Hello,
I would never cheat on my husband and I love him so much, but I really fancy Bruce Campbell (the film star) and fantasize about him.
I feel guilty for thinking this, but he's so gorgeous...I feel like this is like cheating, fantasizing about another man. Does it not matter though as it's a filmstar??
2007-11-27 20:50:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ps: Here is a photo:
http://www.quicksilverweb.net/hotlist/c3/3campbell.jpg
I don't mean I think about him all the time, just sometimes. And I feel guilty that I find another man attractive :-/
2007-11-27 21:54:58 · update #1
It's perfectly fine. That's why it's called a fantasy, because it's not real. Tell your husband about it and maybe the two of you can do some roleplaying games. Have fun with it.
2007-11-27 20:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by whotoblame 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can relate in a way. Bruce Campbell is a cutie. However, he doesn't really look anything like the headshot you posted anymore. It isn't cheating as long as you love your husband and aren't neglecting him so that you can spend time fantasizing about Bruce. It might be in your best interest to ground yourself mentally a bit. I'm sure you are romanticizing him in your head since you really don't know him and aren't aware of his faults. I would suggest taking that passion you have for Bruce and channeling it into relations with your husband. Hail to the king, baby.
2007-11-28 15:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by theflynnmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women like scented candles. You may fantasize about Bruce but he remains a rather idealized screne image. The person you love is there in the flesh. As long as your love for him (the fleshy one) is strong then a little fantasy doesn't hurt.
Campbell reminds me of Dudley Dooright.
2007-11-28 04:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All humans fantasize at some time or another. It is normal, as long as you are not obsessed.
2007-11-28 04:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jsut don't obsess on it. Try to think about your man more, and leave Autaulicus/Ash/Jack in the movies.
2007-11-28 05:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't relate because I have no idea who he is.... sorry...and hell no it does not matter honey cause it's all fantasy!!
Dream on.
2007-11-28 05:04:10 · answer #6 · answered by gloria b 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha! I bet you wish this was your hand.
http://images.art.com/images/PRODUCTS/large/10102000/10102407.jpg
2007-11-28 04:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋