Family & Relationships - 27 November 2007

She cheated on me and ask me to forgive her and give her another chance. I am too annoyed and i can do it. I am doing everything for her and her little dauther and i am of a great help to her parents also but she went out to commit this stupid act. What do you think? Plz help me.

2007-11-27 22:20:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi ihave a problem about my mom..

She had a depression...
My mom and my sister has bad relationship.
and now my mom thinks that im an enemy too.
we argue sometimes not because im hard headed.She is the one who makes our problem big.everytime she loud her voice on me.i just listen and i dont talk back so that theres a no big fight.The thing that i couldnt understand in her is she doesnt listen to my explaination...and her thought is always close?

how could i help my so she realize im not an enemy to her..
i trying to be nice and good..and doing my resposible as a son and friend also..can some1 give me an advice?

2007-11-27 22:18:24 · 5 answers · asked by dxterz 1 in Friends

You look at a beautiful girl / handsome boy. Their beauty attracts them. Sometimes their actions (like smile, sense of humor, style) attracts you.

Then you have the desire to get them. That desire converts to possessiveness. Do you call that as love?

2007-11-27 22:16:10 · 13 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok now i know drink is bad for you blah blah blah lol

But at the weekend i had about 4 glasses of wine and a dinner in between (soakish) lol but all of a sudden i started to get really down and takeing things people were saying to me offenise even tho it was a bit of light banter....i know im naturlly sensetive anyway but i felt really down and worried about what could happen....its like i get depressed i heard drink is a drepressent but i hat the fact it changes my thinking after only two drinks it makes me paranoid and i think every one cant stand me

2007-11-27 22:15:44 · 5 answers · asked by Pinkywinky 1 in Friends

My husband dont compliments me at all...and I just found that he been complimenting women here allot...and its really hurting me, feels like I am not attravtive at all...So i told him that i need a time and space that were going to seperated...and we have two kids. What should I do?

2007-11-27 22:12:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he's 29-no kids never married. i am 28 with 3 little girls (ages 8,6,and 5) that i have part-time. we've had a few issues in the past-i was diagnosed with PMDD but now on meds and seeing a counselor-things are good.

we don't live together but i spend almost all of my time at his house (we both work nites Sun-Tues 7p-7a) and the kids just started spending the nite with me at his house on weekends. my cat is now staying at his house too.

we've discussed living together by Feb when my apt lease is up and marriage in future. his sisters and parents treat me like family (his oldest sister's kids call me aunt) and we're all very close.

he goes to all of my kids' events (cheer class,school events,etc) and helps me pick the kids up from school.

he's dropped proposal hints in the past but hasn't in about 6 months. should i expect something in the near future or wait it out another year since things seem to be moving along ok?

2007-11-27 22:11:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am nearly 21 years old. Im a virgin n have been best mates wiv this stunning girl i met at college for 2 years, she's a year younger than me. I fancied her immediately, she's beautiful. I talked 2her n we became friends, she's really cool n we are always laughing! Shed a boyfriend til 5 months ago, i didnt like him, she was always moaning about him. Ive never had a girlfriend n i am clinically obese about 100lbs overweight. Id lots of friends in school who were girls but asked a few out who said 'no'. I went to a catholic school n was taught to respect women, i want my 1st time to be wiv some1 i love n care about. Me n this girl r close, always cuddling n holding hands. I get butterflys. I told her i loved her more than just friends n she returned my feelings. We were at my house, we kissed n she took her top off, she's sexy. I was all worked up n kissed her breasts, she pulled my head up n said 'NO'! then left! I feel i did something wrong? She's not answering my calls n i miss her!

2007-11-27 22:02:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would u consider that as cheating?

2007-11-27 22:02:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-27 22:01:18 · 3 answers · asked by tree dancer 3 in Friends

first,,,,3 kids-14 years and she was my friend...my ex's ''old'' lady is very ''j'' of me..and i am tired of it,,no matter what we are in each others lives for good!!( for my kids)..(thats it)''been there,,done that,,won't do it again..ne ways,,i told him just cause she would do her ex's ,,don't mean i would do mine..my kids bein involved with their dad is important to me,,i didn't have mine...their dad lives in diff''province and their phone calls have slowed down alot,,when they went to visit they came home like 1 1/2 months early,,cause she kicked them all out..they came home and then he went back...oh ya..he can only call,,when he is at her house...should and do i really deal with this kinda imaturity from her,,she is involved with her ex weekly (cause of her kids)..i don't think my kids ''happiness'' is worth her stupidness..i know the happiness i want and it ain't him (not at all)..so why all the b's from her,,she was my friend.. =(... i thought she would ''try'' with my kids.

2007-11-27 22:00:00 · 8 answers · asked by barp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-27 21:58:32 · 9 answers · asked by Red 3 in Singles & Dating

we would argue over small, little, unimportant things.. like when i was asking for payment from someone who owed me money , i wrote ''where the hell is my payment'' and we fought because of that usage of word hell.. he also doesnt like me to have myspace or facebook because he said they are useless and stupid. there was a time he had facebook once so i wrote him sweet comments on his profile and the next day, he deleted his account! he was so unappreciative.. i also cannot watch porn because he said its a sin, he doesnt like me swearing or utter bad words etc.. hes a christian and he didnt show all this until we married..other than this flaws, hes kind, sweet, good provider and i know he loves me deeply.. shall i leave him? his narrow mindedness is killing me day after day..

2007-11-27 21:54:56 · 17 answers · asked by M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If so, how? I think sometimes men can expect too much and be too harsh.

2007-11-27 21:54:16 · 29 answers · asked by Little Angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my guy have been dating a month, everything going smooth i like him he ays he really likes me and so on. He is retired at 53 lives a really peacefull and quiet life his 2 kids are grown and on there own, He has up to this point been very honest never been late makes dates and keeps them all the time always tells me we can do what ever i want and he he is reliable and keeps his word, Now here is the problem he has this big x-mas eve dinner every year. I asked him could i come he said he didnt know what is that all about. i will add up until this point he has not met my family i havent met his.

2007-11-27 21:51:51 · 13 answers · asked by latora_king 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this girl i really like and on valentines day i gave her a rose .she semmed really happy and thanked me and she immidietely asked me wether i got a rose only for a her or am i carryin 4 or 5 more in my bag.i replied no i have got only 1 for you. she seemed happy but she says she likes me only as a friend(she says this to her friends).what does this mean?if she doesnt like me then why was she concerned wether she was the only person i gave a rose to?was she just trying to help her confidence by making sure she was the only one who got it from me nothing else or could it me she doesn have something for me coz she keeps givin me mixed signals and also flirts.

2007-11-27 21:50:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-27 21:47:26 · 12 answers · asked by 100% husaina 3 in Family

2007-11-27 21:46:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When I try to approach her about it she immediately tries to turn the tables on me by saying I have a gambling problem. This may be true, but that is a completely different issue! What do I do!?

2007-11-27 21:34:23 · 23 answers · asked by Jimbo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my teacher have been gettin really close and about a week ago i started to see her out of school.
we have been hanging out and i like her and i know she likes me.
last night on the fone we started to talk about sex..
what should i do.. im old enough :S:S

2007-11-27 21:23:04 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Things have been getting extremely tense lately between me and my sister in-law, the sexual tensions are EXTREME to say the least.Me and my sister in-law have had secret crush on each other ever since we met each other (throu my wife of course). I have given hints that i liked her (like slapping her on the but, she lets me peak on her underwear\thong when she bends down,kissing etc..) all with out my wife knowing.We feel like "Romeo and Juliet" , being torn apart by my wife.How can get past my bothersome wife and get me and my sister in-law together (Even if it just for one night) I don't care. I just want me and her to have sex, if my wife MUST break apart are love then ill accept it, but i MUST have sex with her just ONCE. How could i pull this off with out my wife finding out?

2007-11-27 21:11:20 · 23 answers · asked by Bobby 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I sunk to checking my partner's email. Something that I am not proud of but it highlighted something that I had feared but had never been able to find any proof of.
I found out that my partner has had an emotional relationship with another man (for over a year now), with whom she had physically been with before we started our relationship.
They live in other countries so meeting is not an option at the moment but I feel betrayed by her emotional intimacy with another man. She describes it as their 'problem' because he is in a loveless marriage and they both feel that they are in love with two people at the same time.
I am not going to tell her that I checked her email because I know it was wrong (even if it did confirm my fears) but I am having a hard to coming to terms with ending the relationship. Especially since she keeps telling me that she will do anything to make our relationship work.
Has anyone else been in a similar relationship and has some advice?

2007-11-27 21:04:53 · 6 answers · asked by Favour 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

are you in favor or against divorce? and why?!?

2007-11-27 21:02:14 · 24 answers · asked by Hanna M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my mum keepds recieving my texts i send to my boyfriend and i find that a privacy breach is she allowed to do it?

2007-11-27 20:58:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

baby ,darling. sexy what pet name could i call you that you really loved to be called?

2007-11-27 20:55:45 · 15 answers · asked by jackie n 3 in Singles & Dating

Hello,

I would never cheat on my husband and I love him so much, but I really fancy Bruce Campbell (the film star) and fantasize about him.

I feel guilty for thinking this, but he's so gorgeous...I feel like this is like cheating, fantasizing about another man. Does it not matter though as it's a filmstar??

2007-11-27 20:50:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i hav a bf and we use to get along adn be best friends until we decided to tell each other that we liked each other now we are sort of breaking up in friendship we dont talk anymore wat do i tlak to him about

2007-11-27 20:49:55 · 5 answers · asked by Jessica H 1 in Friends

My Nan has been in an old people's home for the last 12 months and refuses to get out and visit us. We see her every week but it is coming up for christmas and we want her out on christmas day. She says that she has a bad stomach but it's just in her head. We've tried being nice, blackmail, bribery, and trickery but nothing will get her out.

What can I do?

2007-11-27 20:47:00 · 8 answers · asked by thomas j 1 in Family

2007-11-27 20:43:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm about to sleep with my boyfriend, he is not a virgin, and i've only had sex once, any tips?

2007-11-27 20:42:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband works away all week home at weekends. Whilst away at night when he goes out for a pint, he switches his phone off. If i get upset he will switch it off all night so he says we dont argue. I dont know which area he works and only allowed his mobilie number, so i no other way of contactin him. When he is home, we get on very well, only thin is we dont have a love life. He says he wants me but sexually never feels like it, it is the way he is. Before we married our sex life was fine.I have tried every trick in the book, he wont go to counsellin cause he says there is nothin wrong, it is the way he is. sex four times in two half years is not a lot with your husband. I asked about an affair, he nows says im parnoid and sick in head and need help. Am i mad?

2007-11-27 20:33:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce