Family & Relationships - 25 November 2007

2007-11-25 12:26:14 · 27 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

My family and I hate one set of our cousins, the one that goes to my school has lunch the same time as my friends and i. She sits next to us all the time. I usually sit next my friend and 2 of my other friends from a different class. We have assigned tables to sit at and the only table that we can sit at to be next to each other is the one that she somehow always sits at. A couple of weeks ago people were saying that i look a lot like her. i asked my friends and they said i don't look anything like her. How can i somehow ignore her without her becoming offened and telling the rest of the family. I try not to be mean but sometimes i just come off as such a snot. P.S. My parents don't want me talking to her either. Please help!!!

2007-11-25 12:24:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I don't just wanna say it straight up either.

2007-11-25 12:22:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you told a girl you wanted to see her freaky side...what would you want for her to do to prove you her freaky side???


please do not say SEX

2007-11-25 12:21:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband wants a divorce for no reason, he says he will leave me half of the marital assests but wont give any assests he had before marriage. he already has a lawyer 2 in fact to handle the divorce he wants a clean one. he hasnt been cheating and i know that for sure cause my friends work with him and even when they tried to flirt with them he reacted coldly. he isnt gay either cause he cant even be around other men in a changing room or even look at one naked. he was very loving, brought gifts and such. he really wont tell me the reason for the divorce. why would he want one? what could be wrong?

he comes back home on time never is out with anyone never talks online. only this week he turned to be really emotionless.
he has also filed a restraining order against me and has moved out of the apartment. we have no children.

2007-11-25 12:20:04 · 8 answers · asked by Hi T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been friends with benifits with this guy for about two years now...but we have feelings for one another...and blah, blah, blah. We've been there for eachother and put eachother through a lot but, still always make up.

Anyways, I'm moving to Chicago next year from Ohio and he's still going to be living in Ohio. It's going to be really hard for me to leave him behind..and I know I'm going to cry when we say our good-byes. I'll still come back to visit with family on the holiday's and such.

He's not a very sensitive guy..But, what I want to know is do you think he will also cry when we say good-bye? Or maybe just shed a tear or two?

Thanks so much.

2007-11-25 12:19:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a freshman in high school, and there is this kid on my bus, he is a sophomore. We talk a lot, I guess, on the bus. He now says mean stuff to me in a sort of joking way, pushes me a lot and laughs, and certain days we are the only ones on the bus, and he told the bus driver how he has to "put up with me all day" I am not even in his class! Then he told the bus driver to let me off 2 miles away from my house so I could walk home! He always laughs when he says mean stuff, so I never know. Thanks!

2007-11-25 12:17:58 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-25 12:16:47 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and she text you "i got the flowers. they were nice. thank you." what does that mean?

2007-11-25 12:15:15 · 14 answers · asked by SR 1 in Singles & Dating

we have been together for almost two years in the beginning of our relationship we had a decent amount of sex. now we barley have sex. he always is not in the mood. he once said he doesnt even like sex! i just dont get it i need help please!!

2007-11-25 12:14:49 · 21 answers · asked by dddddd 4 in Singles & Dating

When your girlfriend tells you that her son will love me more because i'm a better provider than his dad ?

2007-11-25 12:12:28 · 6 answers · asked by bird38 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what should i do? they don even let me go over to my friend's house, or even spend a night at my cousin's house :( its not that fair, except that my brothers get to. :( i am the only girl in my family out of 5 kids, and i feel like they are just using me to help out with my brothers that are just the age of 0 and 4 all the time !!l... help me gain their trust.i am 12, and i dont have a phone, my brothers are 0, 4, 11, and 13. i dont have a phone but the 13 yr old got it when he was my age.. whats up with that.? l0l.. but plz stick to answering the "my parents dont trust me" question.. pleaaaseeeeee?

2007-11-25 12:05:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I want to know what girls mean when they a guy is good in bed. I understand the whole foreplay thing, but how can you be good at the actual humping" motion???? It seems basic enough, wheres the skill in it?

2007-11-25 12:03:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi,

I recently began being sexual with my new g/f. I am very very attracted to her and we are both very in love with one another.

I am, however, having a hard time maintaining an erection. She will give me a hand job and / or a BJ and I will get hard, but then when I enter her vagina, I go limp. It's very frustrating. My g/f understands and is willing to work with me to help, so I realize I am lucky in this regard, but I'm not sure what the problem is. We were using condoms and she said that, if it's the absolute last resort, she would go on the pill and we would have sex in the raw, but I'd prefer to not have to do that, and I don't think the condom is the problem.

Also, prior to meeting my g/f I was / am a virgin (I'm 27, old i know). I also masturbated A LOT and watched some porn (maybe 1/2 hour each night) and was able to c u m no problem. Could this have caused my problem. I will definitely stop if you think this could be part of the problem.

Thanx so much for any help

2007-11-25 12:02:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-25 12:01:44 · 10 answers · asked by ManHere 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 and he's 23.... I don't want to go to a movie.....and it is cold- keep in mind!...... Thnx.

2007-11-25 12:00:19 · 1 answers · asked by Princess 3 in Singles & Dating

I am in 7th grade and I have strong feelings for a 22 year old!?
I don't get butterflies anymore. I am past that.

Now I am to the point where everytime I think about him I usually close my eyes and sigh in relief that I get to see him soon.
My hands shake a little,
And my legs sometimes get weak??
Are these feelings strong for my age? or not? Thanx!

2007-11-25 11:57:26 · 65 answers · asked by ♥ash♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

So, I met a girl last night, she was with a friend. we hung out for 3hrs and kissed goodnight. She stayed the night at her friends place. She lives 90mins away and she drove home today. we texted good night at 2am this morning. I don't want to ignore her tonight, but i also don't want to come off needy calling too early...so what's a good suggestion?

2007-11-25 11:57:24 · 23 answers · asked by 33ea 3 in Singles & Dating

I was soooo turned off by them with my sister's wedding, that now that it's time for me to get married I refuse to buy anything there. They waited on her hand and foot UNTIL there was a problem. Then they were more or less "you're out of luck." They changed the rules on her and made her cry. I went in to buy my bridesmaid dress and I could barely get anyone to wait on me. I guess since I HAD to buy my dress there they didn't give 2 sh**s about me. When I think back on it, it still makes me mad. I am flabbergasted by anyone who even recommends them.

2007-11-25 11:55:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

someone that lights up your life ?

2007-11-25 11:51:21 · 30 answers · asked by ♥BEX♥ 7 in Singles & Dating

ok so its been a few months sinc emy b/f has been acting weird.we dont have sex we dont hang out or anyhtign. he is just there and like always online and he never really talks to me and when i try to talk to him about our problems he gets mad and blames them all on me. he has days where he hangs out w/ me and tells me im prettya ndhe loves me but thats liek once a month if that. i feel liek he is sick of me or somethign but when i ask him he says no. his answers are very short and he never wants to talk about anyhting w/ me.

we havent had sex in liek 4 months. i feel like shi* b/c of the way he treats me now. he is meana nd calls me names and my family wants me to move back w/ them but idk if i can do that b/c if i leave i can never come back to him.

i try to wear cute clothes and keep my hair and nails done and stuff and i always make him food and clean up for him and rub his back but he doenst appreciate it. i dontr know what to do. b/c i wouldnt know what to do w/o him. = [

2007-11-25 11:42:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am18 and some of my friends make fun of me for being a virgin is it wrong to be a virgin

2007-11-25 11:42:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a really sweet boyfriend who would do anything for me.
I'm still in high school and not ready to have sex until I am in love.
He isn't a virgin, and I know he would never pressure me, but we're in a rut. We have done sexual things but nothing as risky as to cause an accidental pregnancy.
I trust him, but I need something to happen soon. I need things to get taken to some kind of new level.
He doesn't know how I feel. I've texted him to call me after work. How should I go about telling him my feelings?

2007-11-25 11:38:18 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

opinions on child abuse

2007-11-25 11:37:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my friends hate my friend jenn but she needs a place to stay. her mom just kicked her out and she says she has a week to get out of the house. shes only 15! and she has no were to go because her dad just moved out of state. everything would work out perfectly if she stayed with me she would have a ride to school, i have a extra bed. but were a little behind money so i think they will say no. but she would only stay 2 weeks. but my mom let my brothers friend paul stay for two weeks and his other friend stay for a month, so why cant i let her stay for two weeks. but im asking how do i convince them to let her stay? also they hate her because we were stupid a year ago and took these pills and we o.d. also she had alot of problems at home so my parents thought she was mentally unstable but she got counciling so shes better its just her and her mom got in a fight so she cant deal with her anymore and shes makign her leave so how can i convince my parents to let her stay?!?!?!

2007-11-25 11:33:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-25 11:32:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with friendly people or you can turn enemies into friends.

2007-11-25 11:31:30 · 20 answers · asked by @NGEL B@BY 7 in Friends

ok i like this girl and she asked me who i liked in a text. how should i tell her that i like her??

2007-11-25 11:28:47 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when you say that you miss being in love when you act like you love every girl on y/a.

2007-11-25 11:28:03 · 9 answers · asked by @NGEL B@BY 7 in Singles & Dating

Can anyone not be a smart alec and give advise. I am sick with Hep-c, fused spine on disability blah blah. Canadian wife of 8 years fed up with all the debt and living in hell hole Michigan.She wants to go home and haven't got the money to move her. Son hung himself a few years back, really have had a hard time. I'm on NO meds as we aren't covered by ins. Should I sell the house and get her home and apply for some pitiful houseing on my disability income(for however long S.S. will last) I know I'm gonna get some wild answers. No meds or counceling seem to help and I have tried one hell of a lot of meds and shrinks.......I get nightmares of my son hanging there. Family are really non-existant. I live in a state (mich.) where services are cut to the core. How to hell is anyone going to give me advise when, the situation is too complex? I know WHAT to do to make things better, I just don't have the physical strength to go forward, allways feel like have flu, pain that undiscribable.

2007-11-25 11:27:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce