Family & Relationships - 27 November 2007

2007-11-27 05:30:22 · 35 answers · asked by ∂ιαиα †Matisyahu† 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My shower was Sunday, and I've written out many of the thank you cards, but haven't written any to those I don't know well (like some of his cousins) who attended the shower. I just don't know what to say to fill the card. After I thank them for coming and for the gift, I just don't know what else to say, and I don't want to leave a large blank area on the card. Anyone have any ideas? They are a wonderful family and everyone has been great to me, I just feel a bit awkward writing the notes to those I don't really know. Any suggestions would be great. I'm looking for just 2 or 3 sentences. Thanks in advance.

2007-11-27 05:29:44 · 9 answers · asked by melouofs 7 in Weddings

My boyfriend then of 6 years, now husband for 9 years.. Why does he look at me different and treat me different when my weight changes? Im still the same person, He makes me feel less pertty, less wanted. I was pregnant but lost my baby so my weight is still on me, Im working on it though..Why does he make me feel like that? I'm not an ugly person, I'm beautiful,so, I tell myself since he doesnt..Maybe it's just my hormones that are driving me up this roller coster..

2007-11-27 05:28:49 · 10 answers · asked by zadie 1 in Singles & Dating

If they said that they were having a hard time feeding their kids. Would you buy it? Would it depend on how many kids they have? Would you think "at least they have a job"?

2007-11-27 05:27:59 · 13 answers · asked by Cas 4 in Marriage & Divorce

He trashed the place, so his dad talked to him about it and decided to nothing unless it happens again. I say don't let him have access to the house while we are gone out of town. He lives with his mom half of the time, and our house half the time. The kid thinks it is none of my business and told me to keep out of it, right in front of his dad. Dad just tells him to shut his mouth and changes the subject. My question to you, what would you do? Dad refuses to talk to me about it.

2007-11-27 05:25:16 · 5 answers · asked by Ellyn 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

His dad talked to him about it and decided to nothing unless it happens again. I say don't let him have access to the house while we are gone out of town. He lives with his mom half of the time, and our house half the time. The kid thinks it is none of my business and told me to keep out of it, right in front of his dad. Dad just tells him to shut his mouth and changes the subject. My question to you, what would you do? Dad refuses to talk to me about it.

2007-11-27 05:23:31 · 5 answers · asked by Ellyn 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

or sex before love?

2007-11-27 05:22:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well i feel like if its a one way from my side friendship. And im sick and tired of it! but i think that i have a crush on him too and well i think he is aware of it and thats why he is playing these mind games with me. i don't know how to ask him where we stand?

2007-11-27 05:22:42 · 7 answers · asked by DarK-AnGeLs-OpiNioN 2 in Friends

...when all you want to do is get a little 'lovin' now and then?

I say 30....agree, disagree?

2007-11-27 05:20:51 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I left my husband almost a year ago because he has a drinking problem. I left him because it wasn't fair to our kids anymore. I left him so he could get better but instead he found another girl and now she is pregnant. He was paying $100 a week but he hasn't paid me in 2 months because he doesn't work. Now he is saying he doesn't have to pay me because of a 1099. I have no clue what that means. Does anyone know what he is talking about? His girlfriend lives in free housing,so he is just living the life because he doesn't have to pay for his kids and now he is living rent free. I take care of our 2 daughters. Must be nice to be him right now!

2007-11-27 05:20:42 · 32 answers · asked by lvbrdy4vr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my husband have unsolved issues over his pearant's and their medling in our marriage , my husband always take their side and we fight over this, one day after a long argument and fight he threatend he will hurt me < i called the police , and he was so upset because I called the police , and at the same night when he came back from work we continued the fight and i threatned him if he does not leave the house. he left the house and called the police from outside and told them my wife is threatining me , what do u think about his behaviour , and does he hate me by doing thid , should I stay or leave him ???

2007-11-27 05:20:06 · 17 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i got married a year ago we had a party in our home town then went to vegas about half the people came to vegas and almost everyone to the party but i never sent out cards can i still do it?? and how??

2007-11-27 05:18:32 · 14 answers · asked by h_weant 1 in Weddings

My husband has hidden all scissors and cutting implements so I cannot do a self haircut. He said: "I don't know where they are, and neither do you, and it's going to stay that way. If you're going to get a haircut, why do you need to cut it yourself?" :D Does he care what I look like, or does he just want me not to make myself look like a punk and get fired and have no money for him? Oh, he also said: "I have a razor. Do you want to just shave it all off?"

Have a great day, guys! I'm going to go find something else to do and not notice how nothing I do matters (if it's for home.)

2007-11-27 05:18:18 · 8 answers · asked by dumbuglyweirdo 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked a question about this a while ago. You see it was a question about a male friend of mine who' I have tried my hardest to get with him proper if you all know what I mean. Have taken advice from everyone here on YA sorry guys he's SO not having it what do I do now?!

2007-11-27 05:17:27 · 27 answers · asked by mandy r 3 in Singles & Dating

Cant 2 people be happy and in love without social apporoval of marriage??????????

2007-11-27 05:16:30 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When they like a girl they show lots of interest at first and sometimes let her know they like her. Then as soon as she shows interest back, they withdraw or suddenly don't seem that interested no more?

2007-11-27 05:13:43 · 36 answers · asked by Heartfelt 3 in Singles & Dating

Whenever my hubby and I have a fall out (like tonight!), he always says he's 'sick of listening to me' or 'you never stop going on' blah blah blah. He's forever telling me how lucky I am to have him (and I am, he's a great hubby - I'm not denying that) but he never, ever tells me that he's lucky to have me. My question is if he feels that way, the way he speaks in arguments, why does he stay? Any men's views?!

2007-11-27 05:13:37 · 24 answers · asked by coca cola 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a relationship for 10 years out of those teen years, I have been married 2. My husband is abusive. I wont to leave, but I am hoping that things change.

2007-11-27 05:10:37 · 21 answers · asked by Mika B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The mother just cant seem to get her self together, what can the family do to help without inableiing her? She isnt on drugs or anything like that but just cant give up the compony of the someone thats bad for her and the kids.

2007-11-27 05:09:08 · 1 answers · asked by mcdonaldsnuggetaustin 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend has a problem with it. i can see his point, but i have the opportunity to make a lot of money! i really want to do it because i know i could do a good job, but i dont want to ruin my relationship!!! what should i do!?

2007-11-27 05:04:52 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know a lot of married men like to flirting with me...
do you feel the same way as I do ?
thks for answering..

2007-11-27 05:03:17 · 15 answers · asked by back2future 5 in Marriage & Divorce

How come all the hott bad-party girls like to get screwed and all drunk off there asses at a certain age, and then when they are like 28-30 years of age go for a guy that would of otherwise rejected them for being a floosie before?

2007-11-27 05:01:59 · 7 answers · asked by Nicki G 2 in Singles & Dating

in married and divorced....however my 9 month old cat went out two days ago, he left a Tom and came home with out his doo dads this morning.......anyone else ever had this happen? My husband and I are kind of freaked out. This is a true thing...it is really weirding me out.

2007-11-27 05:00:13 · 11 answers · asked by Rein 5 in Marriage & Divorce

and you weren't getting along with your spouse, you weren't having sex and their seem to be no attraction/connection, would you be tempted to have an affair with someone? Think about it and be honest. Don't just respond to look good.

2007-11-27 05:00:09 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-27 04:58:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm at school. My next class is P.E.

2007-11-27 04:56:47 · 12 answers · asked by ♣Social Butterflygirl 4 in Friends

I don't know what to do I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago now he won't talk to me .... I still love him and want to be with him but I don't know what to do we dated for 6 months and he alwayz told me that he loved me and that he wanted to be with me for the rest of my life and now I haven't talked to him for a month because he always ignores me .... PLease help me

2007-11-27 04:51:24 · 8 answers · asked by Proud mommy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-27 04:51:17 · 2 answers · asked by Alpha Mucho Macho 1 in Friends

Ok guys here is my story ; me and my bf have been together for the past 3 years but we only moved in together 4 months ago with rent. I have been offered a job but i will only be able to start working in few weeks because of paper work etc. He has to move to a different town at the end of Jan 2008 and he consideres to buy a flat and pay bank and mortgage instead of wasting money on rent. because i cannot take mortgage at the moment he consideres i should pay him rent if i want to move in with him so he can pay the mortgage. he said that if i do not want to do that then he would rent the spare room to someone else anyway to help him pay for his mortgage and i should find a place of my own to rent; Do you think it is fair of him to ask me to pay him rent considering that we would live together as a couple and all.... and split the living costs too; he also said that once i save up some money i could buy my share of mortgage for the house and finally own part of the property;until then...

2007-11-27 04:50:56 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-11-27 04:50:47 · 3 answers · asked by Alpha Mucho Macho 1 in Singles & Dating