Family & Relationships - 25 November 2007

getting to old for this

2007-11-25 01:19:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you have full, love, trust and financial security in a relationship, why do you need to get married, if you have no particular strong belief in a religion?

I mean if we were to get married in a church it would be very hypocritical as neither of us have a religion.

And the register office thing just seems so 'business like'. Just kind of informing statistics that you are together

Taking a way the romantic side, is there really any reason to spend a lot of money on a piece of paper???

Is marriage just for insecure people who need reassurance that a divorce would be a big messy affair, and therefore their spouse is less likely to walk in times of trouble??

If my man walks, he can walk, hes a free man, I think not getting married and staying together through hard times is reconfirming your love, as you want to work at it, rather than being obliged by god or solicitors fees. Your thoughts please....

2007-11-25 01:10:06 · 16 answers · asked by gill 4 in Marriage & Divorce

yet you will never her of a man changing his name? Well I do take that back I read about three months ago something like that took place what a stink it raised.

2007-11-25 01:08:39 · 19 answers · asked by Yogi 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm like, give me some space, but she's all up next to me smoking a cigarette and whispering in my ear. I just want the remote, a cold beer and football. That's it. That's not too difficult to understand. Before long, I'm going to start farting to get some space!

2007-11-25 01:08:36 · 18 answers · asked by Gooooo Browns! 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-11-25 00:56:31 · 9 answers · asked by Doubledown 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-25 00:56:00 · 20 answers · asked by Fancy You 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi There,

I've been single for a few weeks now, I am wondering is there a good place to meet women? I go to bars, pubs, nightclubs but feel threatened to ask a girl out in a bar, cause they have high defence in bar situations. I go to the gym a lot but this is a very male dominant group, there seems to be a lack of women there. I am very confident person looking for an alterative route.

Any suggestions?

Thanks

2007-11-25 00:50:21 · 12 answers · asked by turbonostics 1 in Singles & Dating

Following a 9-year marriage that was very fulfilling sexually, as well as most other ways, our finished basement was flooded. It took me almost a year to put everything right. Huge job. I mostly worked alone. During this time, my wife and I argued a lot about me not being able to finish the basement sooner. This was due to my job responsibilities and kid's activities. During this year, she became more and more angry, saying things like I'm not a man, etc. It has been nearly two years since I completed the restoration of the basement. However, our sex life has not improved. We have brief sex maybe once every two months or so. She knows ow much this bothers me, but I do not push her at all. I keep thinking things will get better if I'm patient. However, I feel hurt and betrayed. I feel like my wife has broken her vows. I grow increasingly frustrated and down right angry. I work hard not to express those feelings. I know doing so will only cause an argument. Any suggestions? Divorce?

2007-11-25 00:50:13 · 14 answers · asked by Twister 2 in Marriage & Divorce

doesnt wanna talk about it? and it has something to do with his parents maybe? and he doesnt want anyone to know?

but then someone else found out but he begged the guy who found out not to tell me? or anyone else?

i wanna know and be there for him but i cant do a lot if i dont even know whats wrong...

and the thing is, im not even going out with the guy...but im pretty sure he likes me and everything... then idk something happened this weekend and he was like, really depressed or something and was kinda not responding and all...and he was just like sorry, my life is really ****** up rt now, but i dont wanna talk about it

and i just wanna know what it can be? so i can ask and maybe guess and talk about it but right now i have no clue...=P

im pretty sure it has nothing to do with me...but idk

2007-11-25 00:49:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Now we've been apart for 6 months and 1 month after our split he has a new relationship and is happy. I just don't get it. Was he looking for someone better the whole time. He kept making excuse after excuse why he would't commit. It was always something I had to change and then he would. The problem is we are going to be working together in the future and this is so hurtful. How do I deal with this. I don;t want to leave my job as the pay is higher than I can get elsewhere by quite a bit. I will never be able to look him the face. I feel so used and betrayed. He used to send the most beautiful cards and tell me I was the love of his life.

2007-11-25 00:48:45 · 8 answers · asked by lambie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of nearly a year, is in the army. he has just returned from 3 months away and all the time he lets me down.
For example, i saw him for the first time yesterday and he practically squeezed me in for two hours, and I said to him keep tomorrow night free as i want to take you out for a meal, he just called me saying "oh im at my mates, and i dunno wot im doing tonight, i dunno if we are going out or not' meaning him and his friends. then he said ' oh what about tomoro night, or tuesday?" Is he messing me about, or does he just want to see his friends coz its the weekend and he just got bk? and when i said "I thought u were seeing me" he said "I dunno tho, ill let you know, if me n my mates r not going out' ill let u know. :( really starting to get to me?

2007-11-25 00:43:06 · 23 answers · asked by L-Marie! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-25 00:40:42 · 18 answers · asked by kimberly k 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont think im funny or want she was thinking plz help i dont want her to break up wit me

2007-11-25 00:39:41 · 14 answers · asked by twinkiedomanus 1 in Singles & Dating

Women tell my older brother he is handsome since I could remember. But I always got that "youre so cute." What does that mean exactly? That I look like a child or that I am not good looking enough to be considered handsome,

2007-11-25 00:37:04 · 45 answers · asked by Pakm@n86 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it right, that almost everything can be answered by saying "Your Mamma"?

2007-11-25 00:33:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

when me and my bf went to the cinema yesterday we were holding hands throughout ALL the movie and there were quite a few times when he was staring at our hands (holding)
(hope that made sense) lol

i was just wondering wether it means anything
why did he do it?
what was he thinkin?

2007-11-25 00:21:08 · 23 answers · asked by SophieKayy 2 in Singles & Dating

One lives in Sc the other in florida.We have only known each other about 2 months but have met in person twice and talk hours each day.His career is 28 years and has been established there he would not be able to move here.My son will not graduate highschool for 3 and half years and has very strong ties here family ,dad,friends.I will not move until he graduates from highschool.My son has never met him but we both know we want to get married and I would move there.Any advice or is it just wait it out ?We both know we were meant to be.

2007-11-25 00:20:37 · 12 answers · asked by eagle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i went to the cinema with my bf and 2 other mates yesterday...when we were watchin the film i was cuddling up to my bf and (i didnt know this at the time but) he leaned into kiss me and i turned away!! (i didnt find this out till last night...his mate told me)
If i had known he was leanin in i wouldn't have turned away and now i feel really bad...and now hes scared and unsure about wether he'll be able to make the first move again

PLEASE HELP ME

2007-11-25 00:12:57 · 12 answers · asked by SophieKayy 2 in Singles & Dating