Family & Relationships - 27 November 2007

I mean, don't you get the feeling that you should never trust anyone again? Because the person you trusted, has already revealed your secret to everyone. The person you considered your friend, has broken his promise?

2007-11-27 01:19:27 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Or would they rather they stayed sober for once or something else?

2007-11-27 01:19:19 · 32 answers · asked by witton ender 2 in Family

2007-11-27 01:17:39 · 20 answers · asked by ANDREW A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mum and dad have split up, and my dad was rather abusive to her...but unfortuntley, I'm just like him. I look like him, talk like him (Accent), think like him, but I'm not violent or anything- it's just, my Mum seems to see me in the same light, and she dosen't like who I am anymore.

She says that I am cold and angry towards her and my brothers and that she feels nervous whenever she is around, and i have no respect for her and expect her to do everything for me and then do nothing in return.

I am not the person she see me as. I have good friends, get on well in school, and live a generally chipper life- but she says I'm always scowling and angry- and I'm worried because that's exactly what she used to say to my dad.

And she would take the boys side in an argument any day. I can't do anything right in her eyes, I'm sorry I rambled...but i don't know what to do.

2007-11-27 01:17:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-27 01:16:58 · 35 answers · asked by meme 1 in Friends

Boyfirend has recently moved in but doesn't help with his share of the housework. I have spoken to him about it and we had a big row and he said he was going to move out because he was sick of the nagging. When we both calmed down he changed his mind and i explained i needed helping out now there was double the washing,cleaning but it has gone back to what it was like before again.
Also these past couple of days he has not been trying it on which he usually does then in one day he had a shower in the morning and a bath in the evening and seemed like he was avoiding me???

2007-11-27 01:10:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wouldn't remarry if i was either especially if there were kid involved and I'd probably end up tieing my tubes so I wouldn't give my children half siblings.

I say that because my parent were never married and I have 6 half sibling from dad and one from mom. I also only plan on being married once and all my children having the same father.

2007-11-27 01:09:02 · 19 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for 4 years and have a 3 year old together. 5 months ago I got laid off from my job of 9 years and started collecting unemployment my husband also got into a huge fight with his boss, quit his job of 3 years and decided he wanted to start his own business and work for himself. I told my husband I would keep collecting unemployment so that way I can stay home with my son and plus if I get a job they won't pay me the same I was getting from my old job and I would also have to pay for daycare. So he got a loan to open up a restaurant. It's now been 4 months he has not given me any money for bills because the restaurant is still not finished. I'm so stressed out. All he says is for me to wait and that he will start making alot of money. My unemployment is going to end next month and I also want to do something on my own but that will take some time I don't know how we're going to pay our bills in the meantime. We're both sick of working for other people

2007-11-27 01:08:27 · 5 answers · asked by Janice 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Or is it the user?

2007-11-27 01:03:15 · 23 answers · asked by janjaley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and the kid lives at their house? Esp when this new woman is moving in?
Anyone have any advice? My kid doesnt need a second mom.
He just lives there cause its easier for me to see him everyday this way, and I work.

2007-11-27 00:57:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-27 00:56:33 · 8 answers · asked by pedababu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My 15 year old daughter just returned from MI after visiting her grandmother and father for the holiday. She is really missing them and keeps saying that she hates staying in the state where we live. She is not focused on her studies and her mind is with them. She said that she cried the night before she came back and told her grandmother that she did not want to come back.

She lived with her father from age 10 to 15. She just moved here a few months ago. I understand her feelings, but don't know what to do. It hard moving when you are in high school, but I had no choice because I could not see myself reuniting with her father. I don't know what to do when she expresses these feelings.

Now, her Dad has vacation and wants to spend more time with her. He does not know that we are living in an apartment. He thinks that we are still living with my parents. He wants to come and visit over the holidays and has asked me two times. I don't know how to respond.

2007-11-27 00:51:41 · 7 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

My sister in law's husband has been sacked from the force for nearly four years now.
They have four childen and receive social services benefits(in Australia) They would get about $1000 a fortnight but her husband is also now working (receiving cash in hand - amd also social security benefits.
they are always crying poor, but whenever I see them, they have the latest new clothes, new hairstyles - spend $100's on hair colours, styles, cuts, etc.
Children have plenty of toys and new clothes and they recently bought a $500 dog to breed with their other $500 dog.

They cry poor a lot and say it's hard raising four children with little money.

Could there be more to it then this?

2007-11-27 00:46:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I live in germany and my baby live in Las Vegas................and i cant see him untill next year in March.................how can i go through this time without so much pain in my heart??????

2007-11-27 00:42:46 · 11 answers · asked by night_age_germany 4 in Marriage & Divorce

did it leave any memories??
happy/sad

2007-11-27 00:37:10 · 21 answers · asked by the bright side of life 3 in Singles & Dating

It is now two years pasted that I found out that my wife was emotionally invloved with another guy. For the sake of our kids I accepted that this mistake will pass away.
However, I can't stop myself blaming her of this mistake.
I can't stay with her because of this mistake and can't leave her because of the kids.
What should I do???

2007-11-27 00:36:07 · 18 answers · asked by buhanak 1 in Marriage & Divorce

First, he works over the road and isnt in till all most ever other weekend. I dont have any problems with that.

I have trust issues that im working on and he knows that, a few days ago his EX'wife came over to spend thanksgiving with her 2 boys that they had together.

Now i have a question for the women, would you get really pissed off if your husband played a song that had to do with sex while he's talking to his ex'wife and say a comment like this 'This reminds me of the good old days' and then they laugh. because thats what mine did, it made me so pissed off i was really sick. We took her home that thanksgiving night, but the next day he gets a call from one of his friends that i know and after he lookes at me as he turnes back to the road, he calls me by his ex'wifes name. I didnt say anything, normaly i would ***** at him for calling me that. But i didnt.

i would really like some help i have no clue as to what to do anymore.

2007-11-27 00:35:16 · 9 answers · asked by nickie20 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why do boys brag abou tthere diks?

2007-11-27 00:32:52 · 2 answers · asked by ix3you 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-27 00:32:29 · 17 answers · asked by x.X.x aimz x.X.x 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so here's the story and question....

I was with my girlfriend almost 5 years....we loved each other very much....we did have some fights and arguments.
I wasn't perfect, I did say mean things sometimes or do things but I have OCD and Borderline Personality Disorder.
Not all of it, but most of it was caused by my problems, I have been getting help and working on myself for the last
year and a half and been getting better. I regularly go to my therapist and psychiatrist and take my meds as prescribed.
I have gotten better. She left me 3 months ago because she said she didn't like the way I treated her. She is the type
that wants a "fairytale" relationship. Everyone has told her including her parents that she won't get that with anyone.
She also expects no fights or arguments. Well anyways she told me for the first two months after she left...that she
still wanted to be with me, she loves me, misses me, wants to know I'm serious about us, etc. Then two weeks after
that go by and she doesn't say much to me....well I texted her a lot but it was because when I tried to give her space
before by not texting as much, she would text me and say why are you ignoring me or I don't think you're serious about
this...and then when I did she didn't want me to text or wouldn't text me back most of the time.

2007-11-27 00:30:51 · 6 answers · asked by YouWillRegretIt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-27 00:15:55 · 18 answers · asked by *Rhian* 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi I am 41. I moved to my husbands country 18 yrs ago and have lived in depression ever since. Before I moved here I was a bit scared whether I liked it there, my husband said we would move back if I didn't like it here well 18 yrs later...I have also been very unhappy in my marriage.
I read self help book, I try to have hobbies. I try to go out when everyone's schedule lets me etc..but I just feel that I am just filling in time not living. I spoke to a therapist who said to divorce. My husband has done a couple of things which has caused my depression to get worse; i found him talking on line about BDSM and then getting me to do some of the acts I can't forget it that was over 3 yrs ago.

People say you can live anywhere and be happy and being with a man won't make you happy. Does that mean you can live with any man why then am I unhappy. What can I do to become happy again I really need help.

2007-11-27 00:10:40 · 4 answers · asked by tp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I'm the 20 yr old guy with feelings for the 27 yr old best friend who is married and has two kids. I don't want to lose his friendship but I need to get these feelings for him buried once and for all. If I tell him I love him more than a friend he will freak out and stop speaking to me. He's like an older brother, always looking out for me etc. Recently I decided to stop speaking to him even though we work together, I try to limit conversation but I feel really bad cause I know I'm hurting him.

How can I move on? I just want him to spend time with me...even though he's married and has kids I long to hang out with him like a normal friend. He's just so busy but at the same time I admire him.

How do I keep my best friend, dump this feelings and live happy?

2007-11-27 00:08:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends