or do you invite your ex to your wedding.
2007-11-25 11:11:27 · 19 answers · asked by @NGEL B@BY 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
if you are still friends and are truly happy to see him marry someone else, then you should go if you are invited. however, if you aren't still platonic friends, his fiance doesn't like you, or you wish you were the one marrying him, then you should decline the invite and send a card instead. you shouldn't invite him to your wedding unless he is still a platonic friend that you talk to and hang out with or if your fiance doesn't like him or would be uncomfortable.
2007-11-25 11:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I might go if it was a long time ago and we were really good friends. Otherwise I would stay home as a courtesy for his bride and because I probably have better things to do than attend weddings of my ex-boyfriends.
I would not invite ex's unless it was the same situation above (long ago and good friends afterwards). I'd also check with my spouse first and make sure that he was absolutely OK with it. If people knew we dated I wouldn't invite him out of respect for my husband.
2007-11-25 11:17:49 · answer #2 · answered by pspoptart 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No to both things. It is not proper etiquette because that is your past and it also has a way of making the spouses uncomfortable on their special day. My husband had a couple of ex-girlfriends that he is still friends with that he wanted to invite to our wedding. I am fine with him being friends with them because I know that there is nothing there with him and them anymore but I said no to inviting them to our wedding because I was not comfortable with that. I felt that it was inappropriate to have his exes there on what was the most romantic day of our lives. It is just a rule of thumb that you never invite exes because it always makes someone uncomfortable. It is also a respect thing for your spouse or their spouse.
2007-11-25 14:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by Strong Happy Marriage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex got married one week after we had our last fling. I went to the wedding and everyone knew but the bride. I got up to make a toast and everyone took a deep breath thinking I would tell the secret. I'm older now and would not go at all if I had a chance to do it all again.
2007-11-25 11:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way.... and why would anyone even WANT to go to an ex's wedding?
I prefer to leave the past in the past.
2007-11-25 14:01:59 · answer #5 · answered by Proud Momma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Even if invited I will not attend. If I will the one to get married , out of respect to my future husband I will not invite my ex.
2007-11-25 12:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you have been invited than curiously U nonetheless have a sturdy friendship including your Ex for them to grant U an invitation for this reason purchase a extreme-high quality present, take a date and revel interior the occasion!!! :---)
2016-10-09 11:45:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the word ex mean something
stay away
2007-11-25 11:26:42 · answer #8 · answered by PANGTA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
politely decline and do not invite because its like peeling old scabs and letting the wound bleed and when its dry you peel it again...it will leave a scar
2007-11-25 11:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by Marie Q 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No and I would not give a formal invitation either. I would not want to receive one either. it is WAYYYYY too awkward.
2007-11-25 12:14:39 · answer #10 · answered by Your #1 fan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋