Family & Relationships - 25 November 2007

2007-11-25 10:19:47 · 13 answers · asked by FlounderingFishy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a single straight male who loves to crossdress...I pay my bills, I work hard, I help others, I am loyal and honest, and I try to do what is right...so why is it that someone like me cannot find a woman who can accept my need to be a crossdresser...??? and I have helped so many crossdressers by showingthem that it is okay to be yourself the public eye...I have no problem going out as a woman and I get complimented all of the time...by women and men...surely there has to be a woman in the boston area who can say that clothes don't have to make the man...I believe it is what is in the heart that matters most... Funny how most women can look past a lot of the jerks that hit them, cheat on them, and just plain do not respect them and can live with that...why is it so hard to accept clothes...lol...especially when the person wearing them does nothing but CARE ???

2007-11-25 10:18:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my parentals are psycho and i want to go hang out with someone for a bit but i need an excuse to leave...ideas would be appreciated.

2007-11-25 10:17:34 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a teacher sent home a note with a child to be signed by their parent and the child was from a polygamist family where his father had several wives, who should the signer of the note be? Would it be appropriate for the child to go to one of the other wives (not his biological mother) and have her sign the note or is it required that one of his biological parents signs the note? Do polygamist families have certain guidelines in place for such instances? How should a teacher respond if the note was signed by one of the other wives?

2007-11-25 10:16:25 · 11 answers · asked by rainbowreggie 3 in Family

when i said i wanted to learn to drive my parents didnt care, took em 2 months after my birthday to finally get my into a driving school. just recenty (im a 10th grader) have been actually trying in school for the first time in years because i want to be successfull in life. parents didnt care. i want to go to a nice college and get a great job (dont care). its just, anything i do, the makes a difference for the better even if my parents know about it, they just don't show any enthusiasm. they arent drunks or anything, thats just dont ******* give a rats ***. all they notice are the bad things about me. i have like no friends at all and am stuck around the house because i dont even have a car so i cant get anywhere and my mom wont drive me anywhere (no joke) and my dad is always at work. sometimes i just feel like i wanna stab myself in the ******* chest. i have nothing to look forward to anymore, and on top of that my grandma died 2 months ago, and im depressed. ive been depressed....

2007-11-25 10:16:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Been seeing this guy for 3 months - he keeps saying things like "you're so sweet/cute" ... is this code for I really like you or is it more like saying you are like a little sister?!

I think I can tell he really likes me from the way he looks at me but this phrase seems a little odd!

2007-11-25 10:16:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was previously married and had a fancy wedding for my first marriage. My husband left just after a year right after our son was born. The person that I am engaged to now has never been married. My mother is telling me I can't have another 'proper' wedding because I have been previously married and have a baby and even if I did I couldn't wear white. But I want to give my fiance the wedding he never had. Is a 2nd 'proper' wedding alright? Should is just be alittle smaller, more private wedding than what it would normally be? I would appreciate any suggestions.

2007-11-25 10:15:27 · 26 answers · asked by Adrienne L 1 in Weddings

What do you look for in a girl?
1) what size boobs
2) what color eyes
3) what color hair
4) girly or athletic
5) no makeup or makeup
6) skinny, fat, or muscular
7) younger or older

2007-11-25 10:15:24 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i wanna go wedding dress shopping, but i have never been inside a wedding dress shop in my life so i wondering is there any tips? do i need to book an appointment, do they usally pressure people to buy dresses, becuz my wedding isnt until summer so im not in any particular rush. just want to try some on and see if i like them and what suits my body type.

2007-11-25 10:13:34 · 9 answers · asked by Confuseddotcom 1 in Weddings

please help! there is this guy i would die for, my friends say i should ask him out..so i did. I got rejected..
1. because he basicly does not know me
2. he can't date
3. he doesn't like me.
i look @ his picture all the time. i wish we could just be friends. HELP???

2007-11-25 10:12:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-25 10:11:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure where things actually started going wrong between me and my husband but just lately (past 2 months) we've not been getting along. It's both of our faults, neither of us is making the effort anymore. Things in the bedroom have not been great either. I'm not even sure why things have been strained between us, we have 3 kids and life is always busy but I'm not sure what's changed. A perfect example of how things have been is tonight I was watching TV and I laughed, he came in from the kitchen and shut the lounge door on me saying he couldn't stand the noise!! We have 2 nights away in a hotel booked for this weekend and to be honest I'm dreading it, my husband even suggested we cancel it as he thought it would be too much hassle!!! I'm afraid we won't have anything to talk about and the weekend will be disaster and the oppertunity to talk things through will be lost. Help!

2007-11-25 10:10:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

two days ago, my boyfriend and i had an argument because he asked me if it was ok to meet other people while still maintaining the relationship with me. he's 18 and a marine in florida for MOS and i'm 17 and still a junior in high school. we've been dating for a year and half, and he was my first and I was his first as well. basically the result ended in him deleting his myspace because he "didn't like the url and email it was under" sooo, yesterday he made another email, and i thought to myself how funny it would be if he had made another myspace... well he did, and had basically everything filled out, but his status remained "single". i confronted him about it, and he said he "forgot" [bs!] but then admitted that he did it on purpose because he didn't care and because it would give me the advantage. what was the supposed to mean? I feel disrespected, like he doesn’t even care about the relationship we have between us. What should I do?

2007-11-25 10:09:34 · 16 answers · asked by Elaine 2 in Singles & Dating

i meet my guy in a chat room in 2003 i was only 14 and he was 17 eventually we ended up being friends first and we fell in love now im 18 his 21 he still says he loves me and i love him too although we had ups and down..i live in london and his in california and we have never meet but spiritually he says he know im the one and i know he is as well but im now finally ready to meet him.. i speak to his mom and his friends and family they know about me a lot..we do speak about the future..my question is do yout guys think this will work out u kno..us having a distance and all .....

2007-11-25 10:07:39 · 7 answers · asked by gina 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm 18, and I don't have a car(yes i'm a loser-i take the bus). and i was wondering, does it matter who drives on a (first) date with a girl? if I ask her out, would it be kind of odd for her to drive me-or us-whereever?

and as far as any relationship goes, i am severely limited in schedule. i'm only available from 9-4pm-not on weekends and the time is subject to change every few months-and i have no idea of her schedule? could it work out?

2007-11-25 10:07:00 · 8 answers · asked by razor 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, so there's this girl named felisha in my english class, and we talk but not THAT much, and everytime we talk she seems into it and looks like she wants to talk. Sometimes shes even shy around me and end up blushing which is really cute and she also gets this wrinkle over her nose when she smiles which ends up making me blush haha and I kind of like her and am interested in her. I also asked for her number and she was going to give me her number too and she said come to my desk and ill write it down but i never went to her desk. Now the thing is we have known each other for id say 2 weeks barely and we have only talked about 4 times so would you guys suggest I ask her to hang out sometimes? and should i ask for the number tomorow? or what can I do please help guys!

2007-11-25 10:05:28 · 18 answers · asked by ***KREEM YUNG*** 1 in Singles & Dating

I have broke up with another girl because of her past.

When I was younger, I was taught that i would meet a "nice girl" ( a virgin), and have a happy family with her.

My first real girlfriend told me after we graduated from college (and had been seeing each other for a year) that she had had alot of lovers...I broke it off, and never talked to her again...because I feel she should have been more honest with me.
Every woman I seem to meet has been with alot of people, and now friends try to set me up with women with kids. I feel these women are "marked" by other men, and I can't get past it.
For all who may question, no I do not sleep with alot of people.
I just do not understand how a man could take a woman's hand in matrimony if she has such a past. To find a nice girl for marriage is what i want.
What does the rest of society think? Should I just give up, get into an unhappy marriage and cheat on my spouse like everyone else seems to do?

2007-11-25 10:04:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

u both love each other but theres one problem, he/she doesn't trust u. u have been off and on so many times, ur getting hurt and he/she is getting hurt. u can't be friends cus u have feelings for each other yet u can't be away from that person ever, even if u try ur best to stay away, theres a problem, u just can't( u see them everyday *sigh*) u want to move on and so does the other person but u guys just can't seem to do it. wat would u do then?
p.s he trust his instinct more than u, so u can't work it out

2007-11-25 10:04:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Every so often, someone asks a question about daycare- the cost of daycare or something to do with the daycare their child attends..

And, without fail, there will be several stay at home moms who chime in about "loving your child enough not to put them in daycare."

What about single moms? Of course it's not an ideal situation- but surely they can't be expected to stay at home with their children- who would feed them or pay the bills?

I work from home- 2 days out of the week, I go out and my husband stays home with the kids. I'm a photographer- I travel to my locations on these days.

Before I met my husband, I was a single mother of one. I didn't like leaving her, but I had no choice. I understand that having a parent home is nice, but I don't think many stay at home mothers realize that it's actually a luxury that not all families can afford..

2007-11-25 10:02:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ive tried almost everything.

2007-11-25 10:02:00 · 5 answers · asked by pokeyprincess77 3 in Family

Do you think he likes me?
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A few days ago, we went on a walking field trip. The guy I like was in the front, and I was a few steps behind him, and sort of in the middle. Every so often, he would look behind him, or from the corner of his eye, and look at me. He would do that a lot! And then on our way back, I was in the back, and he was in the front. He kept looking behind him, and then eventually he slowed down, and started walking right behind me. Occasionally he would step on my heels. Then he started walking right beside me! I was super nervous, and I didn't look at him because I was blushing!! His friends were whispering in the back, too. Does this sound like he likes me?

2007-11-25 10:01:41 · 8 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 6 in Singles & Dating

I don't know them. You DO!!!!! What do they like to do?

2007-11-25 10:01:37 · 4 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you were in a bedroom that no one knew you were in because it was dark, and started hearing your in-laws talking bad about you and your family? How would you handle it or react? I of course busted them, and love the look on there faces...

2007-11-25 10:01:01 · 7 answers · asked by Milo33 2 in Singles & Dating

ok my boyfriend won't let me cut my hair. do guys like long hair or short hair or medium

2007-11-25 10:00:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got put in groups to brainstorm on ideas out "communication games" --i was a lil clueless but tried* to act like i knew sum stuff * lol! this dude near me who used to tease me alot yrs ago started speaking loudly "why can't we just say it out instead of writing" ......i personally hate participating in class discussions but i ignored whatever he was bothering the teacher bout.....that dude started getting more obnoxious sayin "we should just debate on it instead of wasting so much paper! you're killin so much trees" -- he stifled a laugh and looked a lil indirectly at me...
i got a lil pissed & hostile but i tried not to show for the most part --but was he purposely trying to get on my nerves? was he tryign to tease me?

2007-11-25 09:59:28 · 5 answers · asked by hmm 3 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy at school that i really liked at the beginning of the year. i was new, so i didn`t think he noticed me. being the flirty beeotch i am (not) i kinda starting to flirt with him a LOT. i started to think he liked me, so i got WAY over flirtatious (sp??). he was walking home with my best friend one day (i wasn`t there) and she couldn`t help but ask if he liked me. his response wasn`t pretty. he sed...
"gawd, does she STILL like me? shes pretty and all, but shes REALLY annoying."
ouch. i cried all nite. it was the saddest moment ever. after that, i didn`t like him anymore, and i made sure everyone knew. then, out of nowhere, i started liking him again. but i only told my bff and NO ONE ELSE. one day, my bff was talking to him at lunch cuz he sits with her. he was giving her hints on who he liked and sed its someone really close to you (duh its my bff) and her name has an e in it. (my names emma) i think he likes me finally!! but he hasn`t asked me out. what should i do?

2007-11-25 09:55:54 · 29 answers · asked by newyearbaby1231 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my wife (now seperated) have been apart for 3 months.
She was physically abusive towards me and spit in my face! She has a good heart, but she so prideful and never said sorry when she know's she should have! Now it does take two to tango and my fault was dragging out arguments because she was so oblivious to the point because of her pride. She never would accept responsibility for her actions and I am guilty of calling her a few names when she hit me and spit in my face. The first time she hit me was when I mentioned I wanted a divorce because we werent getting along. I would never hit her back or ever lay my hand on a woman EVER. I forgave her and still do with out of hope and love that one day she will see what shes done and admit to it. I am always the first to apologize when I know im wrong! But she always brags how strong she is and recently I told her that a big problem was that "you never said you're sorry" and she replied "well im not like that" I want her back! why?

2007-11-25 09:54:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't understand why guys can not just tell girls how they feel?

2007-11-25 09:54:24 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

bra and panty sets shouldn't she just enjoy it and stop teasing him about it? I
t happened almost a week ago and she still keeps calling me Jamey and asking me if I want to go to Victoria Seceret or try on some of her dresses. I'm just scares she might tell one of her gabby sisters

2007-11-25 09:53:05 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

.. what should i do? they don even let me go over to my friend's house, or even spend a night at my cousin's house :( its not that fair, except that my brothers get to. :( i am the only girl in my family out of 5 kids, and i feel like they are just using me to help out with their little 0 yr old and 4 yr old all the time.. help me gain their trust...

2007-11-25 09:52:04 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family