Family & Relationships - 25 November 2007

2007-11-25 23:56:26 · 18 answers · asked by James S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why would a poor fat guy expect a girl to like him? Why would he even try?

2007-11-25 23:47:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has left for work this morning with specific instructions NOT to put the central heating on. He says that I can light the fire instead, but I'm too cold to go outside to get some fuel :-(

My hands are so cold I can hardly type!

What should I do? Sneak the heating on or grit my teeth and go outside for fuel for the fire?

2007-11-25 23:37:52 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-25 23:34:40 · 8 answers · asked by jack f 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf of 5 years broke up with me about a month ago.... he has a new gf and they are moving really fast. i never did anything bad to him, so i know thats not why he can do this so fast. anyways, its controling my mind. i think about it when i go to sleep, wake up, eat, talk, shower... whatever im doing i think about it. wondering what i did, didnt do, need to do. its making me sick. i keep having movies in my head of them together and im constantly searching online for pictures of them together. im not a freak, or a stalker but this is making me sick.

2007-11-25 23:31:23 · 12 answers · asked by brittknee08 1 in Singles & Dating

dating someone who questions my interest in every male friend I have. I feel like I'm walking on eggshells all the time like he's going to find something out and blast me when it's purely innocent. It's affecting my feelings towards him and while we were progressing quite nicely, I feel like we've taken a step backwards now...what do you do?

2007-11-25 23:21:34 · 34 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-25 23:19:42 · 16 answers · asked by :D 2 in Singles & Dating

Supposing you loved someone so much that you don't know if you could even breathe without them? Or even if you would want to. And you know that they love you too.

And assume that you are aware of your having some very serious character flaws at the core of your being that are making them unhappy, and in the long term could seriously damage their lives.

Would you sacrifice your happiness so that they could move on, hard as it would be for them, and terrible as it would be for you, and then stand a better chance of having a better life without you?

2007-11-25 23:17:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for a year and 2 months. I orginally felt rushed into marriage but did it anyway. Once we were married, naturally we fought a lot and I left my husband. While I was gone, I had an affair (one night stand and not proud nor do I need to hear what a screw up I am). He wanted me back home..so I came home. (This is Feb.) After returning, things weren't the same for me, but I couldn't tell him. In Jun., I left again this time wanting to leave permanantly. I couldn't handle the way he would talk to me and treat me like crap. This time, I told him about the incident in February. We got counsel, he forgave me and everything was going well. I came home. We didn't fight, argue.. I got pregnant in Aug. Since my return home, I've done nothing but love him. I believe in change and forgiveness and I did both. Now, Im 3.5 months pregnant and he says he can't forgive me for the incident in Feb. and wants divorce. I'm confused. What can I do? I don't want a divorce!

2007-11-25 23:17:22 · 14 answers · asked by *~Cam's Mommy ~* 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-25 23:05:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-25 22:58:17 · 12 answers · asked by Ankita P 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My Daughter was killed in a car crash in 2003. Her husband was driving the vehicle. They had been married for three weeks and had a child of 3.5 at the time. He is now going out with the third women since her death. His current girlfriend of 9 months lives 12 miles away and has a child also. They have made the decision to take my Grandchild out of his school close to my home and move to her town and school. Relations have been strained since the death of my daughter although we have been very supportive in clearing his name following the accident and hiding the fact he had taken cannabis so it wasn't published on the front page of the newspaper. How do we maintain contact with our Grandson? Do we have rights?

2007-11-25 22:57:56 · 23 answers · asked by janjan666 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What would it take for you to reject your child - prison, murder, anything?

2007-11-25 22:52:00 · 11 answers · asked by CelesteMoone 5 in Family

My husband is mad because I'm not excited that he's home. He moved back after cheating on me and living with another girl for a year. Why does he expect me to be happy and to treat him well after putting me through this? He said he thought I would be happier.

2007-11-25 22:49:55 · 29 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

am so depressed !! i once acted like a mental patient and my parents thought i have gone crazy in real and took me to a doctor.i later told them i was just acting.now am feeling so depressed because of what i did..am depressed all the times.i cant seem to enjoy anything.i just want to know anybody like me ,who has done the same thing what i did to hurt there parents.is there anyone? plz help

2007-11-25 22:48:12 · 6 answers · asked by coolme 1 in Family

I'm already 55 years old and have met a very young, beautiful, and sexy girl age 28, I don't know whether this is a true love or what? She told me that she loved me as I do, I'm not a rich man but a successful engineer and still I have some traces of a good looking man, I'm little bit attractive...with the situation, I'm in of course a worried guy...please I need your feedback regarding on this issue whether to stop or what...I can't give the full time in loving her because of my occupation and my of age as well...

2007-11-25 22:37:58 · 12 answers · asked by Nainai55 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i was completely wasted last night and i phoned my ex and told him i missed the old times and that i still kinda liked him and that he's changed since he's got his new girlfriend and that i didnt like him anymore as a person

what the hell do i say to him? i really embarrassed myself. specially since we havent even talked properly for like 2 years and he's had a new girlfriend for about a year, help?

2007-11-25 22:35:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I let one go in front of my b/f and now I am too embarassed to face him. I just pulled the covers over my face and then waited til he got up and showered and went home before I would even get out of bed. At first I didn't think he heard it, but I know he did, because he got up and turned on the ceiling fan to try and circulate some fresh air.

He is coming over tonight and I can't face him. Please help me, what should I do?

2007-11-25 22:30:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi all, I got a good and lovely girl friend from Tamil nadu. Acording to their culture parents will select the groom for the girl. She is obese.

Her parents said to her that "No groom will like a over-weight girl. We won't look for groom until you reduce your weight!". They are also not ready to pay for medical therapies. But they keep on torturing her. Leave that, I don't want to discuss whether she should reduce weight or not (as i know being over-weight will cause health problems and she should definetly reduce weight).


Only thing I want to know is "Don't you guys (even one of u) like to marry a over-weight but beautiful by heart and physical girl???"

2007-11-25 22:30:24 · 28 answers · asked by saaral_s 2 in Weddings

No-one need ever know...

2007-11-25 22:30:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok, so I've dated this beautiful lady for a year and a half now and things have been going well. The first few weeks were wonderful, we went out and had fun. But now it feels like fulfilling some routine. We see each other almost every day (her insistence) and we've been to most fun places so we dont go out for fun as much anymore. I've suggested different things but it seems she's not up for it. Guys, please help - what can I do to spice it up? This is the longest rel I've been in. How do married people survive?

2007-11-25 22:30:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I date nice girl, she take me home to parents, they no like. I like girl, no parents. She want make me come Christmas, stay whole week. I no know what to do. I want keep her, no keep the family burden. Do what should I?

2007-11-25 22:27:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just survived a terrible day with my wife's family at Thanksgiving but now I look at the calendar and see that Christmas is coming up in less than a month. My wife does not really like her family much either but feels obligated to get together for her parents. My family is gone so I am forced to get together with my wife's family.

Her family without exception is really terrible. What a bunch of bad people. I can not believe how nasty they were to my wife when she was growing up and how cold they are to each other today. Every year I grit my teeth and try to be nice but it is hard and they are rude to me and my wife every year. I have tried talking to them about it but are ignored. What do you do about terrible relatives at Holiday time?

2007-11-25 22:27:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-25 22:24:20 · 12 answers · asked by sweet 3 in Marriage & Divorce

description of my life....

age 19 turning 20 in a week
full time biology 3rd year college student
Live in Los Angeles and 1 hr commute to school
No Clubs
Hardly any friends
My school sucks with clubs because they are too late and are only on fridays. School hardly has sports.

I enjoy tennis, but theres only 1 person I play with and thats my best friend. He isn't great at tennis and it gets boring only playing him.

I play video games on my computer to kill time and I chat with a few people from my school on AIM.

My friends are generally girls and my best friend is gay. I am not gay.

I'm poor. I make 400 a month, and 200 goes to gas, the rest is about 150 bucks in food per month because I dont have time to cook and the bologna sandwich I make is getting boring. Anything else I make would be spoiled or gross by the time I get have lunch/dinner at school.

My schedule throughout the week is pretty pack except for weekends but then all my friends are busy on weekends

2007-11-25 22:23:50 · 5 answers · asked by wolf 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

married 3 years, together 7. im on the brink of despair with my life and feel i can take it no more.My husband has never been interested in lots of sex or being caring towards me, we have sex maybe once or twice a month but if i did not make a fuss about it then it would probably be once every two months. When we do have sex, i feel like im stupid for making a fuss.

i thought i could live this way and accept that i made vows i should keep forever. ive tried to talk to him, cried at him, shouted, but still no passion. there have been other problems in our relationship- he is very moody sometimes and can be critical. ive given him everything in me to try and keep our marriage- emotionally and financially to ensure that i have done my best. i have no confidence anymore-i never had much to begin with. its got to the point where im crying all the time, falling asleep crying with him going to sleep next to me and dreading my life.im only 27 and want a family.should i leave or stay?

2007-11-25 22:22:17 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

yeah why are news people and etc getting all mad cuz girls fight..
and they post it up on youtube???
if they wanna fight let them fight.....

2007-11-25 22:19:57 · 4 answers · asked by maylissa 2 in Friends

2007-11-25 22:18:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

called the cops on my ex who came to pick up the kids. He shows up at random times, expecting me to give up the children whenever he comes to pick them up. I've adjusted my schedule for him, especially now that he has to work and so we've had a verbal agreement, different from the court order.

He's 2 hours early and the children are napping. I told him to come back at his scheduled time. He gets upset and rings the doorbell in succession, about three times, again. He's not waiting. I told him again, please come back. I'll have the children up and ready by that time. He starts shouting obscenities and then he kicks the outer screen door. He makes a pass for my car and kicks in the front of it. Then he takes off.

He left footprints on the door & busted my license plate cover. I called the cops and the officer didnt come until an hour later. He wouldn't even run his license. He said my ex didn't actually damage anything, and he has no priors so he can't arrest him.

Is this true?

2007-11-25 22:15:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In my group of friends, i am probablly the most shy. They often want me to do things that make me uncomfortable. And they always talk about other people behind their backs. i know its not right when they do this but i cant bring myself up to stand up for hte other people. They also tease me (they just think their joking) about the peoplei like. What should i do?

2007-11-25 22:13:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends