ok i am married and when my husband comes home from work all he does is want to watch T.V. and when he is at work he calls once(i believe because i noticed that his calls got less and less ..he was callin about 4 times a day).I feel like something isn"t right..however when i discuss my feeling with him he says no,no everything is ok ...but i just have an unsettleing feeling I cant shake ...please HELP!!!!whats going on here has anyone had this happen?
2007-11-28 19:47:35 · 3 answers · asked by Jenny 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Four times a day is a lot of times. When you are first married that is normal. You should not worry about him only calling once a day. Most men do not call their wives from work. What do you think is going on? What kind of job does he have? If it is a high stress job he just might need to vegetate for a while. If it is a very physical job he could just want to relax. If you really feel uneasy go with your gut and see what you can find out. It would help to know what you think is going on.
2007-11-28 19:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your husband is normally quite communicative, but now is showing signs of not wanting to communicate then you need to make a date...go out to a nice dinner and have a chat in a non threatening environment ...Talk to your husband in a positive way...tell him you miss his calls..
It's quite likely he has taken on a bigger work load or not in a position to make many personal calls anymore etc etc
2007-11-29 03:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that. What I did i reserve us a hotel room out of town no kids. Pamper ourselves, then I told him that ur seeing a red flag that u guys are leading to a wrong direction. Guide him tell him u need more attention. Sometimes men they comfortable they thinks I am provading my family well. But we want more.
2007-11-29 04:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by whatthehell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋