by ER 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If she is spending all week with some other lady she is going to percieve that lady as her mother not you who are only spending 2 days a week with her. Yes it will have a huge impact on how she reacts toward you.
2007-11-28 20:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are only caring for your baby on the week ends yes it will, she'll bond with the other woman as a mother figure, she won't hate you though
Hates a big emotion and babies just aren't bitter enough to have it (Anger ma by not hatred)
I'd be careful though, she may have another agenda. She may want your baby, I'm not trying to be negative at all, But that just doesn't make any sense. To help you out sure, but to basically have Your baby live with her and give you weekend visitation? If your thinking of her raising your baby and having an open adoption of some sorts then as long as you're good to her she'll still love you but I'm guessing you're pretty young and this is your first baby so I just want to say be careful,
Through time if you haven't already, you'll realize that this baby is the most beautiful thing you've ever done and the most important thing to you.
Sometimes life is just hard and we have to struggle and make sacrifices but as long as you are capable of loving and taking care of your baby you do it (I'm not talking about a baby sitter so you work) And if you're not thinking of adoption I would surely not have my baby living with some one else. They WILL get attached to your daughter,and your baby to them. They'll feel like she's theirs.
2007-11-29 04:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by Irenea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will not make the baby hate you, but you must realize that spending that much time with someone else, will mean that they will have a lot to do with the development of your babies personality, and actions. You need to set grounds rules, and make sure that they follow them.
2007-11-29 04:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, that will not make your baby hate you, she will probably have more issues with referring to her father as "the guy who got you pregnant". It makes her sound like an accident
2007-11-29 03:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by ♠Mrs Reznor♠ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋