Family & Relationships - 25 November 2007

In America I believe the only real minorities are blacks and hispanics. The percentage of blacks and hispanics in college is way less than the percentage of blacks and hispanics in america. Whereas white women make up the largest proportion of college students. They also live the longest and make up the largest proportion of votes in the US. Also even though they may be discriminated in the workforce unlike blacks and hispanics they get special treatment in the workforce. For example Debra Lafave and Mary Kay Letourneau both slept with guys 20 years younger than them and got probation on their first offense whereas other men in the country who are 18 that have slept with someone less than 16 have gone to prison longer time for it. Also if you look at the case of the ministers wife in tennessee who killed her husband she did not even serve a year and other defendants serve more than that and look at how the andrea yates case was dealt why does no one examine male serial killers.

2007-11-25 04:52:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

common techniques ppl use to decieve their loved ones...things they say, excuses, lying patterns??

2007-11-25 04:48:17 · 4 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Singles & Dating

If so, why? Do you like the feeling of power you have over seeing her get upset? Why would you want to "push her buttons" if you love her? Furthermore, why do you wait until she cries to apologize, and then you think sex, flowers and gifts are the answer, when you are only going to do the same thing over again? And why do you use excuses like "I'm stressed out at work." Or, is it just that deep down you think you can walk all over her because she let's you do this? Is this caveman behavior?

FYI, I am talking about words here, not physical abuse.

2007-11-25 04:47:58 · 8 answers · asked by Teresa 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel cramped in this marrige my wife will not allow me to do any of thie things that would make me happy with me she will not allow me to explore any of the things in life that interest me she will not allow me to be the extreme unique person I want to be I have no idea what to do I feel hopeless

2007-11-25 04:47:22 · 12 answers · asked by mrpoet03 4 in Marriage & Divorce

tell me whey you think that

2007-11-25 04:45:11 · 9 answers · asked by nicole m 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-25 04:45:03 · 4 answers · asked by Lilly K 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend who I really do love dearly, but I've kissed 2 other people.

I know that if I tell him he will split up with me, so I don't want to or does he deserve to know the truth?.


I'm never going to do it again it was a stupid drunken mistake, I'm so confused.

2007-11-25 04:44:45 · 6 answers · asked by louiselovesmetal@yahoo.com 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm a pretty shy individual. i tend to open up more once when i get to know someone, but overall, i have a shy personality. it's really hard for me to meet girls when i go out. when i do try to talk to girls, i always have the thought in the back of my head that i sound really stupid, that i'm going to make an a-s-s out of myself, and i have that sense of ackwardness. i always get the impression that girls want the guy to make the first move, which is really hard for me cause i'm shy. i just wish there are girls out there who understand that can be a hard thing for a guy who is shy. people say to me, "quit being shy," or "you have nothing to be shy about," but they have no idea what its like to be shy. why do girls want the guys to make the first move? maybe if i looked like justin timberlake, i could be able to make the first move.

2007-11-25 04:44:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am kinda in love with my ex and we were together for 10 months and now when he sees me he does not even stop talk to me or anything. what can i do all i want to be is his friend but he wont talk to me..

2007-11-25 04:42:06 · 13 answers · asked by shaquekah 2 in Singles & Dating

This year, on the day that school gets out for christmas break, I want to give my best guy friend something that says I love you, because I am not willing to just straight up tell him that I do, so what should I get him?

2007-11-25 04:36:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What would you say if a stranger, latino with green eyes , 6'1 athletic built 235, came to you and said " moments like these can only be lost as time goes on, but thats the reason why we dream" handed you a A DOZEN WHITE ROSES and just walked away What would you do....?

I have dones this before, as part of a research project I did for Victorias Secret. The outcome, I will add later.

2007-11-25 04:34:09 · 54 answers · asked by Carlos de La Vega 3 in Singles & Dating

She thinks he still really likes her and she wants him back!

ADVICE!!!!

2007-11-25 04:34:01 · 8 answers · asked by Mer Mer 2 in Friends

well i ll tell u wat i like laughing,having fun,studying and be friendly most of the times,and becoze i ve got lots of foreign friends i kinda act like them,but in my country they dont like these kind of ppl(funny ppl)and they think that i am stupid.also they have kinda (narrow minded)so how can i tell them that sometimes by anderstanding other cultures u can make ur life better and we shouldnt reject every foreign thing!!

2007-11-25 04:26:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my friend fell out with me today she reckoned she was worried about me and that she was goin to tell my mum wot happend on thursday nite and other things so i thought i would be honest and tell my mum now my mum as disowned me and dont know wot to do

2007-11-25 04:20:10 · 29 answers · asked by salsa3177 1 in Friends

Please could someone help.Ive looked high and low . Dont mind a bit of humour

2007-11-25 04:19:45 · 13 answers · asked by KATT 2 in Weddings

my son is accused in school of making a racist comment, he never even knew the words whats best way to talk to him

2007-11-25 04:16:19 · 41 answers · asked by cazdelight 1 in Family

If I have two girlfriends is it bad?

2007-11-25 04:08:56 · 68 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you think of the vow to "love, honor and OBEY" that women sometimes say in Christian weddings?
And - what do you think of the father giving away his daughter to the groom?
Are these two chauvinistic and outdated or romantic and sweet?
What would/did you do in your wedding?

2007-11-25 04:03:48 · 15 answers · asked by Serena d 3 in Weddings

I have a sister who works nights and she has a kid and we have him all the time my mum and dad were stressed out by it she will see him once a week and on his birthday and christmas she wont take it away with her because she and her boyfriend like some time to there self. my farther was ill once by looking after her kid because he his a pain I said to her once your dad was ill once she said hes still her so stop moaning. now my sister and her new boyfriend want a kid his mum dosent like kids and I said to her our perents will end up having them and she said it wont kill them. I have a life and im not haveing it run by my kid i work nights and thats that. is my sister not nice?

2007-11-25 03:49:28 · 2 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Family

I am the kind of girl that just may start talking to a guy that I find attractive.Do men appreciate that in a woman or does it turn 'em off?

2007-11-25 03:47:46 · 11 answers · asked by brown_eyez 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 22. I work full time, 6 days a week, 14 hours a day. I usually dont have time for a woman or friends. Usually every relationship i get into fails within the first couple months because of my demanding job.
The one day off a week i have im usually getting drunk at home (sometimes just by myself, sometimes with my brother). Sense i only have 1 day off a week and i work so much the only way ive found to relax is being drunk. What would you recommend i do to relax? Im trying to stop drinking because the next day at work i reak of booze and i feel like hell. Im open to any ideas you might have except exerciseing, im in good shape but im a smoker so i dont really care for exerciseing. thanks for your time.

2007-11-25 03:37:34 · 9 answers · asked by Katie 5 in Singles & Dating

i added a boy from my class, i found his e-mail address at the back of his mates planner, so i'd thought i will suprise him and stuff! hehe, then i told him it was me, he called me a *****, lol, we spoke a few times about my learning at school and stuff, & that was the last time we spoke, i know he blocked me because my mate who is going out with him said that he was online and stuff, i didn't do anything wrong?

2007-11-25 03:31:04 · 13 answers · asked by Parawhore 2 in Friends

My ex gf is getting divorced from her husband. Theproblem is we have a 3 year old daughter together and I want to spend more time with her. The only thing is with x-mas coming up so soon I don't really want to take my daughter away from her on x-mas day, leaving her all alone. But I do want to see my daughter on christmas though.
What should I do?

2007-11-25 03:26:08 · 6 answers · asked by ChrisV 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my INCREDIBLY ANNOYING mom is MAKING me go to the movies with my brother and my dad in a half hour, just so that she can watch the football game at home!

i already told her that i wasnt dressed, and that she should let me stay home because im not bothering her, i just stay in my room and do w.e.....

but she wont listen and it makes me so angry! im not a 3 year old and i shouldnt have to sit through some stupid movie ("Fred Claus") that i know im going to hate, just so my mom can be the annoying b*tch that she is!

2007-11-25 03:21:35 · 14 answers · asked by rinn 3 in Family

I am 21 years old and my aunt is 32 years old. She married my uncle 2 years ago but I met her this year like in April. When I saw her I thought she was really pretty and hot. When I starting knowing her I fell in love with her. She has a good personality, funny, makes me smile, and really cool. She has such a pretty face. Last week I stayed at her house while everybody else was on vacation for 3 days. On the 3rd day in her house I was sitting in the couch watching a movie and she sat next to me. The air conditioner was on and she said she was really cold but I thought it was still hot. She started hugging me and she didn't take off the AC. Then she came on top of me and really started hugging me. I liked it but I didn't know what she was doing. She kept moving and was really hugging me and couldn’t let go. She was really grabbing me and then she put 1 hand under my shirt and 1 in my pants. Then I started hugging her and was touching her butt. I was so happy. I lied down on the couch and we were making out. I never knew she liked me. After making out for couple of minutes I wanted her so much I couldn’t let go of her. She was the reason I didn’t ask anybody out the entire year because of those feelings. After making out I carried her to the bedroom. I took off all my clothes except my boxers but she took every single clothes off. I didn’t know if I should take off my boxers but she took it off from me and we had sex. I stated with her the entire night. When we woke up I was facing her and she was facing me. We started talking on how great that was and I told her how I was in love with her for the entire year and how strong it was. She told me she always wanted to kiss me and be with me but she never knew it would go this far but she was really happy it did. She told me that she didn’t want to tell anybody yet and I agreed. As I was about to get dresses she stopped me and told me we still have 3 hours then she was like I want to take a nice hot bubble bath and was pulling me if I wanted to join her and I said hell yeah. We did it for like an hour and a half making love. After I left because everybody will be back soon I was se excited and happy. The next time I will see her is next Tuesday and I don’t know what to do. I’m really scared and nervous. I’m in so much trouble help!! This is serious and true and I don’t care if u don’t believe me just tell me what to do. Help!! She is very special to me. I wanted this for so long. When I jerk off I think about her. Please tell me what to do? I care about her so much.

2007-11-25 03:13:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom is 40 she is getting married with a 20 year old guy.This is not all.This guy is my high school friend.I found out they were dating for last one year and now want to get married.

What should i do.I don't want to call him dad.It will be so not cool!

Help

2007-11-25 03:08:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

At least 5 people in this world love you so much they would die for you

At least 15 people in this world love u in some way

The only reason someone would hate u is cuz they want to be u

everynight someone thinks about u before they go to sleep
You mean the world to someone

if not for you, someone may not be living

I wasnt sure.. my aunt found it on the internet and I HOPE its true...

2007-11-25 03:07:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My marraige life is not sucess. My husband name is Rajesh Rai his date of birth is 15.08.1976.

2007-11-25 03:03:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i think my girlfriend is uncomfortable going any further than making out so what can i do to pleasure her without going down low

2007-11-25 03:01:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im just curious.Do u & ur partner usually "do it" in the car???

do tell me a good spot...

2007-11-25 03:00:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating