Family & Relationships - 25 November 2007

please don't blabble to much about the holidays!

Other than that tell me all you want!!

I had a great time!!!!
and still is!

2007-11-25 13:54:22 · 2 answers · asked by kittie 3 in Singles & Dating

my x hub left me about a yr ago n went overseas he never told me we were finished or anything we had a son together and a month when he got there told me we are divorced as he was marrying another woman and he wanted to forget me and our son as she didnt want him to have any contact so its been a yr now not a word from my x hub but now im engaged and my fiance ( as in arab culture we do this) wanted to see wether i was good or no good before so he sent a friend to go talk to my ex hub n my ex hub told his friend that i was a big sl*t and that he was only using me for the aus visa so of course i got hurt by this comment then 2 days later he sent his old friend in aus too talk to my fiancee and told me to go c his sis as he knows i loved his sis but wat i dnt understand y after 1 yr is he starting trouble 4 me n y after 1 yr does he want me 2 c his sis now my fiance now said he can do anything to my ex hub n wat do i want done n i want to hurt him like he has hurt me n i just dont know

2007-11-25 13:54:02 · 17 answers · asked by j 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Back in July I thought that my husband was cheating. I am still not sure that he wasn't, but I choose to stick it out and as far as I know there have been no more issues of that type since then. We used to fight all the time and now we rarely even talk and it's like we are in a "holding patteren". Sex is few and far between, but then again that has always been the case. I guess that I just feel like I am living with a roommate and not a spouce. I get along better and talk more to my ex husband more then I do my husband (before you start me and my ex share a child and he is married 4 states away). I haven;t cheated and don't plan to, but I just feel so "BLAH" We have been married 5 years and I can't stand to live another year with someone that I can't talk to.

Also before you start, this has nothing to do with the sex, and I HAVE tried EVERYTHING in the book to put sparks inthat area.

Any tips or advice?

2007-11-25 13:52:36 · 10 answers · asked by Brandi 5 in Marriage & Divorce

and how good does the world think you are?

2007-11-25 13:51:45 · 6 answers · asked by kittie 3 in Singles & Dating

My whole life my EXTREMELY emotionally abusive father, who happens to be a habitual, functional alcoholic, has always told me what to do, what not to do, and everything in between at every given moment. I was never allowed to second-guess him, nor did I ever try for fear of intensive punishment. Now, I am 17 and about to go away to college and don't know what to do because soon I know I will be very very lost and not know what to do......help?? How do I figure things out without messing up my, and everyone else's lives? Without resorting to that punishment that comes with the second-guessing of my dad's judgements??

2007-11-25 13:50:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

with me repeatedly over and over again. He moved in with his sister and was a completely different person someone I had never seen before. He told me not to hold my breath he wouldnt be coming back home. If he loved me he wouldnt be putting me through this, if he loved me he wouldnt be telling me didnt and if he loved me hed be here at home. I called the girl confronted her and threatened to tell her husband, she in turn got scared and told him the end result was they didnt leave each other. My husband on the other hand stayed with his sister and kept acting like a jerk to me. A close friend of ours passed away on the 9th and my husband came home on the 11th of November he tells me he loves me now and that he said everything in anger and that the girl was just something that happened he was wrong and that he will leave it up to me what I want to do with the relationship he says he knows he messed up but acts as if nothing has happened How can he not love me 1 day then love me the next?

2007-11-25 13:50:32 · 9 answers · asked by mmedina96 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Need song ideas. Serious only, thanks.

2007-11-25 13:49:58 · 8 answers · asked by Sidepocket8ball 5 in Weddings

my exwife new husband got into trouble with the law in another state, so she move there. is there some way i can get to see my kids more im not even getting them on my weekends ?

2007-11-25 13:49:06 · 4 answers · asked by RAYMOND N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If I'm wearing just the right amount of sweet smelling cologne what affect can that have on my chances of attracting more people of the opposite sex? I'm no implying anything I'm just simply curious

2007-11-25 13:49:02 · 14 answers · asked by Chuck 6 in Singles & Dating

Do women prefer looks, money, power, personality, a big penis, or someone who knows how to party and has access to drugs? P.S. why does yahoo answers automatically post these type of questions on the lesbian and gay section (retarded)

2007-11-25 13:47:50 · 7 answers · asked by jorarmando 1 in Singles & Dating

okay, if the guy u liked a lot pulled u from the halls into a secluded closet and said u could do anything with him...what would u do? be serious girls

2007-11-25 13:45:19 · 86 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was with him 3 years,We had agreat thanksgiven and we were making plans for the weekend.we haven't been fighting things were good.I took him to work,he never came home. I get a call from his mom later that night that he had called and he is on a bus headed north...Now I am about to lose the place we were renting and my car and he showed no signs....I'm so scared and hurt..I wasn't working and he knew that I would lose everything if he did this..I need help so my daughter and I aren't homeless by next week and I need to know how someone can love you and do this.

2007-11-25 13:43:29 · 13 answers · asked by Joy B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so I live in Inglewood Ca. [[ghetto]] And ive been wanting to move to Utah for quite a while now... Ive been there 3 times and I love it. I Also have an uncle and cousins over there. My sister in addition is going to move over there in like 3 weeks, shes already 18 so my parents cant stop her. Since she is my only sis I really love her and want to move to Utah...

My parents in the other hand are really close minded which sucks cause im not gonna give up till we move.

If anyone knows a way to convince them please tell me.

Here are some things ive already used.
- The houses are way bigger and more affordable.
- I go to a charter school which is a lil too dificult for me and a public school would be easier for me and the ones here arent good schools.
- We have family in Utah.
- I will raise up my grades.
- I will be happier in general, cause I do get depressed.
- My dad can get a transfer since he works in the LAX he can work at the SLC Airport.

2007-11-25 13:41:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

if they disappointed you?

2007-11-25 13:40:14 · 54 answers · asked by @NGEL B@BY 7 in Family

if you like to go out and your lover doesn't take you out.

2007-11-25 13:38:11 · 8 answers · asked by @NGEL B@BY 7 in Singles & Dating

i got married a girls and she cheated on me and someone told me she married to me because she want to get citizenship now its last day for her application and i'm confused either i should remove her application or keep it. i dont want her to think i'm taking some revenge or something plz help me ....

2007-11-25 13:36:31 · 6 answers · asked by Dhoka Baaz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband has left again for the 3rd or 4th time again. this time he got mad because he said i lied about working on the day after thanksgiving. first of all i did not lie i had to work but a few days later my boss said i didnt have too. but i needed to go in to finish a project i need to work on so i didnt tell him. but on thanksgiving evening i told him i might get off early and then he said oh you really dont have to work. and i said no but i need to go in and finish some work. he got mad and said i lied and all i needed to do is tell him that i need to go in for a special project. but that is a lie when i tell him the truth he gets mad and when i dont he gets mad. i damned if i do and i damned if i dont, he i just real controllling and has trust issue. i know that i dont need to be with him because he has been abusing me the whole time we have been together. but can he change, is their anyone who understands how i feel?

2007-11-25 13:36:01 · 15 answers · asked by shelly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I'm only 18 years old. Yes I do realize that I am young but honestly I am having that feeling where I only want one person and one person alone! I want to settle down. I have had my share of guys but now I am tired of these games. I want to be love and in love with one person. Is this normal! Should I take my time? I am in a relationship with this guy and I told him how I was feeling...he says he will do everything in his power to stay together....God is this normal??

2007-11-25 13:34:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Email me for more info.

2007-11-25 13:34:33 · 31 answers · asked by justinmnz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-25 13:31:58 · 21 answers · asked by carol 1 in Marriage & Divorce

especially in y/a.

2007-11-25 13:30:50 · 19 answers · asked by @NGEL B@BY 7 in Singles & Dating

but he ripped it out and totally rejected me and my love. I gave him everything I have and all my life but he does not want me. Now I want to forget him but the truth is, im still in love with him and can't forget him. How do I forget him???

2007-11-25 13:29:22 · 11 answers · asked by lukez_gal<3 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife wants to speak with her, but I don't think it would be good. I'd rather see her just control her actions and try to not do the things that cause arguments, or to not allow my sister in law to bother her so much.

2007-11-25 13:28:32 · 1 answers · asked by Kaje77 1 in Family

I told him I had fallen for him and although he was fine with it initially, long story short, things got difficult and through jealousy and anger i became aggressive and critical of him and itgot quite heated via email.

We are both gay and in our thirties.

We stopped being friends and although we were both at fault, I take most of the responsibility for initiating the hostility between us.

This all happened four months ago and I sentt him an email wishing him a Happy Thanksgiving and telling him I felt responsible and hoped, if possible, to resurrect a friendship if possible.

I added that it may be too soon for him and left it at that.

The next day he sent me an invitation to an art showing he is hosting for a friend taking place next week. No personal message, just the invitation with no writing.

The initial meeting would be awkward for me: how would you handle. How would you act and what would you say?

2007-11-25 13:28:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've always been a short+hot tempered person.Means,I can get angry very fast & it lasts upto few days.Most of the times,I practice patience,let-go attitude.But when I dont like a person or when I feel I've kept enuf patience,I canot tolerate him for even a single moment.Sadly though,this has happened with me &my husband.He is very stubborn,dominant, insensible (does not think before he talks),slow,less-earner than me,hyper-egoistic,demanding,moneyminded and self-centered.All -ves on one side.But he is loving and expects me to accept him the way he is.But me being more smarter,faster,cheerful,younger personality (we have 6yrs age difference & a kind of generation gap in our thinking).Now the problem is that I am not able to forgive and forget things easily.I keep geting upset with him and it ends up in a big fight.almost every alternate day or once in a week.It has affected our bond &now Iam demanding a separation.Although he loves me&doesnt want me to leave him.
What should I do?

2007-11-25 13:28:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Even for sanitary reasons for my children?

2007-11-25 13:20:03 · 32 answers · asked by Mandy R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have three great little boys. They are sweet, caring, smart, obedient...everything a mother could ask. Due to immaturity and a bad relationship with my husband, they have seen me lose my temper, lose control of my emotions and basically live trhough my depression.

They're 11, 9 and 8. ANd I Can see where they may be hurt by all of this, but have no idea how deep that goes. I'm at a turning point in my life where it is more impotrant to me than anything else for them to grow up to be healthy people, and am learning to simply be responsible and not blame my bad marriage for all of the things I don't feel as if I am doing for them....quality time, playing with them, listening, and just being a grown up.

Where do I start?

2007-11-25 13:19:18 · 45 answers · asked by Jennys 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband's 20 YO daughter moved out last year--she previously had floated back and forth between our house and her moms when she pleased (using her car). She decided that she didn't like adhering to our rules--helping around the house & with her younger siblings and to let us know where she was (so we didn't worry all night). She did not help out unless forced. She lives with her mom now who charges her rent (and who is now demanding more), but whom she helps with the housework. She had a ton of attitude towards me, and I won't allow it in my home. We never asked her for rent, only to help out (non-Cinderella like). She has TWO rooms at her moms, quiet for study, run of the house and whatever she wants to do. Our kids shouldn't have to share a room. I will NOT take my kids out so that she can study at home-that's what libraries are for My hubby thinks I'm being a B****, but he does not see the attitude as he works the nights and weekends-he's not there. Help!

2007-11-25 13:15:45 · 11 answers · asked by Jen-Jen 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

He is 9. He kisses me it is not the normal hello goodbye on the cheek kiss he gets on top of me and kisses me on the lips and this is way more then just once. I really hate it when he does this. I tell his mom all he hears is Noah stop it and thats it. He also grabs my butt. I can't belive his parents let this go by. I yell at him and once I hit him not really hard but hard enough. What should I do I cant stand it no more.Also I am afraid he will try this with my friends he all ready kissed one.It's like my little cousin is a pervert. HELP ME PLEASE OH PLEASE!!!

2007-11-25 13:15:43 · 12 answers · asked by Ash 5 in Family

I am 21 and shes 22 we have been dating for almost 2 years and live together in a house. we have talked about getting engaged and married but idk how to ask her please help me

2007-11-25 13:15:42 · 10 answers · asked by Matt J 3 in Marriage & Divorce