Please dont be smartas*es when answering. I am being serious!!! I want to know how not only a man but a woman can just walk out of a relationship without any emotions. Maybe I just care too much about people and have more compassion than most.
2007-11-27 23:31:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It does hurt like crap!!! I never complained, i love sports, and the sex was much better for him than myself. Trust me on that one. Maybe I just gave too much and he didn't know how to handle it except running away.
2007-11-27 23:46:48 · update #1
Sometimes the person has been so irritating or disrespectful that you are just DONE with them.
2007-11-27 23:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by so Fresh 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I hope this doesn't come off as sounding too uncaring....
The only thing that I can offer is that people's feelings change on a regular basis. You can't make someone love you if they don't.
Some people unconsciously don't allow themselves to completely fall in love with another person so if something happens to turn them off it's very easy for them to fall out of infatuation.
He may have truly loved the woman and fell out of love, but to keep the other person from being hurt they lied about their feelings.
He may have found someone else attractive.
I'm truly not trying to be harsh, but a question like this is hard to answer unless you know the parties involved.
If this is you we are talking about, I'm sorry that he hurt you. I'm sorry that the particular person that you fell in love with was a shallow type of person who can turn their feelings on and off.
You sound like you give a relationship everything that you are.
There is no inbetween with you. YOU will find someone that will love you for the long term. It just may take some time.
2007-11-27 23:48:37 · answer #2 · answered by MyMxboys is an *old bag too* 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You dont know what he is doing behind closed doors. He could be crying. If you gave all that and didnt get anything back, in the long run, he is doing you a favor, Walk away. Dont call him, nothing, no contact. See what happens while at the same time giving yourself time to grieve and thinking about why you stayed with someone who didnt give you the things you need. This is about you not him. Dont ask yourself why.
2007-11-28 00:03:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Men can be cruel when it comes to breaking up. Better that way than keeping you hanging just in case. You deal with your emotions and find you a good man now. Look with your mind not what you are drawn to. Emotoins and attractions can get us the wrong man, see thru the exterior and find what you are looking for.
2007-11-27 23:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by Sue 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are REALLY good at hiding their emotions. I know when I broke up with my last ex he never ever saw me cry about it - I was calous because I had to protect myself. I cried alone but he was none the wiser. It made me feel good to know he thought he had no negative impact on my life.
2007-11-27 23:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex of 22 years walked out on me without a backward glance. Yet he has never been able to tell me he doesn't love me. In fact, claims he still does. But he evidently loved his pregnant g/f more.
They think with their little brains, honey.
2007-11-28 02:07:35 · answer #6 · answered by LadyBug 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
the truth is i really don't know, but it happened to me.
all i know is that he loves me and is crazy about me. i say crazy because he does some crazy things and even goes out of his way just to make me feel special. i am not even convinced that it was all about sex because we never did it while we were on.he said that he just want to love me and care for me.
but then he just stopped loving me, just like that! he began being too busy and never has time to be with me anymore.
when i asked him why, he never gave me an answer and just drifted away from me. i never even got the chance to tell him how devastated i was. until now, it's one thing that sometimes bothers me, i want to know what i did that made him stoip loving me!
2007-11-27 23:53:50 · answer #7 · answered by sweetie 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there are a few reason a person can do that one is if you havn't gotten along for some time .
anther is real bad sex to him or her even though the other though it was good.if a person bitches to much thats a big trun off sorry you had to go though this it hurts i know
2007-11-27 23:37:58 · answer #8 · answered by easymoney 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can never underatand this, unless he never love the woman to begin with, and he is just using her for sex or whatever.
2007-11-27 23:35:11 · answer #9 · answered by WC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
some do care more then others ,,and he didn't realy truley care,,,then most do know how to use a womens love against them....sry,,take care...
2007-11-27 23:50:06 · answer #10 · answered by barp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋