Hi,
Im committed to a Guy. He was my school senior. We studied in the same school and Im his favourite teacher's daughter. He had left to US 3 months back. He will be meeting me only in Jan 2009. He is too busy nowadays to spend time to chat with me.. He says that there's no new or interesting stuffs to talk about and hence he spends very less/no time to chat with me.
I value his relationship more than anything...there is more than 2 yrs time to get married. My fear is that I need to share a strong bond with him to an extent that he talks to me whenever he comes online. He has refused to get a mobile in US since he feels he does not prefer to buy one. Hence, the only mode of contact is Chat Messenger.
Can anyone tell me as to how I need to make the chat more bonding and interesting and fresh everyday so that we remain acquainted as we had been before he left for US??
Please help and please guide.
2007-11-28 20:26:56 · 7 answers · asked by sandhy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You may want to consider trying www.secondlife.com
It is a free-to-use virtual universe ... basically a glorified 3d world chat room. You should try it out first before you get him to. Basically, what you can do is chat like you normally do, however, you can do out on a date inworld. You could goto a restaurant, a club and dance, go see a movie, go for a walk... you'll see once you're in there.
2007-11-28 20:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by Doubledown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is already gone my friend! He has cut the ties and you need to do the same. Having a long distance relationship takes a great deal of hard work and love to keep it going. He has pulled the stops on it and it is not up to you to try and keep him amused, happy etc. Move on now, please for your own sake
2007-11-28 20:31:35 · answer #2 · answered by Hencor72 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi sandhy,
first,congrats for getting married
now you can talk a lot about what kids he wud want... a girl or a boy... how many he wants and what their names wud be.. and how he got attracted a teacher's daughter.
I mean at least in India ( i am an indian too)
it requires a lot of courage to ask this to a teacher's daughter.
if he is a person interested in sun sugns, then ask him wat sun suiv he wud prefer to have his children..
hope you have a happy married life...advanced wishes
2007-11-28 20:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
camera ? do video chat need help and tips call me when you got a camera and ill give you advice and show you
2007-11-28 20:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by crazzijimsmith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he really as committed to you, as what you are to him?
2007-11-28 20:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be sexual. tell him what u will do when he returns, and just be honest.
2007-11-28 20:32:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
chat sex ?...similiar to phone sex
2007-11-28 20:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by aussiechick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋