I recently got married and moved in with my husband. Since I moved in with him I have done most of the work around the house (wash dishes/clothes, clean, cook dinner, etc.). I feel that he doesn't appreciate that I do those things for him, like he's already too comfortable and we've only been married a few months. This is the second marriage for both of us, so I wouldn't say we have unrealistic ideals about a marriage. Anyways, also since we got married, he doesn't shower everyday, only wants to have sex when he feels like it, or do anything else when he feels like. Not that I want to when he hasn't showered, but it's the principle. Anywho...I feel like I do a lot for him and really don't feel appreciated for the things I do and put up with (his family). I want to talk to him about this but I know it will "blow his mind" and he will get extremely defensive about it and it will be a huge "discussion". How can I or should I say something to him?
2007-11-25
11:03:16
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