Family & Relationships - 27 November 2007

It don't feel right not waitin' up fore her?! So I'm waitin'!

2007-11-27 23:58:15 · 12 answers · asked by Farmer & Granny Crabtree 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-27 23:57:46 · 16 answers · asked by nauman b 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 19 year old girl I have been seeing guy for over 2 months now the thing is we dont go on dates he usually just calls over to my house and we endf up having sex.When i suggest going to cinema or something he always makes excuses! Are relationships just about sex?Have never been in proper relationship so dont know how they work!

2007-11-27 23:38:16 · 12 answers · asked by rose18 1 in Singles & Dating

i ave been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months we hardly ever have sex anymore he comes to see mebut he seems distant and not very affectionet towards me how can i make him happy again?

2007-11-27 23:37:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-27 23:36:45 · 11 answers · asked by General 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had my son 5 months ago. I had him when I was 18. It was a rough pregnancy. I had put on everything possible for stretch marks the minute that I found out I was pregnant. All of my efforts did not help I got really bad stretch marks, they are embarrassing. I don't think that i will ever find anyone to have a relationship with cause i'm so insecure about my tummy. Do you think things will change? Will I find that someone anytime?

2007-11-27 23:33:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 16 and he's 18 and we've been together for a year now.. about 4 months ago he said he wanted someone who will be able to move in with him and someone thats not in school.. with that in mind I told him I didnt plan on going back next year anyway (becos i didnt) and he agreed that we could keep going until then.. but just before me & my family were going to go on holiday we fought alot.. and decided on a break.. I got back 2 weeks later.. and he broke it off.. I just found out that later that night he called a girl from my school asking her if she wanted to go out.. they were going to have sex but her brother showed up so nothing happened.. a month later.. he asks me back out again.. becos we were still seeing each other and sleeping together.. Its just gone 1 year and now he's saying i'm too clingy. Becos I called him right after he left.. I just wanted to talk.. He has no idea how much this girl thing hurts me.. all I can do is get angry and cry!! Please Help. I love this boy!

2007-11-27 23:33:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please dont be smartas*es when answering. I am being serious!!! I want to know how not only a man but a woman can just walk out of a relationship without any emotions. Maybe I just care too much about people and have more compassion than most.

2007-11-27 23:31:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf likes ’guys nite’ once a week…which would be fine every few weeks buts its once a week…NOW it wasn’t always this way…but nearing yr together now an it became clearer tat the girlies werent always wanted out 4the night. Which is okay, but when I am there I want my mans attention? but he feels as we see so much of each other normally tat wen were out in a group with his mates he will wana talk 2them rather than give me his attention. Eg..He’l be on other side of room talking 2his buddies &leave me with a few of his mates. I then get all jealous and moody as I feel im not out often with them, so when I am a bit of his attention would be nice!Its now@stage where I wont go out with them as i don’t wana make a scene! I know its silly,hes very good &patient about it all, but i want it to all stop as i want to be able to go out with them ¬ even WANT his constant attention-i am possessive/controlling but that 1nite a week i wana be able 2control MYSELF! Anyone got helpful advice for me

2007-11-27 23:30:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

him smokes 50 fags a day and they both go out drinking regurly, she says she is sick got a bad leg yet my son sees her walking normally, he pays no maintaince says he,s unemployed yet they are going abroad, i have a good mind to call the dhss on them, cos i have had enuogh, she is a greedy pig and him should i

2007-11-27 23:21:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

some malaria tablets they are 50 pounds and his dad booked the holiday with his girfriend for two weeks even though he says he is unemployed and pays no money, wont tell me where he lives or does not have phone number, i have my grandchildren to bring up and really annoyed about this, what do you think of him

2007-11-27 23:19:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I honestly don't know how to interpret this. Bad? Good? Irrelevant?

Avoidance of eye contact, even while talking, except right before we parted ways.
Nervous laughter or laughter at unfit moments.
Spacing one's self kind of distantly from me while walking.
And little dialogue.

This is not a shy person. It's actually someone I hadn't seen in a while and really wanted to reconnect with, hence the meeting. When they were talking about how little free time they had in their life and how occupied they are with other people in their life I said, "I don't mean to intrude". They did kinda a quick little laugh/breath out thing and said "You're not intruding" by which I respond "Well, I just kinda feel like I -" and then they cut me off, looked me straight in the eyes and said "Trust me. You're not intruding".

Overall, I would describe their behavior as very friendly and nice, but distant and apathetic.

Does "Trust me. You're not intruding" mean "I like having you around" or...

2007-11-27 23:16:02 · 10 answers · asked by __ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

came into my night job, Pizza Hut yesterday,where I waited on him and his wife (who I am friendly with as well). I comped their entire $30 bill, and they did not leave me a tip!! I am furious, do you think I am wrong?

2007-11-27 23:12:31 · 5 answers · asked by sugarpie2 5 in Singles & Dating

You can say that I am consistently bad-mouthing you as a gender. I'm not. Just looking for reasons not to quit and give up.

You make fun of guys who live w/Mom. I dont...but if she is unable to take care of herself, why is it so wrong to move her into a spare bedroom? Ive read your posts about how this is a bad thing.

You want a guy who has a good enough job, can fix everything around the house, read to your kid and still talk out your problems with you. So why complain if we cant do one of those things?

Sensitive: weak. Putting boundries down: mean. Funny: insecure or slimy. Quiet: boring.

So this is what you want: a guy who dances w/you at the clubs when he's not working his steady job and not keeping in shape at the gym. Comes home and reads to the child you had w/someone else, "shares" but only about things that matter to you, doesnt have any interests that dont concern you or anything connected to you and gives you his paycheck.

I know, not all girls are like thi

2007-11-27 23:08:05 · 18 answers · asked by csiders30 4 in Marriage & Divorce

right, this is a bit of a confusing story..
my uncle got together with a woman about 9 years ago and they had a baby after two years, when the baby turned 3 they split up, she is now 7 and has always wanted to go to disney land (like all toddlers do!) but her mum cant afford it, so my uncle approached her mum and asked if he could take her daughter away next year for a week in disney land, she aggreed and so that was that!
but about a month ago my uncle started seeing another woman (nothing serious) and his X has turned round and to the courts and is claiming she never agreed to this holiday and she doesnt trust him no more and she doesnt want him to see his daughter, but she has had boyfriends before and that has never affected my uncle, now he is seeing someone (after tricky years with another daughter that is out of control, who has now moved out) she wont let him see his daughter, can she do this??

My uncle pays his way, he works, he never harms her, he is kind and responsible

2007-11-27 23:02:09 · 18 answers · asked by Mizz..Jaydean..x 1 in Family

I will try to make it simple:
I met this guy from India on internet 8 years ago, and since then, we kept talking.1 year ago, he asked me if i could ever be interested on a more serious relation, and i was so happy when i heard that, because among all people and boys i have met, he seemed the best for me, because our personalities were very much the same.
We met, he came here in my country, and we like eachother a lot!
And then, he asked me to marry, and i was so so so happy and immediately said yes. I was the happiest and luckiest girl in the word!!!
But, parents matter appeared, and they opposed so much, they hurt me extremely much. They opposed from first, said that, i should never go and live in India, because i'll not be happy. They have insulted me, pressured me to date other people, verbally, emotionally abused, and even hit me once.
I want to live with him in India, i love that country, i love the people, everything.
I'm from europe.
what to do?i'm in my early 20s

2007-11-27 22:55:19 · 12 answers · asked by Isis I 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-27 22:52:13 · 9 answers · asked by amiayus 1 in Singles & Dating

If someone cheats or leaves you what is the best revenge. Or just the best thing you can do?

2007-11-27 22:51:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My family friend for decades,7yrs best friends in love for yrs hasnt told me about his past.Only said he had ex-gf who got married had kids,he was in gang etc.This is my first bf or relationship.I want to know about his past not being nosy just to know him before marriage.We're to play truth or dare.Give questions for truth which i can ask to know about his past.Best questions get best answer 10points.

2007-11-27 22:51:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm on disability and my doctor won't release me for two month!!! My disability pay is nothing. i have two children and am seperated from my husband who doesn't pay.He was paying but is on a break from the military. I have two kids and need more than disability any ideas. I'm afraid if i work for a check they won't hold my job which they are being nice and waiting on me to come back. Any ideas i have even though about avon.

2007-11-27 22:47:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im really worried about her drinking probelm.

It's not that she drinks a lot on a daily basis. it's that there are a lot of family issues going on in her side of the family, i can't help her there because she believes that its a very personal issue (and theres also the fact that i don't speak chinese)

She only drinks usually when she's really down, which never happend a lot till now. I come home pretty late at night from my job, and during those days she visits her family, my first stop on the way home is our local bar where she's passed out in the table. then i gotta carry her home at about 2a.m. and tuck her in, then sleep.

Its really hard to keep doing this, the word "Rehab" makes her overprotective, so i try to be as helpful as i can during these times. Problem now is, the thought of having to take care of her every monday till this issue resolves makes it hard to hang on.

BTW: the bartender is a good friend of mine, he can't refuse to serve or delute his drinks, but he makes sure she's being watched for me

2007-11-27 22:43:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is it better to cheat rather than divorce ,y r men afriad to get a divorce,if it is only sex that most cheat 4,y not spice things up with the wife,married men act like they respect thier holy vows but still cheat.i know about the cake and eating it 2 thing,but that sounds like such a stupid excuse 4 cheating.is temptation that hard 2 resist.or r they really affriad of somrthing else.what is the biggest fear y men stay in thier marriage.the kids,the money,the house,thats all old and tired excuses. tell the truth men...tell the truth.i used 2 b with a married guy and i ended it but he acted like his world was crushed and i did the worst thing in the world by leaving him.he begged,we faught.tires were slashed, vases ended over heads,the never ending threats from each other,it took months 4 him to leave.so after leaving him,i was lead 2 ask,is sex so bad in marriages that instead of making things work with the wife they would rather cheat.IS IT REALLY SEX,do tell or is there more to it

2007-11-27 22:43:24 · 14 answers · asked by kim27 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi everyone, what are the signs that an unavailable guy fancies you?

2007-11-27 22:37:40 · 2 answers · asked by x_miss_cat_87_x 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-27 22:36:51 · 26 answers · asked by ferris2001mt 2 in Weddings

i met a guy he really has been wonderful he loves to take me places whatever movie i wanna see wherever i wanna eat what ever show what ever he has even cooked for me and brought the dinner to my job. makes sure my tank is full and i have a big old truck. but he says i am spoiled how am i spoiled

2007-11-27 22:36:00 · 4 answers · asked by latora_king 1 in Singles & Dating

wont get ahead just more and more behind.im worried as she has 2 small children

2007-11-27 22:35:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hello.
I've seem to have reached a dead end. I'm 40 yrs old now, have a well mannered child, good job, own house, own car. But for the last 2 yrs I've been dating a mentally abusive guy. Obviously, I didn't know for a long time what he was really all about. Bit like; 'You can't judge a book by it's cover!'.
In the beginning he was very big on honesty and communication. Being faithful was the most important thing as his wife of 17 yrs had an affair with his mate. Well, I've since found his profile on Adultfriendfinder.com (sex site)! He'll rejects me physically all the time but as soon as I walk out the door, he logs onto pornsites! We're building a house now but he always critizies me and rejects me yet compliments all other women in my presence though I'm quite attravtive. He blames me for everything though it has nothing to do with me i.e work. I'm finacially commited for 1yr at least. But how do I stay alive when I wake up everyday hoping it's my last - not wanting to look at me

2007-11-27 22:34:35 · 8 answers · asked by faithfulalways 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

hes in almost all her classes and everytime he will lean over and look at her and smile. once he evn danced in class and he was dancing right in front of her. and lastly he always does wat she says now. and he didnt want her to know he had a gf

2007-11-27 22:31:59 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

he's 29-no kids never married. i am 28 with 3 little girls (ages 8,6,and 5) that i have part-time. we've had a few issues in the past-i was diagnosed with PMDD but now on meds and seeing a counselor-things are good.

we don't live together but i spend almost all of my time at his house (we both work nites Sun-Tues 7p-7a) and the kids just started spending the nite with me at his house on weekends.

we've discussed living together by Feb when my apt lease is up and marriage in future. his sisters and parents treat me like family (his oldest sister's kids call me aunt) and we're all very close.

he goes to all of my kids' events (cheer class,school events,etc) and helps me pick the kids up from school.

he's dropped proposal hints in the past but hasn't in about 6 months. should i expect something in the near future or wait it out another year since things seem to be moving along ok?

2007-11-27 22:27:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My church says it is and it makes so much sense.

2007-11-27 22:24:58 · 26 answers · asked by Little Angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce