Ok guys!!! Why can't you just admit your feeling?

Question

I don't understand why guys can not just tell girls how they feel?

Answer 1

Most guys are not used to thinking about their feelings and are afraid to say what they really feel.

Answer 2

i don't know. ive never had a b-friend, but i think about this type of suff all the time. it stinks too because u just never know.u would be better off with an anwer from a guy but here is what think. i think its because they're affraid of what we're going to say or think. proably the same as what most of us would do if we weren't the most popular girl or the prettiest girl or are just worried of what the guy would think.If you guys talk try to get whatever it is u want to know out of him.word things in a way that he will know its ok to be truethful...100%...well, I hope this helped and answered what u were asking...

Answer 3

Because girls freak out when we do. I've seen it, for example; "Oh my god! He's like in love with me, It's so creepy, he like, likes me." At least this is why I don't. Plus there's the games. We know girls like to play cat and mouse, "catch me," hard to get, however you want to call it. It's a complex in a way that us guys have to look uninterested A.K.A "not desperate." When I show that I like a girl through body language I've only got pushed away so that makes it tough to show it especially with words. I'm pretty sure other guys feel the same with HAVING to look uninterested to catch attention and getting thrown away when you DO show it keeps us from admiting.

Answer 4

I know, I know. They're all pointless. The only reason guys' are here is to hook up with girls so WE can get pregnant and there can be more people :) I honestly think it's because their shy. I know everyone says it but, it's soooo true. If you're in elementary school, you tend to be mean to the kid you like. Like, punch them, call them names, tease them or kick them in the knees or something. Middle school is where all the confident guys start getting girlfriends. And high-school is where you say what you need to say when you need to say it. Well, that's how it is for me. Girls are usually really good at that but, guy need some time to catch on to our signals. Yep.

Answer 5

I second this question! Guys can only seem to let us know what's going on in their hearts when they are getting ready to lose us! And even then, sometimes they're afraid to tell us. Don't be so bull headed, it doesn't make you less of a man to tell us how you're feeling. It makes us respect guys more!

Answer 6

its a fact that girls are more "in touch" with their feelings then guys are! guys ( well most ) are not as "deep" about stuff as girls are and its hard to put feelings into words sometimes especially if your not "in touch"with them.guys just understand things differently then girls

Answer 7

is not that we dont admit our feelings.. is just that we tend to stay in defense mode its hard for us to release those words that we dont usually say.. also we think for some reason we think that those words will make us into a weaker guy by showing emotions

Answer 8

Because we're fragile. Girls who don't feel the same way tend to run, leaving us humiliated and dejected, which is an awful feeling. Who wants to feel like that? Keeping our feelings to ourselves is just safer.

Answer 9

its hard as hell, but i do it when the feeling is really strong for the girl. because if you hold it in , then she will be stuck in your head and it is all you will ever think about. you wont be able to do much without thinking about her. but if you tell her, then you feel so much more relieved and even if she doesnt like you back, you atleast know you had the balls to tell her and you wont think about it as much.

Answer 10

Because men are programmed throught their childhood not to have intense feelings. Or at least not to admit that anyway.